Love, Reverence, and Life
post by Elizabeth (pktechgirl), Tristan Williams (tristan-williams) · 2023-12-12T21:49:04.061Z · LW · GW · 9 commentsContents
Reverence for Life The Bar for A Worthwhile Life The Sterility of Negativity in Vegan Advocacy Navigating Epistemic Warzones None 9 comments
Vegan advocates frequently argue that compromise positions like heavily reduced but nonzero meat consumption, humane certifications, or choosing meat with a lower suffering profile are not acceptable. The usual reason given is that the compromises aren't emotionally sustainable, and people inevitably slide back into full blown omnivorism. I (Elizabeth) never found this satisfying, emotionally or logically, and follow up discussions never went anywhere useful. Recently* Tristan gave an answer I did find satisfying, and made me suspect a follow-up discussion would be highly educational.
This is that follow up discussion, and it was indeed very educational. We dove deep into what taking reverence for life as your central value might mean, and how failing to center on this might be risky or invite some degree of sterility. I (Tristan) felt able to express some views I'm not always able to convey, and deeply appreciated the continued curiosity and help forgining those views that occured throughout. And though we might still hold quite differing views at the end of the day, this feels like a further step taken in epistemic good will that will hopefully help foster more conversations like it in the future.
*Well, it was recent when we started this. Progress has been fairly slow, which is one reason we're publishing now rather than waiting for a better stopping point.
Reverence for Life
The Bar for A Worthwhile Life
The Sterility of Negativity in Vegan Advocacy
Navigating Epistemic Warzones
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comment by Vaniver · 2023-12-14T23:06:08.829Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
To have this sort of love, this commitment to preventing suffering, with animals to me means pretty much just drawing the line at sentient beings and trying to cultivate a basic sense that they matter and that "it's just bad" to eat them.
I feel like the dialogue circled this for a while, and I want to try to poke directly at it again. I think my line is something like "try to only make trades that the other party 'would' consent to," which means eating high-welfare meat if it seems likely that the animals net prefer being raised to be eaten that way to not existing, tho ofc we have to use our judgment instead of theirs. [This article convinced me to avoid chicken products, for example.] It seems to me like you don't accept this, like in this section here:
When I first started to change my diet, I was most appalled at factory farming, and remember that first call with my parents afterwards, trying to soothe their worries by saying "no, no, this doesn't apply to our animals, I'll keep chowing down on Williams family steaks don't you worry. I'll spare you the details, but long story short I came into the thinking of the above slowly and found myself eventually unable to eat even our products, because now it wasn't a steak on my plate, it was a piece of a cow, maybe even a cow like the one I bottlefed for a year growing up and then sold for slaughter, a good cow named Max.
Like, I think in the picture where you're only willing to eat Max because of a sense that Max was grateful to have been alive at all, this works. Max might have even more preferred to be a pet, but that's not on offer to all hypothetical Maxes. It's only if there's a clear separation between the friends and food category that this doesn't work, and I see how having that category is consistent but it's not obvious to me that it's the right end goal. (I think many historical people have viewed animals as sacred / people / etc. and also as food.)
[Like, you talk about "what if climate change is solved and all the enviro-vegans disappear?", but this feels to me like that worry is somehow broken; like, what if all the factory farms disappear, and on net all farmed animals are grateful to exist? Then it seems like Mission Accomplished to me, even tho I imagine you will still want to be vegan in that world.]
The story that you tell afterwards is mostly about the standards for checking being too high, but I am not sure how practical that is. You bring up the hypothetical of opposing child slavery coal mines, but I think this is actually a problem for cacao production, and so I try to be about as selective in my chocolate sourcing as I am in my steak sourcing--with the understanding that the ethics of "fair trade" or "grass finished" includes some amount of fraud and errors.
Replies from: tristan-williams↑ comment by Tristan Williams (tristan-williams) · 2023-12-19T10:56:19.631Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Thanks for the continued dialogue, happy to jump back in :)
I think it's very reasonable to take a "what would they consent to" perspective, and I do think this sort of set up would likely lead you to a world where humane executions and lives off the factory farm were approved of. But I guess I'd turn back to my originial point that this sort of relation seems apt to encourage a certain relation to the animal that I think will be naturally unstable and will naturally undermine a caring relationship with that animal.
Perhaps I just have a dash too much of deontology in me, but if you asked me to choose between a world where many people had kids but they ate them in the end, or a world of significantly fewer kids but where there was no such chowing down at the end of their life, I'd be apt to choose the latter. But deontology isn't exactly the right frame because again, I think this will just sort of naturally encourage relationships that aren't whole, relationships where you have to do the complicated emotional gymnastics of saying that you love an animal like their your friend one day and then chopping their head from their body the next and savoring the flavor of the flesh on the grill.
Maybe my view of love is limited, but I also think nearly every example you'd give me of people who've viewed animals as "sacred or people" but still ate them likely had deficient relationship to the animal. Take goats and the Islamic faith, for example. It's not fully the "sacred" category like cows for Hindus, but this animal has come to take a ritualistic role in various celebrations of the relgion, and when I've talked to Muslims about what the reason for this treatment, or things being Halal are, they will normally point out that this is a more humane relation to have with the animal. The meat being "clean" is supposed to imply, to some degree, "moral", but I think this relation isn't quite there. I've seen throat cuttings from Eid which involve younger members of the family being brought into the fold by serving as axeman, often taking multiple strikes to severe the head in a way of slaughter that seems quite far from caring. One friend of mine, who grew up in India with his family raising a number of goats for this occassion, often saw the children loving the goats and having names for them and such. But on Eid this would stop, and I think what the tradition left my friend with is a far more friendly view to meat consumption than he would have developed otherwise.
My last stab at a response might be to bring up an analogy to slavery. I take the equivalent of your position here to be "look, if each slave can look at the potential life he will hold and prefer that life to no life at all, then isn't that better than him not existing at all?" And to me it seems like I'd be again called to say "no". We can create the life of a slave, we can create the life of a cow who we plan to eat in the end, but I'd rather just call off the suffering all together and refuse to create beings that will be shackled to such a life. It's not a perfect analogy, but I hope it illustrates that we can deny the category entirely, and that that denial can open us up to a better future, one without slaves who prefer their life to not existing, but fellow citizens, one without farmed animals who prefer their life to not existing, but of pets we welcome happily into our families. That is the sort of world I hope for.
Replies from: Vaniver↑ comment by Vaniver · 2023-12-19T23:38:18.033Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I wrote this post on and off over the course of a morning, and towards the end of it realized:
I'm reading you as saying "eating others is inherently not ok" but I would like it to be ok or not contingent on some other facts (like the absence of suffering, or hypothetical net preference, or the ability of people to not have their souls corrupted by carnivorism, or so on) and the generalization of that reasoning to not have terrible consequences elsewhere. (For example, if you think pleasure can't outweigh suffering, then it seems like having kids at all is indefensible, which is a self-extinguishing moral position; if you think something that taken seriously implies it's not even ok to eat plants, then that's even more self-extinguishing.)
I'll still post the rest of the comment I wrote, which responds to you in more detail, but that seems like the most important piece.
relationships where you have to do the complicated emotional gymnastics of saying that you love an animal like their your friend one day and then chopping their head from their body the next and savoring the flavor of the flesh on the grill.
There's a tumblr post where someone talks about immediately feeling the shepherd impulse when interacting with sheep, a bunch of people like the post, someone points out "how many of you eat lamb", and then the original poster responds with "The ancient shepherds I’m referencing also ate lamb lol"
My sense is that there's a few ways to take this. One of them is "actually the emotional gymnastics is not that complicated!", and another is "actually those ancient shepherds also probably abused their wives and thought slavery was fine when it happened to someone else and mistreated their animals, according to our standards; parents caring about their children / guardians caring about their wards is really not sufficient to guarantee good outcomes or license those relationships." I infer your position is closer to the latter but it really feels like it should be possible to have gains from trade, here.
[And, like, one of the downsides of specialization is that it drives people both unusually interested and unusually disinterested in animal welfare into the 'works with animals' business, which is probably how we got into this factory farming mess in the first place.]
My last stab at a response might be to bring up an analogy to slavery. I take the equivalent of your position here to be "look, if each slave can look at the potential life he will hold and prefer that life to no life at all, then isn't that better than him not existing at all?" And to me it seems like I'd be again called to say "no".
I think one of the main ways my libertarian leanings show up is by being okay with people being able to pick worse things that are cheaper. Let people live in tiny houses and work low-paying jobs and sell their bodies and take high-interest loans if that's the right tradeoff for them; removing their options generally isn't helping them.
I think that could extend all the way to slavery, altho it's hard to imagine situations where that actually makes sense. In general, I think children have only a little bit of debt to their parents (certainly not a lifetime of labor and ownership of all their descendants), which is the closest analogy. Probably more realistic is something like conservatorship, where someone is deemed incompetent to handle their financial or medical affairs, and someone else makes those decisions for them; should people be allowed to voluntarily enter a conservatorship?
A fictional version of this shows up in a video game called The Outer Worlds, where a star system is colonized by a group of corporations, where the colonists are a mixture of 'people who put up the capital for the voyage' and 'people agreeing to come as indentured servants', which leads to a very stratified society on the other side, which predictably starts to decay as the colonists have children with huge differences in inherited wealth. Even if Alice decided it was worth being a laborer somewhere new rather than being stuck on Earth, her daughter Carol might not feel like she's bought into this situation and want to violently redistribute things, and it's not obvious that Alice should be able to sell Carol's compliance with society.
But you could imagine that, if Alice can't bind Carol, the colony doesn't go thru, and Carol never comes to exist, and on net Carol is sad about that outcome, and would have preferred having been bound. It feels like an actually thorny question to figure out what tradeoffs precisely make sense, especially because this is a collective bargaining issue (it's not like existing societies get unanimous consent from their participants!) and the empirical tradeoffs are all hypothetical. [My actual expectation is that we get material abundance before we get any interstellar colonies, and so it's not important to get this question right because it'll never come up.]
That is the sort of world I hope for.
To be clear, this is a world without cats and snakes and other obligate carnivores, right? Or is the plan to first figure out synthetic sources of the various nutrients they need?
[It will also have many fewer other animals--I think on average something like a third of a cow is alive because of my beef consumption--but depending on what you think the limiting factors are, that may mean replacement with fractional vegan humans instead, which is probably an upgrade.]
Replies from: pktechgirl, tristan-williams↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-12-20T02:17:08.645Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Re: ancient shepherds.
Achilles in Vietnam has a thesis that ancient warriors had a lot of respect for their enemy, but modern armies tend to position enemies as weak and low-status. Those give death and losing a very different valence. Obviously you prefer winning, but if you lose, well at least some of you got to die gloriously. This is pretty much lost today, and makes losing or watching your friends die in battle feel much worse.
This attitude[1] seems really easy to transfer to hunting, which takes a lot of skill and some risk. I imagine that as you move from true hunting of dangerous animals, to pastoralism, to domesticated sheep, to factory farming you lose more and more respect for the animals, and this enables them to treat them worse.
So it seems plausible that ancient shepherd did have more respect for animals while killing them, and this showed up in material ways, although probably that representation is also romanticized.
- ^
I don't know if the book's claims are true
↑ comment by TAG · 2023-12-20T02:28:10.257Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Ancient warriors enslaved their captives.
Replies from: pktechgirl↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-12-20T18:58:15.612Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
And that was also viewed fairly differently than chattel slavery.
↑ comment by Tristan Williams (tristan-williams) · 2023-12-24T23:30:40.730Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Mmm okay a bit confused by the thrust of the first bit. Is it that you wish to set yourself apart from my view because you see it unavoidably leading to untenable positions (like self-extinguishing)?
Jumping to the rest of it, I liked how you put the latter option for the positioning of the shepard. I'm not sure the feeling out of the "shepard impulse" is something where the full sort of appreciation I think is important has come out.
But I think you're right to point towards a general libertarian viewpoint as a crux here, because I'm relatively willing to reason through what's good and bad for the community and work towards designing a world more in line with that vision, even if it's more choice constrained.
But yeah, the society is a good example to help us figure out where to draw that line. It makes me most immediately wonder: is there anything so bad that you'd want to restrict people from doing it, even if they voluntarily entered into it? Is creating lives one of the key goods to you, such that most forms of lives will be worth just existing?
To answer your last question, it's the latter, a world where synthetic alternatives and work on ecological stability yields a possibility of a future for predators who no longer must kill for survival. It would certainly mean a lot less cows and chickens exist, but my own conclusions from the above questions lead me to thinking this would be a better world.
comment by Tristan Williams (tristan-williams) · 2024-12-16T19:25:49.226Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This post didn't do well in the games of LessWrong karma, but it was probably the most personally fruitful use of my time on the site in 2023. It helped me clarify my own views which I had already formed but hadn't put to paper, or cohered properly.
I also got to think about the movement as a whole, and really enjoyed some of what Elizabeth had to share. Particularly I remember her commentary on the lack of positivity in the movement, and have taken that to heart and really thought about how I can add more positivity in.
comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2024-12-13T18:32:20.907Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I'm very grateful I found Tristan and we were able to have this discussion.
My series on vegan nutrition epistemics generated a lot of friction and hostility. Tristan was one of very few vegan advocates I felt I learned things from, and the things I learned were valuable and beautiful. The frame of impractical reverence continues to come up and I'm glad I can recognize it now. I am also happy this primed me to recognize what I don't like about reverence as a frame, and refine my articulation of my own values.