The Case For Bullying

post by Alexej Gerstmaier (alexej-gerstmaier-1) · 2024-10-26T04:56:16.282Z · LW · GW · 8 comments

This is a link post for https://lexposedtruth.com/p/the-case-for-bullying

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My very first Substack article ever! It outlines the rational case for Bullying. Would be grateful for some feedback.

  1. Opens with a heartwarming story about how getting bullied for gaming helped kick the habit
  2. I argue that social status is like a pie - someone always has to lose for others to win
  3. I try to prove this point by attacking common counter-arguments and picking apart scientific studies

The whole thing is written in a provocative style (inspired by TLP/Sadly Porn, The Walt Right, GLO, Curtis Yarvin...) meant to challenge mainstream views on the topic.

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comment by justinpombrio · 2024-10-29T17:00:04.426Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

I double-downvoted this post (my first ever double-downvote) because it crosses a red line by advocating for verbal and physical abuse of a specific group of people.

Alexej: this post gives me the impression that you started with a lot of hate and went looking for justifications for it. But if you have some real desire for truth seeking, here are some counterarguments:

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comment by justinpombrio · 2024-10-29T20:35:16.891Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

And for a visceral description of a kind of bullying that's plainly bad, read the beginning of Worm: https://parahumans.wordpress.com/2011/06/11/1-1/

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comment by Alexej Gerstmaier (alexej-gerstmaier-1) · 2024-11-01T08:31:34.822Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

Thanks for linking, I love Worm

comment by Alexej Gerstmaier (alexej-gerstmaier-1) · 2024-11-01T08:33:55.186Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

Hi Justin, I already read both the posts you linked there.

My desire for Truth is overwhelmingly strong, I would change my stance if anyone would present some actual counter-arguments that go beyond the surface level.

Will give longer rebuttal later, am currently on vacation in Spain 🤝

comment by Gunnar_Zarncke · 2024-10-27T06:21:28.107Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

The post was likely downvoted because it conflicts with principles of empathy, cooperation, and intellectual rigor. Defending bullying, even provocatively, clashes with commonly held beliefs. The zero-sum framing of status is overly simplistic, ignoring positive-sum approaches. The provocative style comes off as antagonistic. Reframing the argument around prosocial accountability might get more positive responses.

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comment by quiet_NaN · 2024-10-27T13:28:55.583Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

Getting down-voted to -27 is an achievement. Most things judged 'bad AI takes' only go to -11 or so, even that recent  P=NP proof only got to -25. Of course, if the author is right, then downvoting further is providing helpful incentives to him. 

I think that bullying is quite distinct from status hierarchies. The latter are unavoidable. There will always be some clique of cool kids in the class who will not invite the non-cool kids to their parties. This is ok. Sometimes, status is correlated with behaviors which are pro-social (kids not smoking; donating to EA), sometimes it is correlated with behaviors which are net-negative (kids smoking; serving in the SS). I was not part of the cool kids circle, and I was fine with that. Live and let live and all that. 

'Bullying' has a distinct negative connotation. The central example is someone who is targeted for sport for being different from the others. The bullies don't want the victims to change their ways, they just like to make their life miserable for thrills. I am sure that sometimes it unintentionally helps their victim, if you push enough people, at some point you are bound to push someone out of the path of a car or bullet. In the grand scheme of things, the bullies are however net negative for their victims and society overall. 

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comment by Alexej Gerstmaier (alexej-gerstmaier-1) · 2024-11-02T06:20:10.863Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

"Bullying has distinct negative connotation"

I mention the concept of Russell Conjugation multiple times in my article. Did you read it?

"Bullies have bad intentions"

Intentions don't matter, results do. That's why capitalism works

comment by Alexej Gerstmaier (alexej-gerstmaier-1) · 2024-11-02T06:25:50.653Z · LW(p) · GW(p)

Just a quick comment from my side:

PLEASE JUST READ YUDKOWSKY'S SEQUENCES

This post has received a lot of downvotes so far with NO substantive counter arguments from you guys. Please don't be misled by your emotions and try to look beyond the surface layer. Substance >> Style

It looks to me you're falling prey to some trivial Russell Conjugation. Please reread the sequences and take the following to heart:

"the real secret to rationality is noticing when someone is saying something for reasons unrelated to its truthfulness, and then applying this to yourself"

I'm open to changing my stance, I just want to figure out the actual truth. Common guys, you're better than this