Comment by SimulatedAI on Advice Wanted; Reconcile with religious parent · 2018-09-24T01:06:40.655Z · LW · GW

I’ve been through some of what you’re going through. My advice is, first and foremost, to be honest with yourself. What are your values? What is your authentic self?

Second, be honest with your father. You are not responsible for his expectations, but if you want to maintain a relationship, at least do him the courtesy of helping to understand you.

Lastly, be an adult, and own the consequences of your choices. You might get cut off financially, and that might alter your plans, but life happens; you’ll find a new path.