Comment by iw yang (iw-yang) on Marriage, the Giving What We Can Pledge, and the damage caused by vague public commitments · 2022-07-14T13:26:20.944Z · LW · GW

Public commitments / Marriages

Are essential to keep a narcissist married and breeding.

• Histrionics and Narcissists desperately seek validation and hence are restrained by public "shame".
• They will seldom risk the humiliation of being publicly named as a "cheat" in a public marriage,
• Hence, will keep the marriage sacred, in the public domain.
• However, private domain is completely a separate matter.
• If they do get caught cheating, they will Amber Heard themselves as the victim, in public.