Comment by Rik (rik) on How To Raise Others’ Aspirations in 17 Easy Steps · 2022-01-06T15:59:07.751Z · LW · GW

Make the person also feel like how you feel when you lose a video game. You don't feel sad and you try to get back immediately because you KNOW where you messed up. So in tandem with "Being stuck sucks,..." phrase, you could say. Hey, you messed up first time because of a wrong approach, let's think of another one!

Also, this is my first time commenting here. :D