Micro Habits that Improve One’s Day

post by silentbob · 2023-07-01T10:53:57.280Z · LW · GW · 9 comments

Contents

  Some Anecdotes
  Final Remark
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This is my fifth attempt at writing this post. I’m starting to think that I’ve already spent way too much time on this topic, which I’m convinced is valuable, but maybe not so valuable as to spend 20 hours perpetually rewriting a post about it. So obviously my solution is to rewrite it again, but this time in bullet points. 

Here’s a tl;dr: There are some habits people can pick up that are very cheap, and may have positive effects, but these effects are too small to reliably notice consciously. Hence these habits are often neglected. In this post I argue to take some of these habits more seriously, and if they’re low-cost enough for you to implement, stick to them even absent of any feeling of them being useful.



Left: Your average day before micro habits. Right: Micro habits improve your day. Note: Micro habits (probably) don’t actually improve the weather.

Some Anecdotes

 

Final Remark

One could argue this post argues in favor of bad epistemics. There’s a lot of potential placebo effects going on here, particularly in my anecdotes, and it’s unclear if any of these are really linked to actual effects, and if the causality is remotely close to what I suggest. There’s some risk of self deception that should be avoided.

I would agree with this viewpoint, but would also add that this post is less about finding true facts about the world, and much more about finding ways to optimize one’s own personal daily life that actually work – and if these ways happen to rest partially on placebo effects and/or incorrect assessments, then I’m fine with that as long at the overall impact is positive. If you find ways to implement five micro habits at near-zero cost to you, only two of which are load-bearing and actually improve your life while the other three are neutral, that to me still seems like a win, and it may well be the case that just sticking to this routine is a better option than to invest more effort into trying to figure out the actual truth about which of these useful and which are not.

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comment by RomanHauksson (r) · 2023-07-04T04:28:21.454Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

I've also reflected on "microhabits" – I agree that the epistemics are tricky, of maintaining a habit even when you can't observe causal evidence for it being beneficial. I'll implement a habit if I've read some of the evidence and think it's worth the cost, even if I don't observe any effect in myself. Unfortunately, that's the same mistake homeopathics make.

I'm motivated to follow microhabitats mostly out of faith that they have some latent effects, but also out of a subconscious desire to uphold my identity, like what James Clear talks about in Atomic Habits.

Like when I take a vitamin D supplement in the morning, I'm not subconsciously thinking "oh man, the subtle effects this might have on my circadian rhythm and mood are totally worth the minimal cost!". Instead, it's more like "I'm taking this supplement because that's what a thoughtful person who cares about their cognitive health does. This isn't a chore; it's a part of what it means to live Roman's life".

Here's a list of some of my other microhabits (that weren't mentioned in your post) in case anyone's looking for inspiration. Or maybe I'm just trying to affirm my identity? ;P

  • Putting a grayscale filter on my phone
  • Paying attention to posture – e.g., not slouching as I walk
  • Many things to help me sleep better
    • Taking 0.3 mg of melatonin
    • Avoiding exercise, food, and caffeine too close to bedtime
    • Putting aggressive blue light filters on my laptop and phone in the evening and turning the lights down
    • Taking a warm shower before bed
    • Sleeping on my back
    • Turning the temperature down before bed
    • Wearing headphones to muffle noise and a blindfold
  • Backing up data and using some internet privacy and security tools
  • Anything related to being more attractive or likable
    • Whitening teeth
    • Following a skincare routine
    • Smiling more
    • Active listening
    • Avoiding giving criticism
  • Flossing, using toothpaste with Novamin, and tounge scraping
  • Shampooing twice a week instead of daily

I haven't noticed any significant difference from any of these habits individually. But, like you suggested, I've found success with throwing many things at the wall: it used to take me a long time to fall asleep, and now it doesn't. Unfortunately, I don't know what microhabits did the trick (stuck to the wall).

It seems like there are three types of habits that require some faith:

  1. Those that take a while to show effects, like weightlifting and eating a lot to gain muscle.
  2. Those that only pay off for rare events, like backing up your data or looking both ways before crossing the street.
  3. Those with subtle and/or uncertain effects, like supplementing vitamin D for your cognitive health or whitening your teeth to make a better first impression on people. This is what you're calling microhabits.
comment by Going Durden (going-durden) · 2023-07-03T10:26:25.845Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

One of the main ways I managed to instill good habits in myself is to both use optimal paths to good habits, and closing optimal paths to sub-optimal habits. The trick is to make a good habit easier than it is annoying, and a bad habit more annoying than it is preferable.

Examples:

Hydration - I simply place a 2l water bottle by the apartment door every evening. It becomes impossible for me to leave the house without picking it up, and once it is in my hand, Im so much more likely to drink from it and take it with me than forget.

Exercise: I bought dumbbells to work out with, but consciously made no place to put them. I just place them on my gaming chair, so it becomes impossible to use the PC  without lifting the dumbbells. But the moment they are literally in my hands, it is easier to just pump a few curls than not.

Exercise/commute: I'm trying to unlearn driving everywhere, and bike whenever I can. I just place my car keys in my bike's frame pouch. This way I cannot leave the house without touching my bike, and once I do, its easier to just hop on it and ride away.

Diet: I always struggled with weight, and the one "simple trick" that actually worked for me was brushing my teeth ASAP after dinner. Since my teeth are already brushed, and it would be annoying to do so again, Im much less likely to snack after dinner. If the urge to snack is really strong, I just use some mouthwash, which not only makes me even more disinclined to soil my super-clean teeth, but no snacks taste good when my mouth is super minty/mentholly.

Waking early: the path to a sub-optimal habit is to hit snooze on the alarm and go back to sleep. Breaking the habit was as easy as placing the alarm clock in the bathroom, so I would have to walk across the entire house to turn it off, and once I do, Im already where I need to be to brush my teeth and shave, so might as well do so.


They reason why these are working is that all those habits are relatively weak, and a small tweak to how annoying would they be, means all the difference. Its basically weaponizing my own laziness/procrastination against itself. The goal is to make myself spend extra energy walking around and looking for things needed for my bad habits, and the things needed for the good habits to be always in my path.

comment by Amarko · 2023-07-02T14:52:00.732Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

I've definitely noticed the pattern of habits seeming to improve my life without them feeling like they are improving my life. On a similar note, a lot of habits seem easy to maintain while I'm doing them and obviously beneficial, but when I stop I have no motivation to continue. I don't know why that is, but my hope is that if I notice this hard enough it will become easier for me to recognize that I should do the thing anyway.

comment by [deleted] · 2023-07-02T03:30:11.833Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

"Keeping CO2 levels low" 

Thanks for this reminder. I read about this problem a long time ago but I forgot about it since. Very low effort required; I can just open the door to my room and window to allow for ventilation. 

However, there may be conditions which prevent others from following this advice.

-During winter, opening windows will raise your heating bills like mad. A temporary solution is to wear thick and lower that thermostat but I think most won't like this for long if they do even start trying. As of writing, I am in summer so opening the windows everywhere is not a problem.

-During night time, same reason as above. Also, you may catch a cold.

-Not everyone has a good ventilation system installed in their homes. Such system would indeed solve both problems I mentioned above but I live in an old house and I shudder at the cost of installing a good ventilation system in my home (not everyone's rich!). Ventilation is a difficult problem regardless and I make an analogy to computer casing ventilation systems. If not setup/maintained correctly, hot/bad air may stubbornly stay in the casing/home.

-The region in which the home is in is very polluted. A really good ventilation is probably needed.

Anyways, I am thinking about buying up some air-purifying plants. Any other solutions I welcome.

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comment by silentbob · 2023-07-04T06:57:48.535Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

During winter, opening windows will raise your heating bills like mad.

Opening several windows/doors widely for a few minutes every couple of hours, rather than keeping one of them open for longer times, is supposed to mostly prevent this, as this will exchange the air in your room without significantly cooling down floor/walls/furniture. But of course you're still right that it's a trade-off, and for some people it's much easier to achieve consistently good CO2 levels than for others. For many it may be worth at least getting a CO2 monitor to be able to make better informed decisions.

comment by CrimsonChin · 2023-07-02T14:47:24.801Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

I'll add three that I like, although I know an extensive list isn't the purpose of this post.

  1. exercise outside for 20 mins (or inside of raining) is long-term healthy and short -term mood boosting.
  2. 10 minutes of something comedic (YouTube or Netflix) in the morning helps my mood
  3. background music for chores/work/productiveness.

I love the idea of experimenting and for me that's not the hard part. It is hard to think up new interventions. Maybe I'm just bad at ideas but supplementing creatine for instance is something I would NEVER think up on my own, I kind of rely on others to help with the ideas. I love posts along this vein that give me ideas to test improvements

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comment by Amarko · 2023-07-02T14:55:35.468Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

Similar to point 2: I find that reading a book in the morning helps my mood. Particularly a physical fiction book.

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comment by Celenduin (michael-grosse) · 2023-07-03T06:43:07.659Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

What is "physical fiction"?

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comment by RomanHauksson (r) · 2023-07-04T04:31:09.927Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

They meant a physical book (as opposed to an e-book) that is fiction.