Posts

Pay-on-results personal growth: first success 2024-09-14T03:39:12.975Z
what becoming more secure did for me 2024-08-22T17:44:48.525Z
I didn't have to avoid you; I was just insecure 2024-08-17T16:41:50.237Z
Exposure can’t rule out disasters 2024-08-15T17:03:37.259Z
Unconscious Predictions 2024-07-06T17:34:31.919Z
List of Collective Intelligence Projects 2024-07-02T14:10:41.789Z
Social interaction-inspired AI alignment 2024-06-24T08:10:08.719Z
Emotional issues often have an immediate payoff 2024-06-10T23:39:40.697Z
rapid growth 2024-06-05T00:43:51.501Z
Retrospective on Mathematical Boundaries Workshop 2024-05-12T21:58:46.367Z
Boundaries Update #1 2024-04-11T16:07:18.746Z
Plausibility of cyborgism for protecting boundaries? 2024-03-27T18:53:38.615Z
How I turned doing therapy into object-level AI safety research 2024-03-14T01:54:47.290Z
self-fulfilling prophecies when applying for funding 2024-03-01T19:01:40.991Z
Boundary Violations vs Boundary Dissolution 2024-02-26T18:59:08.713Z
The natural boundaries between people 2024-02-23T01:09:28.592Z
What does davidad want from «boundaries»? 2024-02-06T17:45:42.348Z
Protecting agent boundaries 2024-01-25T04:13:50.993Z
What are the most common social insecurities? 2024-01-16T17:24:59.761Z
What technical topics could help with boundaries/membranes? 2024-01-05T18:14:58.795Z
Agent membranes/boundaries and formalizing “safety” 2024-01-03T17:55:21.018Z
Safety First: safety before full alignment. The deontic sufficiency hypothesis. 2024-01-03T17:55:19.825Z
Agent membranes and causal distance 2024-01-02T22:43:41.508Z
Environmental allergies are curable? (Sublingual immunotherapy) 2023-12-26T19:05:08.880Z
The absence of self-rejection is self-acceptance 2023-12-21T21:54:52.116Z
Lessons from massaging myself, others, dogs, and cats 2023-12-17T04:28:40.080Z
Apply to the Conceptual Boundaries Workshop for AI Safety 2023-11-27T21:04:59.037Z
Spaced repetition for teaching two-year olds how to read (Interview) 2023-11-26T16:52:58.412Z
Formalizing «Boundaries» with Markov blankets 2023-09-19T21:01:01.901Z
Coherence Therapy with LLMs - quick demo 2023-08-14T03:34:29.102Z
"Membranes" is better terminology than "boundaries" alone 2023-05-28T22:16:21.404Z
«Boundaries» for formalizing an MVP morality 2023-05-13T19:10:51.833Z
«Boundaries/Membranes» and AI safety compilation 2023-05-03T21:41:19.124Z

Comments

Comment by Chipmonk on Pay-on-results personal growth: first success · 2024-09-18T00:57:49.872Z · LW · GW

the results focus you're taking is likely creating other negative effects in the psyche that will have to be cleaned up later

could be, figuring this out

Comment by Chipmonk on Why you should be using a retinoid · 2024-09-05T00:43:35.525Z · LW · GW

(not the rest of your body).

How do we know?

Comment by Chipmonk on Why you should be using a retinoid · 2024-09-01T17:39:32.945Z · LW · GW

When you say vitamin A, do you literally mean vitamin A, or the similar potential-precursor compound found in plants that is often mistaken as vitamin A? See my other comment.

Comment by Chipmonk on Why you should be using a retinoid · 2024-09-01T17:37:27.805Z · LW · GW

Hi, thanks for responding. You say:

Dietary vitamin A (beta carotene) is not the active form of vitamin A (retinoic acid), it needs to be converted into the active form by the body's enzymes.

It is possible to eat the active form of vitamin A, for example through animal sources like liver. 

When I said vitamin A, I meant vitamin A (not the compound in plants that can be lossily converted into vitamin A).

So this doesn't answer the question IMO

Comment by Chipmonk on what becoming more secure did for me · 2024-08-23T04:38:09.922Z · LW · GW

thanks! There's a lot I don't post on LessWrong because I don't think it matches the vibe. Even this post has gotten some substantial downvotes

Comment by Chipmonk on what becoming more secure did for me · 2024-08-23T04:37:20.612Z · LW · GW

haha i didn't think 

what becoming secure does to a mfer

would resonate on lesswrong

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-20T21:46:46.474Z · LW · GW

empiric claims for which they have neither empirical evidence from their own life experience

what

Comment by Chipmonk on Why you should be using a retinoid · 2024-08-19T20:04:14.719Z · LW · GW

I have a confusion about retinoids that I haven't been able to find an answer to:

If retinoids are approximately vitamin A, does this just mean that the average person is very vitamin A deficient? Should they just be eating vitamin A instead? (The best source is probably animal liver.) Surely this would have not just the beneficial skin effects but also lots of other positive effects on the body (surely facial skin is not the only part of the body bottlenecked by vitamin A).

I wonder if people who eat/absorb lots of vitamin A don't get any marginal benefit from retinoids.

Btw I'll pay $30 for a satisfying answer to this

Clarification: By vitamin A, I literally mean vitamin A. The compound that can be used without conversion. For example, the compound that is consumed through animal sources like liver. 

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-19T19:31:25.575Z · LW · GW

This may sound tautological, but how do you know you that 1) you had the extreme fears; 2) it was exposure (as opposed to anything else or stochasticity) that fixed it?

Comment by Chipmonk on I didn't have to avoid you; I was just insecure · 2024-08-19T18:05:05.418Z · LW · GW

That seems more avoidant to me than what I said haha.

Also, I fully expected this person to ask questions for more detail if I had said what you suggest.

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-19T01:12:18.583Z · LW · GW

I should also add that I'm fortunate to be "sheltered" from the literature by mentors (one is a therapist, one Coherence Therapy, also others). They will just call me out if I say something wrong. I did not discuss this exact point with them in specific though but I think they would vaguely agree, I wouldn't be surprised if they helped me qualify my statement slightly more, but that's also why I'm posting this here to get feedback

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-19T00:57:38.420Z · LW · GW

I care about truth and substance and not about debating.

The trouble is that I don't know what you'll be receptive to. I don't want to talk randomly in your direction and have it not address your cruxes.

"Why don't you put more effort into finding out that the thesis on which you wrote a post is true?"

Thanks!

Though, you haven't specified which thesis, so I'll assume you meant the title:

Exposure therapy can’t rule out disasters

First, I'll explain what I said in the post, which I originally thought would've been sufficient. 

Afterward, I'll explain related context which I'm operating from which I did not include in the post.

First:

As I say in the post,

In my experience, 

There is something like I say in the post that definitely seems to be the case in my experience helping myself and others grow. I have seen many people vaguely try more exposure therapy and make little progress. 

You can consider this for yourself:

Is there anything you avoid that exposure still hasn’t fixed?

Do any examples come to mind in your life? Please let me know if yes or no.

Frankly I thought this would be self-evident for each reader to find things like this in themselves. I expected the evidence to come from you. (But I'm happy to explain this now that you've asked.)

Note that nowhere in the post do I say that exposure can't work or never works. Obviously it works sometimes. But not always. Again:

I suspect that people who are afraid of something, even after ample exposure, are afraid of the rare, worst case scenarios. The (subjective) disasters.

Maybe that could've been avoided if instead I added one word: "Exposure therapy can’t rule out all disasters"? 

But the reason I was okay with the title as-is was this:

Because exposure cannot disprove that something terrible might, at some point, happen.

This seems obvious so I'm not going to explain why this is true. Same reason that math proofs require actual proofs, rather than trying lots of numbers.

But I will clarify one thing:

My model of exposure is that if it updates unconscious predictions, it can only update predictions relating to stuff that actually happened. If average-case exposures made you unlearn your fears, then surely you weren't afraid of any worse case scenarios. (Maybe you happened to unlearn the fears simultaneously through other means, but that would be mere correlation.)

To unlearn fears to scenario X, you must be exposed to scenario X. However sometimes scenario X is so rare/bad that exposure is not workable.

(If that wasn't the case, then this seems like accepting the argument that "living" is exposure therapy for fear, and so simply by living you will unlearn all of your fears.)

Also:

I'll let you in on some context to my state writing this post. I didn't include this before but it seems helpful to say now.

I have helped people -- people who have tried intentional exposure for months and sometimes years before talking to me -- overcome much or all their aversions in just a couple of hours, no exposure necessary. (I will be sharing one of these case studies in another post soon.)

In general, I've learned much more about minds -- real results both for myself and others -- simply by iterating on my own, just like the post above. 

I recently had the chance to counsel a cofounder of Coherence Therapy and he said he was surprisingly impressed and made progress on an issue he wasn't able to make on his own.

The first person I counseled with my new method told me that our one conversation was "significantly more productive than my last 6 months of CBT and talk therapy I did". 

If mainstream growth theory was good, surely there would not be $100 bills lying on the ground like this?

I've also vaguely had the experience of trying to read mainstream academic material (with the exception of memory reconsolidation) and simply not understanding it because I disagree too hard with the assumptions. 

This has led me to somewhat avoid "the academic literature" out of fear of thought-contamination.


Does that make sense? Please let me know if you have any specific questions.

Comment by Chipmonk on I didn't have to avoid you; I was just insecure · 2024-08-18T23:24:24.871Z · LW · GW

basically memory reconsolidation. i write a lot more about this in the other posts on my blog

Comment by Chipmonk on I didn't have to avoid you; I was just insecure · 2024-08-18T23:24:01.525Z · LW · GW

What pinged is that these don't register to me as probing questions at all! These seem like normal attempts to learn about someone by asking about what is, for most people, a very large part of their life: work.

Partially I began to agree after the shift, partially I guess there's more context that I haven't been able to communicate through text.

To me these still read like defensive, insecure answers

What might say if you felt like that in that situation?

 

Thanks for commenting, I'm not concerned

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-18T15:34:34.964Z · LW · GW

Sorry, I'm still trying to figure out what you're asking. I would love to respond to your comment but I need specific questions to respond to.  What specific questions do you have for me?

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-17T16:30:28.631Z · LW · GW

Oh ok, I mistakenly thought that you wanted me to respond to what you said

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-17T16:16:04.628Z · LW · GW

Hi Christian, you seem frustrated. I would like to respond to your comment, but you haven't asked any specific questions I can respond to. Is there anything in specific you would like me to address?

Comment by Chipmonk on Exposure can’t rule out disasters · 2024-08-17T06:05:38.076Z · LW · GW

I'm also just confused. What type of argument are you expecting for the claim "exposure cannot disprove that something terrible might, at some point, happen"? 

Comment by Chipmonk on Decomposing Agency — capabilities without desires · 2024-07-31T05:11:06.981Z · LW · GW

Context: I ran 8 days of workshops on AI safety boundaries earlier this year. 

Thanks for mentioning boundaries! I agree with everything you've said here.

I'd like to point readers to these related links: 

Comment by Chipmonk on List of Collective Intelligence Projects · 2024-07-04T14:32:34.177Z · LW · GW

I do feel a bit awkward about it as I'm very much involved in both projects, but these two otherwise? 

I don't see this as a reason for awkwardness

The Collective Intelligence Company: https://thecollectiveintelligence.company/company

The link worked yesterday but it's not working now?

Comment by Chipmonk on List of Collective Intelligence Projects · 2024-07-04T14:30:01.735Z · LW · GW

added, ty!

Comment by Chipmonk on List of Collective Intelligence Projects · 2024-07-03T02:19:58.576Z · LW · GW

forgot about that one! ty

Comment by Chipmonk on Social interaction-inspired AI alignment · 2024-06-25T13:29:47.516Z · LW · GW

Thanks for commenting. 

Your claim that all intelligence is social intelligence seems wrong. Humans are trained by other humans, but we can accomplish a lot alone.

Hm, would it help if I clarified that individual human minds have multiple internal parts too? So even when "alone" humans are still social by this definition.

Comment by Chipmonk on «Boundaries», Part 1: a key missing concept from utility theory · 2024-06-16T19:21:08.726Z · LW · GW

Where did you get the inspiration to start thinking about boundaries? I'm curious to know if it first came from thinking about human social interaction

Comment by Chipmonk on Emotional issues often have an immediate payoff · 2024-06-11T16:42:47.357Z · LW · GW

Thanks, the magic button does seem somewhat similar to teleology. (Though, after reading your summary, I think I disagree pretty hard with how I think he implements it in the session. Mainly: too cognitive.)

Comment by Chipmonk on My tentative best guess on how EAs and Rationalists sometimes turn crazy · 2024-05-25T17:52:13.173Z · LW · GW

I think I might have a promising and better intervention for preventing individuals EAs and Rationalists from “turning crazy”. What would you want to do with it?

Comment by Chipmonk on Some Things That Increase Blood Flow to the Brain · 2024-05-20T03:21:58.355Z · LW · GW

Update: I resolved maybe all of my neck tension and vagus nerve tension. I don't know how to tell whether this increased by intelligence though. It's also not like I had headaches or anything obvious like that before

Comment by Chipmonk on Transformers Represent Belief State Geometry in their Residual Stream · 2024-05-20T02:01:31.965Z · LW · GW

this post seems like a win for PIBBSS gee

Comment by Chipmonk on Takeaways from one year of lockdown · 2024-05-17T22:06:08.452Z · LW · GW

I like how detailed this post is

Comment by Chipmonk on Anxiety vs. Depression · 2024-05-10T02:50:54.231Z · LW · GW

Any updates?

Comment by Chipmonk on Key takeaways from our EA and alignment research surveys · 2024-05-09T03:23:31.101Z · LW · GW

How much higher was the scoring on neuroticism than the general population?

Comment by Chipmonk on Key takeaways from our EA and alignment research surveys · 2024-05-09T03:22:00.537Z · LW · GW

How many alignment researchers do you think there are total? What % do you think this survey hit that you wanted it to hit?

Comment by Chipmonk on AGI: Cryptography, Security & Multipolar Scenarios Workshop · 2024-05-01T20:41:06.036Z · LW · GW

I'll be there! Talk to me about boundaries and coordination/Goodness

Comment by Chipmonk on DARPA Digital Tutor: Four Months to Total Technical Expertise? · 2024-04-21T20:06:07.703Z · LW · GW

Andy Matuschak @andymatuschak:

Finally found a single actual screenshot of the DARPA Digital Tutor (sort of—a later commercial adaptation). Crazy-making that there were zero figures in any of the papers about its design, and not enough details to imagine one.

Some observations:
* An instructional interface is presented alongside a live machine.
* Student presented with a concrete task to achieve in the live system.
* The training system begins by “discussing the situation”, probing the student’s understanding with q's, and responding with appropriate feedback and follow-up tasks.
* It can observe the student’s actions in the live system and respond appropriately.
* The instructional interface uses a text-conversational modality.
* I see strong influence from Graesser's AutoTutor, and some from Anderson's Cognitive Tutors.

Image

(from https://www.edsurge.com/news/2020-06-09-how-learning-engineering-hopes-to-speed-up-education )

https://twitter.com/andy_matuschak/status/1782095737096167917 

Comment by Chipmonk on CTMU insight: maybe consciousness *can* affect quantum outcomes? · 2024-04-19T17:21:40.515Z · LW · GW

This all seems very teleological. Do you have thoughts on what the teleology of the universe could be under this model? 

Comment by Chipmonk on Boundaries Update #1 · 2024-04-11T18:28:07.324Z · LW · GW

Thanks for asking. This is the intention of Mathematical Boundaries Workshop which is running now. Let me know if you'd like to come on Sunday

Comment by Chipmonk on Davidad's Provably Safe AI Architecture - ARIA's Programme Thesis · 2024-04-10T22:53:00.686Z · LW · GW

New better link: https://www.aria.org.uk/programme-safeguarded-ai/ 

Comment by Chipmonk on Plausibility of cyborgism for protecting boundaries? · 2024-04-09T13:19:58.501Z · LW · GW

yea

Comment by Chipmonk on Plausibility of cyborgism for protecting boundaries? · 2024-03-29T17:06:30.516Z · LW · GW

right, yeah, i think precisely formalizing boundaries is less useful for the cyborgism angle

Comment by Chipmonk on Some Things That Increase Blood Flow to the Brain · 2024-03-28T00:02:16.285Z · LW · GW

Personal anecdote:

Ever since reading George's post, I've been noticing ways in which I have been (subconsciously) tensing muscles in my neck-- and possibly around my vagus nerve and inside my head. I wonder if by tensing these muscles, I'm reducing blood flow.  

(I can think of reasons why someone might learn to do this on purpose actually, eg in response to some social stress.)

So now I'm experimenting with relaxing those muscles whenever I notice myself tensing them. Maybe this increases blood flow, idk. It maybe feels a little like that.

Comment by Chipmonk on Should rationalists be spiritual / Spirituality as overcoming delusion · 2024-03-25T22:24:54.978Z · LW · GW

re Q2- 

So I don't doubt that improvements in subjective wellbeing are reported essentially unanimously. 

But, to give a sense of the kind of thing I'm expecting here, consider that a child who doesn't learn to be emotionally insecure around their parents is probably much worse off. In some societies, parents who dislike a child starve/kill them, and emotional insecurity can be one way to predict and therefore avoid others disliking you.

In which case, I wonder, if you don't have these common delusions about the mind (or you're ~enlightened), does this put you in a worse place physically or socially? 

(Probably not in all possible environments, but maybe this is true in some [social] environments that are common today.)

Comment by Chipmonk on Should rationalists be spiritual / Spirituality as overcoming delusion · 2024-03-25T18:27:33.466Z · LW · GW

Some various questions:

Q1: To what extent do you think ~unenlightenment in an individual is caused by the need to fit in socially?

Ie: In order to get other people to take care of you or not kill you (especially when you're a vulnerable child), you contort your mind in all sorts of ways and construct an ego (very much in the Elephant in the Brain way) and adopt all sorts of delusions. 

For example, you might want to be able to control other people, and one way to do that is to exile your emotional emotions so you can tell them "You made me so angry! Stop doing that!"   (Then later, if that doesn't work, you can say, "I'm so sorry, my emotions got the best of me" -- as if your emotions are separate from you, lol. Have your cake and eat it too.)

I write a little bit about how my experience of depression seems like this here.

 

Q1.b: To what extent do you think become more spiritually skilled is just about learning how to integrate with other people safely, but without having those common-but-helpful-but-wrong delusions about how your own mind works?

 

Q2: Do you think people benefit from being ~unenlightened or spiritually unskilled? Precisely how so?

Comment by Chipmonk on [deleted post] 2024-03-25T00:30:13.663Z

whoa @Joe Carlsmith  wrote a whole thing about boundaries I had no idea  https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/rdTgtHn3neGzkyCrL/being-nicer-than-clippy#Boundaries 

Comment by Chipmonk on Anxiety vs. Depression · 2024-03-21T02:32:00.591Z · LW · GW

taking something negative in one's brain and asking, "but how is this useful? What is it doing for me? What is this piece of me trying to protect me from?"

yes yes this!

The Coherence Therapy Institute case studies are great for this btw

Comment by Chipmonk on Anxiety vs. Depression · 2024-03-19T14:49:34.153Z · LW · GW

Just curious, how related do you think your symptoms are to social interaction?

Though they have very different methods, both anxiety and depression tend to have the same result, at least for me: I don’t do anything.

This reminds me of the post I wrote about my own depression: https://chipmonk.substack.com/p/depression-was-useful 

Comment by Chipmonk on How I turned doing therapy into object-level AI safety research · 2024-03-14T19:53:15.881Z · LW · GW

I'd like to reply to your comment but I didn't understand your first sentence

Comment by Chipmonk on How I turned doing therapy into object-level AI safety research · 2024-03-14T15:35:56.032Z · LW · GW

Where do you think the boundary is here?

Comment by Chipmonk on Acting Wholesomely · 2024-03-12T03:29:37.009Z · LW · GW

The curation failed? the email is empty for me

Comment by Chipmonk on A map of Bay Area memespace · 2024-03-11T21:15:32.680Z · LW · GW

New version of this?

Comment by Chipmonk on Increasing IQ is trivial · 2024-03-02T02:30:47.142Z · LW · GW

Me reading this post:

  • wow wtf these results, cool if true!
  • … * a bunch of explanation * ... 
  • *the post ends*
  • wait what did you actually do for "increasing cerebral vascularization and broadening my proprioception"?

What were your interventions?

Update: found them on your substack:

The method that I used consisted of targeted NIR interference therapy, short UV during the morning, a lot of inversion-based exercises where I focused on contracting/relaxing neck and face muscles, a few customized breathing exercises (think wim hof), figuring out the correct levels for a bunch of cholinergic vaso[dilators/modulators] (think noopept), massage therapies to reduce tension on the spine, some proprioception-heavy movement practices, a niche tibetan metta meditation series… and about 5 other things that are even harder to compress. The main point is that “the method” doesn’t matter so much, you can just google “intervention to increase IQ”, find 50 things, dig through the evidence, select 20, combine them, and assume 5 work

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I think the core point of "how" is really unimportant, since I didn't do something optimal... not even close, I did something "silly" that I could execute part time with pocket change.

So I don't want to bias people towards this particular method.