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comment by jimrandomh · 2024-10-23T10:56:47.629Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Nope, that's more than enough. Caleb Ditchfield, you are seriously mentally ill, and your delusions are causing you to exhibit a pattern of unethical behavior. This is not a place where you will be able to find help or support with your mental illness. Based on skimming your Twitter history, I believe your mental illness is caused by (or exacerbated by) abusing Adderall.
You have already been banned from numerous community events and spaces. I'm banning you from LW, too.
comment by Conor Moreton · 2024-10-23T05:44:04.599Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This person (segfault) is a liar. In particular, he is lying about caring about consent. He claims to, and gives a lot of lip service to the idea, but in fact he directly violates consent all the time, including explicit safewords. Immediately after the exchange below, he went and visited the other person anyway, and has been harassing her ever since, up to and including making wild accusations against her coach and getting himself banned from Stanford campus.
↑ comment by Conor Moreton · 2024-10-23T05:46:43.579Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
(Plenty) more detail available here.
Replies from: caleb-ditchfield↑ comment by segfault (caleb-ditchfield) · 2024-10-23T06:08:23.210Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
These are the libelous statements for which I am suing Duncan Andrew Sabien.
↑ comment by segfault (caleb-ditchfield) · 2024-10-23T09:30:58.904Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I deem the user "Conor Moreton" sus.
↑ comment by segfault (caleb-ditchfield) · 2024-10-23T06:08:59.503Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Whoever thinks that this is evidence of Lauren using her safeword DOESN'T KNOW HOW SAFEWORDS WORK.
Replies from: phasing↑ comment by phasing · 2024-10-24T02:10:18.844Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Not only did the person in question end the relationship and safeword you, but per the recording you posted in several places of you talking with the Stanford sheriffs, she herself reported you to Stanford police. You showed up to her dorm shirtless banging on furniture. She did not want to see you. You showed up 5 more times, the last time with a knife and were banned from Stanford campus.
You have more than enough evidence that this person, who ended things, who safeworded you, who blocked you on every single platform, who reported you to the police, does not want anything to do with you, yet you continue to harass her. Your "understanding" of consent is terrifying and wrong.
Your behavior shows that your delusions are so strong that it seems no amount of evidence will break past them. You are not willing to be wrong. I hope for the safety of the women who have been in your life, and for your own wellbeing, that you submit to the advice every one who has cared about you in the past is giving you, and seek intensive care.