The 8 Techniques to Tolerify the Dark World

post by adamShimi · 2020-07-20T00:58:04.621Z · LW · GW · 5 comments

The world is dark. People die all the time in horrible and stupid ways, inequalities roam more freely than in a Ramanujan notebook, outrage and partisanship boil everyone's mind and temper to permanent overdrive.

In this context, there is only one solution: tolerifying. When the going gets tough, let's convince ourselves it is in fact a breeze. But despite the obviousness of this advice, one might be lost. How to tolerify? How to ensure that the dark, dark world becomes a place where one can live in peace?

Lost souls, this post is for you. Here are 8 techniques that will ensure a tolerable universe.

A word of warning to conclude: each technique requires a full commitment and permanent usage. If you merely try them and then stop, you might refresh your mind and see with even more detail the Dark World.

Or God forbid, actually do something about it.

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comment by TSAstron · 2020-08-02T20:18:55.065Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

Hmm went through 5 out of 8 (not on purpose), and I would say it's the other way around: more details emerge after thorough exploration, and the technique stops working. Although sometimes it is more of a natural lifestyle than a conscious technique.

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comment by adamShimi · 2020-08-03T18:40:18.882Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

Yes, I was more thinking about doing them by default than continuously thinking about them. If you actually do the latter, they might indeed stop working.

comment by MatthewHawkchurch · 2020-07-23T19:34:13.389Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

This post strikes me as broadly outlining some coping mechanisms, and then saying these are bad because people do them instead of actually fixing anything. There's some important nuance there that's lacking, and I suspect this post will do more harm than good by making people feel bad about coping mechanisms / strategies that let them tolerate the world, without helping them do anything else. I mean, the self-dig is sweet and I guess indicates that we're all struggling with this balance together, but still.

(Apologies if this is harsh: I also can't decide if I find the tone more fun-to-read or insulting, and I'm leaning towards 'insulting'. It's a close call though, props for trying something unusual.)

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comment by adamShimi · 2020-07-24T00:13:29.704Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

On the contrary, that comment is great! Nothing is more frustrating when posting here to see the karma go down without anyone pointing out what they think is wrong.

I wrote this as an outlet for my frustration with my own coping mechanisms, and thus was pretty tongue in cheek. But I see how a reader could feel attacked or mocked. Maybe this shows that the value of this piece was in writing it, not in someone else than me actually reading it.

comment by Blippo · 2020-07-20T15:06:28.911Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

8/8 (Serenity)