Comment by Zin Zen (zin-zen) on 100 Tips for a Better Life · 2021-01-01T19:21:16.785Z · LW · GW

Also absolutely agree with this first point. Many of my relationships began as friendships and comfortably reverted to friendships when the romantic relationship was no longer working. In fact, I am often suspicious when someone is unable to get along with exes, or at least have a civil relationship. It makes me question that person's capacity towards forgiveness and also wonder whether they have a tendency to drama.