Killing Socrates
post by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T10:28:37.096Z · LW · GW · 144 commentsContents
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Or, On The Willful Destruction Of Gardens Of Collaborative Inquiry
One of the more interesting dynamics of the past eight-or-so years has been watching a bunch of the people who [taught me my values] and [served as my early role models] and [were presented to me as paragons of cultural virtue] going off the deep end.
Those people believed a bunch of stuff, and they injected a bunch of that stuff into me, in the early days of my life when I absorbed it uncritically, and as they've turned out to be wrong and misguided and confused in two or three dozen ways, I've found myself wondering what else they were wrong about.
One of the things that I absorbed via osmosis and never questioned (until recently) was the Hero Myth of Socrates, who boldly stood up against the tyrannical, dogmatic power structure and was unjustly murdered for it. I've spent most of my life knowing that Socrates obviously got a raw deal, just like I spent most of my life knowing that
It now seems quite plausible to me that Socrates was, in fact, correctly responded-to by the Athenians of his time, and that the mythologized version of his story I grew up with belongs in the same category as Washington's cherry tree or Pocahontas's enthusiastic embrace of the white settlers of Virginia.
The following borrows generously from, and is essentially an embellishment of, this comment [LW(p) · GW(p)] by @Vaniver [LW · GW].
Imagine that you are an ancient Athenian, responsible for some important institution, and that you have a strong belief that the overall survival of your society is contingent on a reliable, common-knowledge buy-in of Athenian institutions generally, i.e. that your society cannot function unless its members believe that it does function.
This would not be a ridiculous belief! We have seen, in the modern era, how quickly things go south when faith in a bank (or in the financial system as a whole) evaporates. We know what happens when people stop believing that the police or the courts are on their side. Regimes (or entire nations) fall when their constituents stop propping up the myth of those regimes. Much of civilization is shared participation in self-fulfilling prophecies like "this little scrap of green paper holds value."
And if you buy
"My society's survival depends upon people's faith in its institutions."
...then it's only a small step from there to something like:
"My society's survival depends upon a status-allocation structure whereby [the people who pour their time and effort into building things larger than themselves] receive lots of credit and reward, and [the people who contribute little, and sit back idly criticizing] receive correspondingly less."
People follow incentives, after all. If you want them to contribute, you need them to believe that there is something worth contributing to, and that they will benefit from doing so. If you fail to incentivize the hard work of creation and maintenance, or if you equally incentivize the much easier work of armchair quarterbacking, you will predictably see more and more people abandoning the former for the latter.
From this perspective, Socrates looks much less like a hero whose sharp wit punctured the inflated egos of various Athenian Ayn Rand villains, and much more like someone who found a clever exploit in the system, siphoning status without making a corresponding contribution.
By adopting a set of tactics wherein one can win any fight by only attacking and never defending, one can place immense burdens on any positive action ("Oh, so this is annoying? How would you define annoying?") while not accepting any burdens of their own ("I'm just asking questions!"). One of Socrates's innovations was a sort of shamelessness—if someone responded to him with "only a fool doesn't understand what 'annoying' means!" he was happy to reply with "Indeed, I am a fool! So, can you explain it to me?"
This is not, in fact, a cooperative act. It is creating a burden—of explanation, of clarification, of interpretive and pedagogical labor—and then displacing that burden onto the other person. It's increasing the cost of contributing to intellectual progress, and thereby discouraging people from trying to contribute.
It is indeed important and valuable to have one or two Socrati around, just as it's important and valuable to have one or two court jesters who are willing to speak truth to power.
But Socrates—as affirmed by the majority vote of some 500 Athenians who convicted him—was corrupting the youth, i.e. setting an example which many of Athens' young people were emulating.
If it looks like a substantial fraction of an entire generation wants to grow up to be jesters instead of kings or knights or counsellors, then the bedrock upon which the polis rests—the collective self-fulfilling prophecy—crumbles. A thousand hole-pokers will rapidly tear the social fabric to shreds. This is an existential threat, to which the Athenians (plausibly) responded proportionately!
It's worth noting at least three other relevant things:
- The preceding decade had contained a military defeat, a puppet government installed by the conquerors, a coup, a counter-coup, and a counter-counter coup; things in Athens were actually unstable, and it's not difficult to be sympathetic to the view that this was the wrong time to be picking nits.
- During the trial itself, Socrates remained committed to the bit, wielding the same weaponized disingenuousness that brought him there in the first place.
- While the legend I absorbed in childhood holds that he was "murdered for telling the truth," most accounts show that he was allowed to propose his own punishment, and suggested that the state "punish" him by providing him with free food and housing as payment for noble service rendered. When the state replied with "how about death, instead?" Socrates basically responded "if you kill me, all those youth I've corrupted are gonna keep on doing exactly the same thing I taught them to do," which, again, sounds very hero-spitting-in-the-villain's-eye if you've predecided that you know who the good guys are, and less so if you have not.
More directly quoting the comment from which the above descends:
A few years ago, it seemed to me like one of the big problems with LessWrong was that the generativity and selectivity were unbalanced. There wasn't much new material posted on LW, and various commenters said "well, the thing we should do is be even harsher to authors, so that they produce better stuff!", and when I went around asking the authors what it would take for them to write more on LW, they said "well, putting up with harsh comments is a huge drawback to posting on LW, so I don't."
Now, it would have been one thing if it were the top writers criticizing things—if, say, Eliezer or Scott or whoever had said "actually, I don't really want my posts to be seen next to low-quality posts by <authors>" or had been skewering the flaws in those posts/comments. [Indeed, many great Sequences posts begin by quoting a reaction in the comments to a previous post and then dissecting why the reaction is wrong.] But instead, the commenter most frequently complained about by the former authors was a person who did not themselves write posts. [emphasis added]
Now, the specific person I had been thinking of had been around for a long time. In fact, when they first started posting, their comments reminded me of my comments from a few years earlier, and so I marked them as someone to watch. But whereas I acculturated to LW (and I remember uprooting a few deep habits to do so!), I didn't see it happen with them, and then realized that when I had been around, there had been lots of old LWers to acculturate to, whereas now the 'typical comment' was this sort of criticism, instead of the old LW spirit.
"Oh," I said in a flash of insight. "This is why they executed Socrates."
If a culture has zero Socrati, then you end up with an emperor strutting naked through the streets, claiming to be wearing robes of the most diaphanous silk.
One Socrates can prevent that. One Socrates can, in fact, call it like it is, and poke holes in things that aren't sound and defensible, and generally improve the health of the system via a kind of hormetic stress.
But if Socrates sets the vibe—if the youth of Athens decide that the right mode to be in is aggressively critical—if they view this as a noble calling, part of holding everyone else to account—if the percentage of people doing the Socrates thing rises above a pretty small threshold—
There's only so much withering critique a given builder is interested in receiving (frequently from those who do not themselves even build!) before eventually they will either stop building entirely, or leave to go somewhere where buildery is appreciated, rewarded, and (importantly) defended.
(Someplace where the Socrati do not have concentration of force [LW · GW].)
It's a dynamic tightly analogous to the Copenhagen Interpretation of Ethics, in which trying at all to help with a problem exposes you to blame and criticism, whereas turning a blind eye leaves you safely among the anonymous and un-attacked masses.
If trying to share any thoughts at all results in a metric ton of critique, criticism, nitpicking, sealioning, and unpredictable demands for rigor—
(Which, if left unanswered, tend to be treated by the Socratic crowd as moderately strong evidence that you were full of shit to begin with, ignoring alternative hypotheses like "maybe that question wasn't worth the time and effort [LW · GW] it would take to deconfuse the asker.")
—then you will observe what we do, in fact, observe: multiple specific brilliant and talented writers who seem to be "just the type we want on LessWrong" who are oddly unwilling to come anywhere near the site.
(Some of them unwilling to come anywhere near the site anymore, despite the fact that they used to enjoy being here, back when the comment sections were primarily builders offering critique to each other, in an atmosphere of collaboration rather than one of evaluation and judgment.)
Vaniver continues:
There's a claim I saw and wished I had saved the citation of, where a university professor teaching an ethics class or w/e gets their students to design policies that achieve ends, and finds that the students (especially more 'woke' ones) have very sharp critical instincts, can see all of the ways in which policies are unfair or problematic or so on, and then are very reluctant to design policies themselves, and are missing the skills to do anything that they can't poke holes in (or, indeed, missing the acceptance that sometimes tradeoffs require accepting that the plan will have problems). In creative fields, this is sometimes called the Taste Gap, where doing well is hard in part because you can recognize good work before you can do it, and so the experience of making art is the experience of repeatedly producing disappointing work.
In order to get the anagogic ascent, you need both the criticism of Socrates and the courage to keep on producing disappointing work (and thus a system that rewards those in balanced ways).
Or, to put it another way:
There are a lot of LessWrong commenters who respond to perceived falsehoods with what looks a lot like an elevated sense of threat. "Don't let that one through! That one's wrong!"
But many of the actual claims being responded to in this fashion are not powerful snippets of propaganda, or nascent hypnotic suggestions, or psychological Trojan horses. They aren't the workings of an antagonist. They're just half-baked ideas, and you can either respond to a half-baked idea by helping to bake it properly...
...or you can shriek "food poisoning!" and throw it in the trash and shout out to everyone else that they need to watch out, someone's trying to poison everybody.
(Or pointedly interrogate the author on why exactly they chose to bake their idea this way when it's so clearly inadequate, would you please explain what made you think that this dough was sufficiently risen to be worth serving?)
It's the difference between, say, writing a 3300-word piece about how one section of someone else's building is WRONG [LW · GW], and spending 3300 words suggesting a replacement that might solve the perceived problem better, without containing Flaw X or causing Negative Side Effect Y.
The end result of Socrates Unchecked is not, in fact, a bastion of pure reason and untainted truth. That's a fabricated option [LW · GW], like believing that a ban on price gouging during a disaster will result in the normal amount of gasoline being available at the normal prices.
What happens instead, in practice, is evaporative cooling, as the most sensitive or least-bought-in of [the authors/builders who made your subculture worth participating in in the first place] give up and go elsewhere, marginally increasing the ratio of critics to makers, which makes things marginally less rewarding, which sends the next bunch of builders packing, which worsens the problem further. A steady influx of, say, people worried about AI can slow this process, but not stop or reverse it (especially if the newcomers pick up on the extant vibe and conclude that That's How We Do Things Around Here).
People like to repeat the phrase "well-kept gardens die by pacifism [LW · GW]," but they also flinch from killing Socrates, when Socrates is busy suffocating every seedling he can find, and draining the joy out of the act of gardening.
I claim this is an error.
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comment by TC (timothy-c) · 2023-04-12T16:36:42.184Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
>> "There's only so much withering critique a given builder is interested in receiving (frequently from those who do not themselves even build!) before eventually they will either stop building entirely, or leave to go somewhere where buildery is appreciated, rewarded, and (importantly) defended."
Perfect summary of my experience co-founding and directing a summer program affiliated with the rationality community (the summer program is ongoing to this day). I quit and left after two years. For a long time, I thought building summer programs inevitably meant a bunch of armchair critics.
Then I built another summer program with people who've never heard of rationality, and they actually respected my work rather than belittling it! People helped me build the program rather than casting stones from the sidelines! I've never worked for the rationality community again.
One summer program had a ton of issues that pop up on Twitter, that my non-rationalist friends ask me about and I still have to answer for -- even though I haven't been involved for 5 years. The other program gives me nothing but good press. I'll let you guess which is which
(First time posting on LW, and this is an inevitably simplified story. I was far from a perfect camp founder or director. But that was also the case for the non-rationalist summer program! and somehow one experience was significantly more constructive and empowering.)
comment by MondSemmel · 2023-04-11T13:14:55.956Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
1) I agree with the spirit of this. To re-quote my comment [LW(p) · GW(p)] on Elizabeth's Butterfly Ideas [LW · GW] post:
Another avenue to something related to this concept is Babble and Prune [? · GW] (and a third one is de Bono's Six Thinking Hats): we have different algorithms for creating vs. criticizing ideas. These algorithms don't mix well, so if you want to come up with new ideas, it's better to first generate ideas and only later criticize them. IIRC this is also the advice for group brainstorming.
2) That said, I really don't like the Socrates analogy here. The loose analogy between execution and moderation seems entirely unnecessary, and sounds like a call for violence. I think that makes the discussion about moderation more emotionally charged, and I don't see how that helps anyone.
Furthermore, Wikipedia is unclear to which extent Socrates' execution was for political vs. religious reasons. Insofar as it was for religious reasons, that would make him the victim of a religious dispute, or even a martyr; I think this interpretation works against your thesis.
In 399 BC, Socrates went on trial for corrupting the minds of the youth of Athens, and for impiety... The official charges were: (1) corrupting youth; (2) worshipping false gods; and (3) not worshipping the state religion.
...
The question of what motivated Athenians to convict Socrates remains controversial among scholars. There are two theories. The first is that Socrates was convicted on religious grounds; the second, that he was accused and convicted for political reasons. Another, more recent, interpretation synthesizes the religious and political theories, arguing that religion and state were not separate in ancient Athens.
The argument for religious persecution is supported by the fact that Plato's and Xenophon's accounts of the trial mostly focus on the charges of impiety. In those accounts, Socrates is portrayed as making no effort to dispute the fact that he did not believe in the Athenian gods. Against this argument stands the fact that many skeptics and atheist philosophers during this time were not prosecuted. According to the argument for political persecution, Socrates was targeted because he was perceived as a threat to democracy. It was true that Socrates did not stand for democracy during the reign of the Thirty Tyrants and that most of his pupils were against the democrats.
3) Finally, I would like to suggest a norm whereby, if you criticize specific active LW users, to mention that they're banned from commenting on your posts [? · GW]. (I guess you could alternatively mention that in your commenting guidelines.) And that's coming from someone who has seen some of the exchanges these users are involved in, and so very much understands why they're banned.
Replies from: Matthew_Opitz↑ comment by Matthew_Opitz · 2023-04-11T16:10:19.117Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The book "Pharmakon" by Michael Rinella goes into some detail as to the scarcely-known details behind the "impiety" charge against Socrates. If I recall correctly from the book, it was not just that Socrates rhetorically disavowed belief in the gods. The final straw that broke the camel's back was when Socrates and his disciples engaged in a "symposion" one night, basically an aristocratic cocktail party where they would drink "mixed wine" (wine sometimes infused with other substances like opium or other psychoactive herbs) and then perform poetry/discuss philosophy/discuss politics/etc., and then afterwards a not-infrequent coda to such "symposions" would be a "komos" or drunken parade of revelry of the symposion-goers through the public streets of Athens late at night. Allegedly, during one of these late-night "komos" episodes, Socrates and his followers committed a terrible "hubris," which was to break off all of the phalloi of the Hermes statues in the city, which was simultaneously juvenile and obnoxious and a terrible sacrilege.
Replies from: MondSemmel↑ comment by MondSemmel · 2023-04-11T17:21:09.640Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Fascinating! Though that once again gives the charge of "corrupting the youth" a different connotation than the one assumed in Duncan's post.
comment by ambigram · 2023-04-11T15:38:26.380Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Right now it feels like it's an either/or choice between criticism and construction, which puts them in direct opposition, but I don't think they're necessarily in conflict with each other.
After all, criticism that acknowledges the constraints and nuances of the context is more meaningful than criticism that is shallow and superficial, and criticism that highlights a new perspective or suggests a better alternative is more useful than criticism that only points out flaws. In a sense, it's not that there's too much criticism and not enough of contributions, it's that we want critiques that are of higher standards.
Maybe instead of trying to figure out how to determine the right amounts of criticism individuals are exposed to, we can instead focus on building a culture that values and teaches writing of good critique? There would still (and always be) simplistic or nitpicky criticisms, but perhaps if the community were better at identifying them as such, and providing feedback on how to make such comments better, things would improve over time.
Admittedly, I don't really know what this would look like in practice, or whether or not it would make a difference to the experience of authors, but putting the issue in terms of killing Socrates feels like dooming it to win/lose or lose/lose solutions...
comment by cousin_it · 2023-04-11T15:24:27.094Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I don't see any group of people on LW running around criticizing every new idea. Most criticism on LW is civil, and most of it is helpful at least in part. And the small proportion that isn't helpful at all, is still useful to me as a test: can I stop myself from overreacting to it?
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien, lahwran↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T16:21:55.053Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Civility >>> incivility, but it is insufficient to make criticism useful and net positive.
There is a LOT wrong with the below; please no one mistake this for unnuanced endorsement of the comic or its message; I'm willing to be more specific on request about which parts I think are good versus which are bad or reinforcing various confusions. But I find this is useful for gesturing in the direction of a dynamic that feels very familiar on LW:
↑ comment by Jiro · 2023-04-11T18:43:38.355Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/9weLK2AJ9JEt2Tt8f/politics-is-the-mind-killer [LW · GW]
In artificial intelligence, and particularly in the domain of nonmonotonic reasoning, there’s a standard problem: “All Quakers are pacifists. All Republicans are not pacifists. Nixon is a Quaker and a Republican. Is Nixon a pacifist?”
What on Earth was the point of choosing this as an example? To rouse the political emotions of the readers and distract them from the main question? To make Republicans feel unwelcome in courses on artificial intelligence and discourage them from entering the field?
Why would anyone pick such a distracting example to illustrate nonmonotonic reasoning? Probably because the author just couldn’t resist getting in a good, solid dig at those hated Greens. It feels so good to get in a hearty punch, y’know, it’s like trying to resist a chocolate cookie.
As with chocolate cookies, not everything that feels pleasurable is good for you.
You shouldn't have posted this even if you agree with what it's actually saying, let alone if you don't.
And if you just don't know what it's actually saying, you really shouldn't have posted it.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien, ben-lang↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T19:06:45.507Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I intended to indicate "I do not agree with 100% of this comic's content, nor with 100% of reasonable interpretations of its message."
I did not intend to communicate "I disagree with 100% of this comic's content, or with 100% of reasonable interpretations of its message."
I posted it here correctly: to give a gesture in the direction of a particular problem/dynamic; it does in fact concisely and evocatively succeed at doing so.
Replies from: Jiro↑ comment by Jiro · 2023-04-11T19:51:09.038Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I posted it here correctly: to give a gesture in the direction of a particular problem/dynamic; it does in fact concisely and evocatively succeed at doing so.
You could say the same thing for the Nixon example. That doesn't justify using politically charged examples.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien, dr_s↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T21:07:58.403Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I deny that the burden of proof is where you claim it is. *shrug
(This is part of a larger issue where someone will be like "Heuristic X!" and other people, later, will act as though merely quoting the person who asserted Heuristic X is sufficient to demonstrate that Heuristic X is both correct-in-general and applicable-in-this-instance. Merely quoting that snippet does not, in fact, win you the argument!)
↑ comment by Ben (ben-lang) · 2023-04-12T11:21:23.701Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Out of curiosity, what is it "actually" saying? The comic strip has a whole wikipedia article, in which I did not find a politically charged meaning mentioned (obviously given the context I had to make an effort to get their without asking!).
Replies from: Jiro↑ comment by Jiro · 2023-04-12T14:21:07.684Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
It's claiming that Gamergate supporters who don't want to be called sexist, and who politely object to being called sexist, are behaving like the sealion in the strip.
Replies from: dr_s, ben-lang↑ comment by dr_s · 2023-04-12T14:48:09.073Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
But the strip itself uses a completely made up concept (of talking Sea Lions). I agree that very often that concept is used in bad faith (no matter how you put it, random outbursts on Twitter are not like talking in the privacy of your home, and you have no right to complain that random strangers are engaging you if you're literally on the Engage Random Strangers Platform), but while the comic was written for a certain context, on its own it's perfectly abstract. It's just gesturing in the direction of what we could call a form of unproductive nagging. You can use obstructionism tactics in debates, like simply trying to annoy the other person to the point that they concede your point just to be left alone.
Replies from: localdeity, Jiro↑ comment by localdeity · 2023-04-13T21:54:22.332Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Looking at the strip itself, it's pretty weird. The sea lion's words are polite, but being in someone's house uninvited is a violation of their property rights. How did he even get in—breaking and entering? Meanwhile, the person's reaction is not to say "oh my god, how did he get in?" or "get out of here or I will call the police", but to be unsurprised and annoyed.
In other panels where they're having tea or breakfast, it's unclear whether it's in their house—in which case the same stuff as above applies—or in some third-party restaurant place, in which case they would at least have the recourse of complaining to the owner and trying to persuade him that this sea lion is bothering his patrons and driving away business. Even in public, if such behavior were persistent enough, I imagine it could rise to the level of "stalking" and be punishable by law; though this is probably a grey area, and let's assume the sea lion is doing his best to remain technically within the law.
The strip could have had the sea lion follow them around while they're outside in public, and maybe had them sigh in relief when they close the door to their house. It could have shown them arguing with an unsympathetic proprietor about his behavior. But no, they're not even looking for any recourse against him. Instead, it showed the sea lion following them inside, everywhere, into their bedroom while they're trying to sleep, and this is presented as just a fact of life. Why?
I won't assume the worst motives—it's possible that the author made the situation more extreme for absurdity and humor—but whatever the intent, clearly "he follows you into your bedroom when you're trying to sleep" would intensely strengthen the elements of annoyance and of "oh god I can't escape him" for a real person. If all the scenes with the sea lion were in public, the emotional point wouldn't land as heavily... for those who don't think about the assumptions. (The fact that it's a talking sea lion generally encourages suspension of disbelief. It's also a key part of the comic: a man following a woman into her bedroom uninvited would be interpreted very differently.)
The strip embodies an acute lack of distinction between "criminal trespass and stalking" and "annoying but maybe-permissible public behavior". Blurring these together seems to be a key part of how it gives emotional weight to its point, which perhaps made it resonate with many more people than it otherwise would have.
The strip embodies the exact mindset that leads to "complaining that random strangers are engaging you when you're literally on the Engage Random Strangers Platform". I don't think there's a way it could make sense outside the context of social media platforms like that; the specific thing of "communications from randos appearing in your bedroom at night, and this being unsurprising" perfectly fits internet tech and not much else. (Getting phone calls all night would be similar, and actually worse if it prevented you sleeping, but you could unplug the phone—which is kind of the issue in a nutshell. I suspect the type of person with this mindset has their phone set to give audible notifications on all kinds of social media messages, keeps their phone nearby, and might not even set it to do-not-disturb mode at night.) The same applies to how the sea lion magically overhears the conversation and appears from nowhere in the first place, and no one is surprised at this, nor at how he keeps magically appearing in all subsequent places.
You could look at the strip and say "the point is that the sea lions are annoying, persistent, and their words are polite, and you're supposed to abstract away everything else". I think that would be wrong; I think that would mean abstracting away most of the logic (and the appeal) of the comic, and, among other things, when choosing a name for bad behavior I want far better epistemics than that.
I submit that "the point is that the people complaining about the sea lions have an immature attitude towards social media, plus they see nothing wrong with disparaging groups of people in public and are mad when called on it, and generally they are massive hypocrites". (I know it's not what they intend to say, but it is the meaning I take from their speech.) That being the case, it makes me uneasy when I see someone I respect use the term from the comic unironically.
Replies from: dr_s↑ comment by dr_s · 2023-04-14T16:23:15.436Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I submit that "the point is that the people complaining about the sea lions have an immature attitude towards social media, plus they see nothing wrong with disparaging groups of people in public and are mad when called on it, and generally they are massive hypocrites". (I know it's not what they intend to say, but it is the meaning I take from their speech.) That being the case, it makes me uneasy when I see someone I respect use the term from the comic unironically.
Yeah, honestly that's my take from it as well. But I think it's true that in certain settings you can use the "polite questions" approach as obstructionism, and it might work. For example, any kind of work meeting, an assembly, a council of any sort. "Asking polite questions" as a sort of DDoS attack on the bandwidth of any discussion is a possible dirty tactic that gives you plausible deniability. However knowing the context, the actual complaint here is probably: "I made a sweeping statement on social media about people, who should not be offended by because obviously I wasn't talking about all of them, just the bad ones, they know who they are, and then those people kept nagging me on the internet which then compelled me to answer and read their answers". To which the sane answer is "then don't make stupid sweeping statements on social media about people, or if you do and then are nagged for it, shut down your goddamn phone". So I think the concept itself of sealioning isn't completely out there, but the specific meaning the strip was originated from is actually a pretty self-centred perspective.
I see it as a case of a potentially useful term that just happened to be used badly on its very first occurrence.
↑ comment by Jiro · 2023-04-12T15:07:50.166Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
If you take it in the abstract, it's bad for a somewhat different but also somewhat related reason: If you're prejudiced against X, X is justified in objecting under almost any circumstance that isn't actually barging into your home.
If you go out in public proclaiming about how you just can't stand Jews, any "unproductive nagging" you get from Jews is your own fault.
Replies from: dr_s↑ comment by dr_s · 2023-04-12T16:04:12.977Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
True enough, though that depends a lot on what the category is. Generally speaking, immutable characteristics are a no-go, but if I say "I hate fascists", that's not due to some general quality, that's due to the specific choice of believing in fascism, which makes whoever considers themselves a fascist guilty, by definition, of possessing exactly the traits that I consider hateable. Still, I would say that insofar as I bring that up in a public forum, I should expect some pushback, and will in turn respond by explaining why and how precisely I think fascists are worthy of hate.
That said, really, I do think this is mostly a mix up between private/public spheres. Some people go on Twitter and generally treat it as if they were chatting only with close friends, then (either in good or bad faith) act outraged and surprised when random people eventually see their posts in their feed and answer them. But the whole thing is designed specifically to try to elicit those interactions: show provocative statements to people who will be provoked, because that maximises engagement. If you don't understand that much you just shouldn't be on Twitter (I'm not sure if I should, more in a general "holding onto your sanity" sense, and I understand it pretty well).
↑ comment by Ben (ben-lang) · 2023-04-12T14:30:24.232Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Thank you.
↑ comment by the gears to ascension (lahwran) · 2023-04-13T09:17:13.563Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
hi, I do that! I try to do it nicely, because I do it on purpose with an aim to help people feel challenged but welcome. I'm happy to also make a habit of criticizing bad criticism :D criticize me criticizing!
comment by mesaoptimizer · 2023-04-11T19:06:29.013Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Before reading this post, I usually would refrain from posting/commenting on LW posts partially because of the high threshold of quality for contribution (which is where I agree with you in a certain sense), and partially because it seemed more polite to ignore posts I found flaws in, or disagreed with strongly, than to engage (which costs both effort and potential reputation). Now, I believe I shall try to be more Socratic -- more willing to as politely as I can point out confusions and potential issues in posts/comments I have read and found wanting, if it seems useful to readers.
I find Said's critiquing comments (here [LW(p) · GW(p)] are [LW(p) · GW(p)] three [LW(p) · GW(p)] good examples) extremely valuable, because they serve as a "red team" and a pruning function for the claims the post author puts forth and the reasoning behind them. What you seem to consider as a drive-by criticism (which is what I believe you think Said does) that puts forth a non-trivial cost upon you, is cost that I claim you should take upon yourself because your writing isn't high quality enough and not "pruned" enough given the length of your posts.
That is the biggest issue I have with your writings (and that of Zack too, because he makes the same mistake): you write too much to communicate too little bits of usefulness. This is how I feel for all your 2023 posts that I have read (or skimmed, rather) -- it points to something useful, or interesting, but it is absolutely not worth the time investment of reading such huge and long-winding essays. I don't even think you need to write them that long to provide the context you believe necessary to convey your points.
The good thing is that with comments like those of johnswentworth [LW(p) · GW(p)], Charlie Steiner [LW(p) · GW(p)], and FeepingCreature [LW(p) · GW(p)] all give people like me the context they need to interpret how useful your post is, without having to read the post itself. Notice that all these comments are short and succinct while also being very relevant to the post, without nitpicking. This is the sort of writing I respect on LW. It is not coincidental that two of these three people are full time alignment researchers.
Right now, I can simply ignore your posts until they get sufficient traction (which is very easy given how popular you are) that the comments give me an idea of the core of your post and what the most serious weaknesses of your argument are, and with that I have gotten the value I need (given I skim your post while doing so, whenever relevant). However, your desire to censor Said's comments gets in the way of this natural filter. Said's comments provide incredible value to both you and your audience, even if you do not interact with them! To you, it provides you valuable evidence you can weigh up or down given how valuable you find Said's comments in general, and to LW audience, it provides a way of knowing the critical weaknesses of your argument without having to read your post and parse it and try to figure out the weaknesses in it.
You claim emotional damage to yourself and to other people due to drive-by critiquing comments, and that this leads to an evaporative cooling effect where people post lesser and lesser. This seems like a problem, but given one person spending half an hour pruning their writing to improve its quality, and a hundred readers spending between ten minutes to an hour processing and individually critiquing the writing to calibrate and update their world model, I would want the writer to eat the cost. That is what I personally choose, after all. And by extension, I have realized that me critiquing other people's contributions is also incredibly valuable, and I will start to do that more. And anyway, this probably isn't a trade-off, and there may be solutions that do not impose a cost on either party.
As far as I know, Said seems to believe that moderation of comments should not be left to post authors because this creates a conflict of interest. Its consequences are simple: I get less value out of your posts and by extension, LW. Raemon's decision to create an archipelago-like ecosystem [LW · GW] makes sense to me given his goals and assumptions laid out in the post, but you seem to want more aggressive action against people whose criticisms you dislike.
"You don’t much care if This Rando doesn’t get it" [LW · GW], and I would be fine with that if you weren't taking actions that have clear externalities for readers like me by making Said's critiquing comments and comments of a similar nature by other people less welcome on LessWrong -- both as a social norm and at the moderator level.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien, Duncan_Sabien, Jiro, Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T23:04:42.901Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Pulling up a thought from another subthread:
Basically, I'm claiming that there are competing access needs, here, such as can be found in a classroom in which some students need things to be still and silent, and other students need to fidget and stim.
The Socrati and the Athenians are not entirely in a zero-sum game, but their dynamic has nonzero zero-sum nature. The thing that Socrates needs is inimical to the thing the Athenians need, and vice versa.
I think that's just ... visibly, straightforwardly true, here on LW; you can actually just see how, as the culture has shifted Socratesward, many authors have left.
Other authors have arrived! Socrates had many followers! There were a lot of people who liked his whole deal, and were enjoying the vibe!
But I'm claiming that the current tradeoff leans in the direction of "make things optimal for mesaoptimizer and suboptimal for Duncan_Sabien," and separately that "things being optimal for mesaoptimizer actually makes LessWrong as a whole more likely to dry up and shut down, since LW depends on people being willing to write essays."
(The Socrati mode being better for commenters than authors, and the Athenian mode being better for authors than for (some) commenters (such as mesaoptimizer).)
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T21:03:58.839Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This response has completely sidestepped the crucial piece, which is to what extent [that kind of commentary] drives authors away entirely.
You're acting as if you always have fodder for that sort of engagement, and you in fact don't; enough jesters, and there are no kings left to critique.
↑ comment by Jiro · 2023-04-13T16:07:23.442Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
That is the biggest issue I have with your writings (and that of Zack too, because he makes the same mistake): you write too much to communicate too little bits of usefulness.
Given what Zack writes about, I think he has no choice but to write this way. If he was brief, there would be politically-motivated misreadings of his posts. His only option is to write a long post which preemptively rules those out.
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T23:13:07.646Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
(Sorry for triple reply, trying to keep threads separate such that each can be responded to individually.)
what the most serious weaknesses of your argument are
I claim that the LW of 2023 is worse at correctly identifying the most serious weaknesses of a given argument than the LW of 2018.
Relative to the LW of 2018, I have the subjective sense that there's much much more strawmanning and zeroing-in-on-non-cruxes and eliding the distinctions between "A somewhat implies B," "A strongly implies B," and "A is tantamount to B."
I would genuinely expect that a hypothetical LWer who gets the gist of my arguments mostly from comments written in disagreement is, in fact, getting the gist of a cardboard cutout created by people who (say) don't actually read the thing that I wrote, but instead spend a few minutes on the first paragraph and then leap to reply "this is insane."
(That user has since apologized for that specific thing that they did, and I wouldn't harp on it except that I think it's genuinely representative of, and emblematic of, the thing that LW is more of now than it used to be five years ago. The recent response to my Basics post, for instance, contained loads and loads of stuff that I straightforwardly agree with, presented as if it was contra my claims, and it simply wasn't.)
A user who waits to read the top couple of disagreeing comments is a user who's gonna very quickly build a shoulder strawman without even noticing that that's what they're doing.
Replies from: Raemon↑ comment by Raemon · 2023-04-11T23:57:13.950Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
FYI I think I disagree with the 2018 vs 2023 claim here, I think everything you're pointing at was in fact worse in 2018 (i.e. there were more users actively pushing for it, and most of them kinda left since then)
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-12T02:03:19.372Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I would trust you to have a better sense of the overall LW experience, so this is evidence that this might be a my-posts problem, but it's definitely gotten worse for me specifically. It was not this hard to get people to let go of their strawmen even with stuff like Punch Bug (which is a topic people have very strong preconceptions and feelings about).
Replies from: Raemon↑ comment by Raemon · 2023-04-12T02:05:52.621Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Huh. I am surprised about that.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-12T02:34:59.151Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
From another comment on this post:
Sorry, didn't mean to imply that the shift was from [zero] to [large number]. More wanted to gesture at a shift from [moderate number] to [large number].
Like, there's the difference between viscerally expecting one in four essays to result in a negative experience of magnitude 10 lasting for a day or two, and viscerally expecting two in three essays to result in a negative experience of magnitude 30 lasting for four days.
If the "ban commenter" function had not been implemented, I wouldn't have posted any of my last five or six essays, and would be already gone.
comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-11T18:59:39.890Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
A specific thing people could do that I think would tremendously help the site culture, without at all limiting our ability to be critical when warranted, is just to preface critical comments with evidence that the critic has put in some work to ensure they're understanding the original material.
Ideally, that would entail providing:
- A quote of the statement they disagree with
- A brief description of the context of the post and how the bit they're criticizing relates
- At least some engagement with the specific supporting arguments or evidence originally provided.
- Engaging with the supporting arguments and evidence is essential.
- This is a form of debate I think is productive because it engages the arguments and evidence offered by the other person:
- "I think A because B"
- "I think not-A because I think not-B because C," or "I think not-A because I think C, which outweights B because D."
- This is a form of debate I think is unproductive because the second person doesn't engage with the first person's reasoning - only with their claim:
- "I think A because B"
- "I think not-A because C" (which doesn't explain C's relationship with B), or "I think not-A because I think C, which outweighs B" (which doesn't explain why C outweighs B".
- In general, I think it's up to each respondant to show engagement with the previous person. There's a certain privilege of the prior speaker: if I say "A because B," and you want to voice your disagreement, then you have to at least say "not-A because not-B because C." You don't just get to say "not-A because not-B." That might be a little unfair, but it also gives me the onus to then say "I still think A because C, which outweighs B, because D."
- I think that a definitive feature of crappy Socratic interrogations of the kind Duncan's describing here is the absence of this feature, and the presence of this feature defines the best conversations I've had in any environment.
comment by gjm · 2023-04-11T13:45:55.331Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
First, ironically I guess, an incidental nitpick: the plural of "Socrates" is not"Socrati". (I don't think there's any case to be made for anything other than "Socrateses".)
More substantively: I think the following are both true: (1) excessive, hostile and/or unconstructive criticism is harmful; (2) one of the things that makes LW an interesting place to discuss things is a more-than-averagely critical culture, where (at least to some extent, at least in principle) we are trying to get things right and if something seems wrong then helping it become Less Wrong can matter more than maintaining a polite welcoming atmosphere.
There are a couple of LW regulars whom Duncan finds particularly annoying on the grounds that they are too Socratic, criticizing more than they build, criticizing unimportant details, etc. I understand why Duncan finds them annoying; I too find them annoying sometimes; but I do not think LW would be improved by "killing" them. It may be that they would be more useful to the community if they adopted a different balance of criticism to construction. But we don't actually have the option of choosing between "X" and "X, but more construction and less criticism": they are who they are, they have the particular abilities and inclinations that they have, and if what they do is mostly criticize, well, I think that criticism is valuable on net even if it's annoying.
And I'm not sure what they do is mostly criticize. One of those repeated adversaries is one of the creators and maintainers of GreaterWrong, which I believe many people have found valuable as a different UI on top of the LW backend; that seems pretty constructive to me. And the other has put a lot of time and trouble into thinking about, and promoting, a particular view of how language ought to be used, which seems to me clearly a constructive enterprise even though as it happens (a) I disagree with that view and (b) I think it is to an uncomfortable extent a consequence of that person's views on a particular hot-button socioculturopolitical issue. For that matter, Socrates (or more precisely Socrates-as-portrayed-by-Plato) seems to have had a bunch of positive ideas he was pushing, which were interesting whether or not correct, and wasn't just a nitpicker, even if what got him executed was his nitpickery.
Also, consider the "3300-word piece about how one section of someone else's building is WRONG". That's not such a bad description of it... except that I think said piece does in fact suggest what its author thinks would be better than that section of the building. It doesn't suggest how to "solve the perceived problem better" because (as I understand it) its author doesn't agree that the perceived problem is a real problem. Zack's piece is not unconstructive nitpickery, as I see it; it's a genuine disagreement about what constructive truth-seeking discourse looks like. (I agree with Duncan more than I do with Zack about what constructive truth-seeking discourse looks like. But my complaint is that Zack is wrong, not that he's not trying to be constructive.)
Now, for sure I could be wrong about the overall value of criticism on LW. Maybe it does more harm by driving away good posters than it does good by helping people refine their ideas and discouraging unnecessary sloppiness. We should absolutely be aware of that danger. But before taking a step as drastic as "killing Socrates" I think we would want to be pretty confident that the harm Socrates does outweighs the good. I think it's very far from clear that that was true of Literal Socrates, and I think it's very far from clear that it's true of Duncan's adversaries.
Replies from: pktechgirl, AnthonyC, Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-04-11T23:33:48.930Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
First, ironically I guess, an incidental nitpick: the plural of "Socrates" is not"Socrati". (I don't think there's any case to be made for anything other than "Socrateses".)
Dude, why?
Replies from: lillybaeum↑ comment by lillybaeum · 2023-04-12T09:15:11.245Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think it was meant in good humor, but it did feel a little on the nose.
Replies from: gekaklam↑ comment by gekaklam · 2023-04-12T11:54:27.614Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
And following up on this, "Socrateses" is probably wrong. 😅
In Modern Greek, the plural would be Socratides (Σωκράτηδες; the primary stress is on a) or Socrates (Σωκράτες; way less commonly used). With a 2-min search I found this ref to make the case for Socratides.
[And since I happen to have an Ancient Greek language teacher in the next room, by asking her, she gave the following reference]
In Ancient Greek, it would be Σωκράται. If you look at section "133. α" here you can find its conjugation in the example. This would be translated to either: Socrate, or most probably Socratai (again with the primary stress on "a" and with the last "ai" pronounced as the "ai" in "air".
Given the above, the term originally used by Duncan (Socrati), is pretty damn accurate.
↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-12T18:40:25.203Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Huh, interesting. I still think "Socrateses" is preferable in English -- generally foreign imports into English don't pluralize according to source-language patterns other than the best-known ones; e.g., if someone writes "octopodes" you can be pretty sure they are doing it for humour, and if someone writes "censūs" you can be pretty sure you've somehow dropped into an alternate universe.
Still, I hadn't realised that there was any standard Greek plural for "Socrates" (it's not obvious that proper nouns necessarily have plural forms, after all) and in particular hadn't realised that "Socratai" would be the canonical thing.
I don't think I agree that "Socrati" is a good anglicization of "Σωκράται" if you are going to use a Greek plural, though. Is there any other case where a Greek plural ending -ai turns into an English version in -i?
↑ comment by AnthonyC · 2023-04-12T04:27:31.895Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
For that matter, Socrates (or more precisely Socrates-as-portrayed-by-Plato) seems to have had a bunch of positive ideas he was pushing, which were interesting whether or not correct, and wasn't just a nitpicker, even if what got him executed was his nitpickery.
IIRC from the one relevant course I took over 15 years ago, that's largely a difference between early Plato, reporting what Socrates did and said, and later Plato, using Socrates as a character/mouthpiece for his own ideas.
Replies from: philh↑ comment by philh · 2023-04-12T22:07:28.341Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
(To clarify - is your recollection that "Plato's early Socrates, more closely reflecting actual Socrates, was a nitpicker; and Plato's late Socrates, a mouthpiece for Plato, was pushing for stuff"? Or the other way around?)
Replies from: gjm↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-12T23:56:48.367Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
According to the SEP page about Plato, the former is a widely held view (but the author of that page thinks it's an oversimplification).
Replies from: AnthonyC↑ comment by AnthonyC · 2023-04-13T15:53:56.603Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This. Awesome reference, thanks!
And I'm sure it is an oversimplification! Obviously Socrates was human and knew things and had ideas, no matter what he says and does in some of the dialogs. And obviously Plato was human and didn't wait until late in his career to start having ideas of his own. And I never did ask how any classicists and historians decided what order Plato wrote his dialogs in, or whether it was controversial.
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T15:17:01.664Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
One of those repeated adversaries is one of the creators and maintainers of GreaterWrong, which I believe many people have found valuable as a different UI on top of the LW backend; that seems pretty constructive to me
I think if LW's stance is "we're going to let this person drive away high-quality writers on the regular because we like the fact that they made GreaterWrong," that's worth being explicit about.
(That person is more responsible than any other single individual for Eliezer not being around much these days.)
Replies from: gjm, Dagon, rsaarelm↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-11T15:47:26.187Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
To be clear, I wasn't at all saying that. I was saying "this person is clearly not interested only in destructive nitpicking; here's a substantial high-effort constructive thing they have done".
Whether their presence on LW is net positive or negative is a completely separate question. (My current opinion is "clear net positive" but of course I could be wrong, and if e.g. it were the case that we could have Said or Eliezer but not both then that would be an argument on the other side -- though I really don't like the idea of banning user A because user B dislikes having them around even if user B is someone we would very much like to be here.)
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T15:54:27.865Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I agree it's a high-effort, constructive contribution.
I don't know how to contrast it with making the business of actually writing LW content far worse than it otherwise would be.
I agree it's a bad idea to ban user A because user B dislikes having them around. I think it's a good idea to ban user A because users B, C, D, G, L, P, Q, R, and W, all of whom were valued contributors, all cited user A on their way out the door.
Replies from: gjm↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-11T16:27:20.683Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Have those people in fact said "I am leaving LW because I dislike interacting with Said"? Or is it something more like "I am leaving LW because I dislike the over-critical culture, of which Said is the clearest example"? Because if it's the latter then it could be simultaneously true that (1) lots of people abandoning LW gave Said's interaction style as a reason for leaving and that (2) banning Said wouldn't actually do much to help.
(I remark that I have no evidence other than your say-so that lots of people have cited Said in explaining why they left LW, and that people's explanations of such things are not always an accurate reflection of the actual causes. I am not, for the avoidance of doubt, claiming or even conjecturing that either you or they are/were lying.)
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast, Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-11T17:21:51.500Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Since we're talking about it, I have also told the mods that Said is one of three people who are readily top of mind at having a net negative impact on my LW experience. I'd just sort of been dealing with it, and personally I do not favor banning people sitewide for making me feel uncomfortable. But one of the mods reached out to me and specifically asked about factors influencing my experience of LessWrong, and the vibe and some of the specific commenters Duncan's pointing out here are what I had reported was the main negative factor for me.
One of the facets of your comment here is that it puts the emphasis in a frustrating place: instead of saying "ah, n of 1, it's good to know Said bugs you, I wonder if anybody else feels the same way," it says "you're the only person I've ever heard of complaining about Said, although I'm not saying you're lying," which is like a super negative way of being "neutral" about what Duncan said.
Like, imagine you said that to your significant other if they told you that one of your mutual friends, Bob, bothered your SO a lot during conversations, and that your SO had heard from other friends that Bob was very bothersome as well and made them not want to come and hang out. Would you say something like "I remark that I have no evidence other than your say-so that lots of our mutual friends have cited Bob in explaining why they don't come to our board game night...?"
That sort of approach is a great way to alienate people and kill relationships. Why not just come right out and say "I don't trust you enough to update ~at all on your reports about how other people feel about Bob?" That would at least be honest!
Replies from: pktechgirl, gjm↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-04-11T23:56:53.360Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Did you know about the option to ban people from your posts? If yes, may I ask why you didn't ban Said?
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-12T01:41:33.821Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I didn’t know about that until I saw somebody mention it in another comment today. I will probably start doing this.
↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-12T01:12:38.283Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I did not intend to say or imply "you're the only person I've ever heard of", nor to be super-negative, and I don't think I trust Duncan particularly less (or more) than a typical other prominent LW participant. (But I might trust him less specifically when reporting negative things about Said than I would trust him on other matters, and I would likewise trust Said less specifically when reporting negative things about Duncan.)
If anything I said caused anyone else to trust Duncan less, or caused Duncan any distress, then that was very much not an intended effect and I apologize.
I do, rereading what I wrote, see how it could be interpreted as having a much stronger negative subtext than I intended. What I intended was along the following lines: What Duncan is saying in this thread about "more than a dozen" high-quality ex-LWers citing Said as a major reason for their departure is, unlike the already well-known fact that Duncan himself finds Said intensely unpleasant to interact with, new information for me; but I am aware that when people find one another intensely unpleasant to interact with the things they say about one another are not always perfectly accurate, even when everyone involved is aiming to be truthful and fair, and I want to be cautious in how much I adjust my estimate of Said's net impact on LW in response to something that comes from a single source I can't check.
(But, in response to your outright accusation of dishonesty at the end: if I said the thing you would prefer me to say, it would be an untruth; my opinion of Duncan is not what you imply it is. My opinion of my wife, even less so, but I assume the point here is the application to the present case.)
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-12T01:45:18.637Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
That’s fair - I should not have accused you of dishonesty, and I apologize.
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T16:30:09.634Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I have heard both, the latter maybe 2x as often as the former?
I think that what's happening right now, and has been happening over the years, is that the message "this is the kind of engagement we do, here" has been sent over and over again, and the mass of users has responded accordingly. I think if that message stopped being sent, or if a strong countersignal was sent, the mass of users would again respond accordingly.
↑ comment by Dagon · 2023-04-11T15:33:15.225Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
That person is more responsible than any other single individual for Eliezer not being around much these days.
I can't model Eliezer very well, but I'd argue that Eliezer is responsible for that decision. Whether it's because he gets more reach elsewhere, less annoying diagreement/pointing out flaws, or what, it's on him, not on any individual poster. I give him a ton of credit (and Robin Hanson) for starting LessWrong, but I reject any implication that we should limit or prune LessWrong to make it more appealing to Eliezer. Multiplied by a lot if Eliezer isn't directly asking for some change, and we're just cargo-culting what it looked like a decade ago.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T15:44:34.489Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I chose Eliezer as one example; it would be a mistake to think that my overall point was about Eliezer.
This single individual (who was recently making a big deal about being non-banned/in good standing) is more responsible than any other single individual for driving away more than a dozen high-quality authors; is the most-frequently cited reason, as far as I can tell, when high-quality people are asked to be specific about why they're not on LessWrong/what makes LessWrong a miserable place to try to share their ideas and co-think.
Hearing that they're tolerated because they maintain GreaterWrong makes my CFAR instincts tingle and makes me want to teach people about goal factoring.
Replies from: Dagon, gjm↑ comment by Dagon · 2023-04-11T15:59:07.978Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Fair enough. I bounce off a lot of posts and comments, so I probably do some amount of victim-blaming if someone over-weights criticism, especially if it's annoying and wrong. I don't see how one or a few posters can move the site from well-worth posting to negative value, though it certainly could change the sign for a very marginal decision.
Even so, unless the problematic posts and comments are getting downvoted, but somehow still in-your-face enough to drive someone away, it's hard to see that banning or otherwise authoritatively controlling the poster is justified.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T16:06:47.252Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Er, the (somewhat fuzzy) thesis of the post is that there's a thing where, like, one or two prominent Socrati set the vibe, and then a bunch of other people follow suit; I find that criticism on LW feels more like [that guy] + [100 emulators of his style of engagement] than it used to.
Ultimately, it isn't about just that one person's engagement (although as I note above, they seem to have an outsized direct impact) so much as it is about a ... prion disease?
As someone who's posted about 60 or 70 essays on LW over the past eight years, doing so in 2023 involves a lot of bracing, as if I were hyping myself up to grab an electric fence. I straightforwardly expect the experience of posting to involve a net-negative subsequent four days. This was not the case in e.g. the Conor Moreton days, even though one or two of the Conor Moreton essays ended up in net negative territory.
If it's that rough for me, when I'm a good writer who's confident in his insights and has a lot of people who are interested-by-default in his thoughts, I imagine it can get a lot harder for the twenty-year-old not-yet-known version of me.
Replies from: gjm, Dagon↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-11T16:30:37.214Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
My recollection is that "Conor Moreton" at least once wrote something along the lines of "I find writing for LW stressful because I get a lot of criticism". Maybe I'm misremembering, and for sure the obvious guess would be that you remember more clearly than I do, but my recollection now of my impression then is that it was nearer than you're suggesting to how you describe your present experience of posting on LW.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T16:33:52.851Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Oh, I've definitely found it somewhat stressful all along; I think I'm in the most sensitive quintile if not decile.
Sorry, didn't mean to imply that the shift was from [zero] to [large number]. More wanted to gesture at a shift from [moderate number] to [large number].
Like, there's the difference between viscerally expecting one in four essays to result in a negative experience of magnitude 10 lasting for a day or two, and viscerally expecting two in three essays to result in a negative experience of magnitude 30 lasting for four days.
If the "ban commenter" function had not been implemented, I wouldn't have posted any of my last five or six essays, and would be already gone.
↑ comment by Dagon · 2023-04-11T17:51:02.456Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Ah, I see. I don't really disagree, but I also don't think LW is unique in this, nor that there is (or can be) a long-lived growing-popularity group that maintains the feel of the early days. This seems like an evolution that's plagued old-timers of a medium for all time, from SF fandom to pre-internet BBSs and Usenet, to early-internet special-purpose forums, to LW and rationalist-adjecent fora.
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-11T18:16:58.700Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I don't think Duncan's gesturing at the "eternal September" problem - I think he's talking about the "toxic low-grade criticism" problem, which is a related but separate issue. A persistent culture of toxic low-grade criticism exacerbates the eternal September problem by allowing impressionable newcomers to become acculturated to the pre-existing toxic dynamic, or to self-select for compatibility with it, making it that much harder to deal with. But you can work on improving the culture while also admitting that the constant influx of newcomers may make it difficult to go as far as you'd like to in terms of creating a specific and consistent set of norms.
Replies from: Dagon↑ comment by Dagon · 2023-04-11T19:10:59.481Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think there are some differences between this and other instances of degradation of quality by growth and entry of less-hardcore newcomers, and a resulting shift in norms that are generally negative in terms of quality. But I think there are a lot more similarities than differences.
↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-11T15:48:02.472Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I repeat that I did not say and did not mean that anyone is "tolerated because they maintain GreaterWrong".
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T15:53:26.350Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I affirm that you did not say it, and believe that you did not mean it.
I would bet $100 to someone's $1 that, if we could check the other timeline where that person behaved exactly the same way in comments, but had not made GreaterWrong, they would've been banned years ago.
(I believe this in part because I've heard multiple mods across multiple years talk about wanting to ban that person specifically, and I've heard GreaterWrong raised explicitly as cause for hesitation in something like four out of seven such discussions.)
Replies from: gjm↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-11T16:22:36.948Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I can't think of any way to operationalize that bet -- other than maybe noting that you have some of the same objections to Zack as to Said, and Zack also has not been banned; but to my mind their styles of interaction on LW are quite different and I can easily imagine someone finding one of them clearly net positive and the other clearly net negative. I guess we could ask the moderators, but they might very reasonably not want to answer that question, and you might fairly reasonably not trust whatever answer they gave.
If we could operationalize it, though, I think I would be quite happy taking the other side of it. 100:1 feels way overconfident to me.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien, tomcatfish↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T16:28:10.492Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Oh, to be clear: I don't think Zack should be banned from LW. I'd prefer to never interact with him at all, but as noted elsewhere, I'm perfectly happy to stay in my corner and leave him alone over in his.
(I also can't think of any way to operationalize the bet.)
↑ comment by Alex Vermillion (tomcatfish) · 2023-08-10T13:04:27.357Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Lucky, I have a comment saved to that exact effect, as I have been workshopping a community dynamics post for a long time about a related dynamic:
↑ comment by rsaarelm · 2023-04-12T21:25:56.669Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
(That person is more responsible than any other single individual for Eliezer not being around much these days.)
Wait, the only thing I remember Said and Eliezer arguing about was Eliezer's glowfic. Eliezer dropped out of LW over an argument about how he was writing about tabletop RPG rules in his fanfiction?
Replies from: gjm, philh↑ comment by gjm · 2023-04-13T02:07:51.061Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Eliezer wasn't posting much on LW before then, unless I'm misremembering badly, so if (1) you're right about that being the only substantial argument between Eliezer and Said and (2) Duncan's claim is specifically that Eliezer avoids LW because of unpleasant interactions he's had with Said (as opposed to e.g. because he's observed how Said interacts with others and doesn't want to risk joining their number) then something doesn't add up.
Replies from: Raemoncomment by Raemon · 2023-04-11T22:17:07.490Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I do want to note, if this post (or at least many of the comments) are basically arguing about one particular person who's blocked from commenting, I do have a different take on it than my usual opinion on authors-get-to-block-whoever.
I haven't currently had enough time to think through this that explicitly and form a considered opinion, but, just flagging this for now. (It's a bit confusing that thing to ask for here, given our existing tooling. I might create a new top-level post that's like "actually hash out the object level")
Replies from: Raemon, Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Raemon · 2023-04-12T00:37:35.773Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Update: I don't know if this is a great solution but for immediate future I declare this comment on comment on "LW Team is adjusting moderation policy" [LW(p) · GW(p)] to be a place where a) I'll be putting my own thoughts on this topic when I have time, and b) Said is welcome to argue.
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T22:46:11.378Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I tried to refrain from getting specific, but did not feel like it was correct to bar others from getting specific, nor to refuse to respond to them.
comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-11T20:50:50.037Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I would probably be accused of being part of the sorts of counterproductive criticism you are talking about in your post. I am trying to think whether I have ever faced the sort of criticism myself on LessWrong. I've written quite a few posts that have received a significant amount of attention, e.g.:
- Are smart people's personal experiences biased against general intelligence? [LW · GW]
- Instrumental convergence is what makes general intelligence possible [LW · GW]
- Latent variables for prediction markets: motivation, technical guide, and design considerations [LW · GW]
- Random facts can come back to bite you [LW · GW]
- What sorts of preparations ought I do in case of further escalation in Ukraine? [LW · GW]
- 🤔 Coordination explosion before intelligence explosion...? [LW · GW]
- Towards a comprehensive study of potential psychological causes of the ordinary range of variation of affective gender identity in males [LW · GW]
Maybe I've just been lucky, but I guess at least in that case it seems like the base rate for being unlucky is fairly low.
It's the difference between, say, writing a 3300-word piece about how one section of someone else's building is WRONG [LW · GW], and spending 3300 words suggesting a replacement that might solve the perceived problem better, without containing Flaw X or causing Negative Side Effect Y.
A kind of unfortunate thing about Zack's response is that he follows the LessWrong taboo on politically charged examples, and that makes it unclear what kinds of disagreements he has in mind in his post. To familiarize yourself with it, you can take a look at Containment Thread on the Motivation and Political Context for My Philosophy of Language Agenda [LW · GW], but the TL;DR is that leaders in the rationalist community have often been acting in bad faith wrt. trans issues.
This sort of situation makes calls for assumptions of good faith a threat to Zack, because such calls undermine creating common knowledge about what situation he is in. If you want to be able to make calls for good faith assumptions without triggering Zack, I think the best approach would be to restore good faith by pushing rationalist leaders to make amends to Zack if you have any leverage within the rationalist community. (After all, we certainly can't assume good faith when there's clear bad faith going on.) And to come up with structural solutions to prevent it from happening again.
More generally, one thing that can be done to prevent these sorts of traumas from building up is taking more care to resolve objections/complaints. If someone has an issue with something you are doing/saying, then there's a good chance you are doing/saying something wrong [LW(p) · GW(p)], and by listening to them and correcting yourself, you can eliminate the complaint in a mutually satisfying way.
Replies from: tailcalled, Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-11T22:34:56.937Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Gonna bring up another case where someone was critical on LessWrong: someone advocated for socialist firms [LW · GW] and I (being critical) spot-checked claims about employee engagement [LW(p) · GW(p)] and coop productivity [LW(p) · GW(p)]. Does the "Killing Socrates" point apply to my comments here? Why/why not?
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T22:59:38.098Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Personally, I think those comments are good.
In the first, you take a place where someone has cited very specific numbers, and ask them to (basically) say where those numbers came from. Then, you note note a problem with the claim "if [socialist] then [more productive]" by pointing out that socialist firms haven't come to dominate the economy.
In the second, you accommodate the other user's request that you target your spot-check to co-ops, note that your spot-check led you to the opposite conclusion of the other user, and also note a confusion about whether the cited study is even coherent.
I think this is extremely standard, central LW skepticism in its healthy form.
Some things those comments do not do:
- Attempt to set the frame of the discussion to something like ~"obviously this objection I have raised is fundamentally a defeater of your whole point; if you do not answer it satisfactorily then your thesis has been debunked," which is a thing that Socrati tend to do to a pretty substantial degree.
- Leap to conclusions about what the author meant, or what their point is tantamount to, and then run off toward the horizon without checking back in. You're just straightforwardly expressing confusions and curiosities, not putting words in the author's mouth.
- Create a large burden-of-response upon the author. They're pretty atomic, simple points; each could be replied to without the author having to do the equivalent of writing a whole new essay.
- Cause a tree-explosion where, like, the response to Objection A generates Objections B and C, and then the response to Objection B generates Objections D and E, and then the response to Objection C generates Objections F, G, and H, all without a) consideration for whether the other person intends to go that deep, or b) consideration for whether the Objections are anywhere near the crux of the issue.
I apologize; this comment is sort of dashed off and I would've liked to have an additional spoon for it; I don't think I've been exhaustive or thorough. But hopefully this gives at least a little more detail.
Replies from: tailcalled, PoignardAzur↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-12T06:30:05.039Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
So maybe a better example of the problem you are talking about is this, where I basically end up in a position of "if you cannot give an explanation of how this neurological study supports your point, then your point is obscurantist? [LW(p) · GW(p)] My behavior in this thread could sort of be said to contain all four of the issues you mention. However rereading the original post and thread makes me feel like it was pretty appropriate. There were some things I could have done better, but my response was better than nothing, despite ultimately being a criticism.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-12T06:49:21.973Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think that sometimes it is true that you and a conversational partner will be in a situation where it really actually seems like the highest-probability hypothesis, by a high margin, is that they can't explain because their point has no merit.
I think one arrives at such a high probability on such a sad hypothesis due to specific kinds of evidence.
I think that often, people are overconfident that that's what's going on, and undercounting hypotheses like "the person wants to have the conversation at a different level of meta" or "they just do not have the time to reply to each of ten different commenters who are highly motivated to spill words" or "the person asking for the explanation is not the kind of person the author is trying to bridge with or convince."
(This is near the root of my issues with Said—I don't find Said's confusions at all predictive or diagnostic of confusion-among-my-actual-audience; Said seems to think that his own lack of understanding means something about the point being confused or insufficiently explained or justified, and I often simply disagree, and think that it's a him-problem.)
I think that it's good to usually leave space for people, as a matter of policy—to try not to leave the impression that you think (and thus others should think) that a failure to respond adequately is damning, except where you actually for-real think that a failure to respond adequately is genuinely damning.
Like, it's important not to whip that social weapon out willy-nilly, because then it's hard to tell when no, we really mean it, if they can't answer this question we should actually throw out their claims.
Currently, the environment of LW feels, to me, supersaturated with that sort of implication in a way that robs the genuine examples of their power, similar to how if people refer to every little microaggression as "racism" then calling out an actual racist being actually macro-racist becomes much harder to do.
I don't think it's bad or off-limits to say that if someone can't answer X, their point is invalid, but I think we should reserve that for when it's both justified and actually seriously meant.
↑ comment by PoignardAzur · 2023-04-29T10:14:58.250Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think this is extremely standard, central LW skepticism in its healthy form.
Some things those comments do not do: [...]
I think that's a very interesting list of points. I didn't like the essay at all, and the message didn't feel right to me, but this post right here makes me a lot more sympathetic to it.
(Which is kind of ironic; you say this comment is dashed off, and you presumably spent a lot more time on the essay; but I'd argue the comment conveys a lot more useful information.)
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T21:07:26.714Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
If someone has an issue with something you are doing/saying, then there's a good chance you are doing/saying something wrong
Indeed: and many many people have issue with what the-LW-users-euphemized-as-Socrates are doing, and they are utterly recalcitrant to change.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-11T21:49:08.841Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Hm...
I mean you're not 100% wrong that the dissatisfaction indicates that there's some sort of problem somewhere. I think my counterarguments are also not 100% wrong though.
Maybe the issue is that we are both jumping to conclusions without fully mapping out the underlying issues. Like I mostly don't know which people have gotten run off LessWrong, nor which interactions caused them to get run off. Maybe a list of examples could help clarify why their experience differs from mine, as well as clarify whether there's any alternatives to "less LessWrong critics" and "less LessWrong authors" to solve the problem (e.g. maybe standardizing some type of confidence indicators or something could help, hypothetically).
(Though that's the issue, right? Your point is that mapping out the issue is too much work. So it's not gonna get done. Maybe the Lightcone LW team could sponsor the mapping? Idk.)
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast, Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-12T04:42:43.482Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think there is a simple solution: the people who are currently getting quietly pissed at the Socrati, or who are sucking it up and tolerating them, stop doing so. They start criticizing the criticism, downvoting hard, upvoting the non-Socrati just to correct for the negativity drip, and banning the most prolific Socrati from commenting on their posts.
Instead of laboriously figuring out whether a problem exists, the people for whom Socrati are a problem can use the tools at their disposal to fight back/insulate themselves from worthless and degrading criticism.
Or the Socrati could, you know, listen to the complaints and adjust their behavior. But I don’t see that or some sort of LW research into the true feelings of the frustrated expats actually happening, and I think the best alternative is just to have people like Duncan who are frustrated with the situation just being a lot more vocal and active.
Replies from: pktechgirl↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-04-12T07:34:56.525Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
One reason I want more people to know about and use the ban-from-my-post feature is so the mod team* can notice patterns in who gets banned by individuals. Lots of people are disinclined to complain, especially if they believe Socrates is the site culture, censuses of people who quietly left are effort intensive and almost impossible to make representative, but own-post banning is an honest signal that aligns with people's natural incentives.
*Technically I'm on the mod team but in practice only participate in discussions, rather than take direct action myself.
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-11T22:47:34.898Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think my claim is more "there are genuine competing access needs between Socrati and Athenians, they fundamentally cannot both get all of what they want," + a personal advocating-for-having-the-Athenians-win, à la "let's have a well-kept garden."
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-12T09:30:33.732Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I mean that's your conclusion. But your claim is that the underlying problem/constraint that generates this conclusion is that the Socrati raise a bunch of doubts about stuff and it's too much work for the Athenians to address those doubts.
Like you say the Athenians have the need for trust so they can build things bigger than themselves, and the Socrati have the need for being allowed to freely critique so they can siphon status by taking cheap shots at the Athenians. And these needs conflict because the cheap shots create a burden on the Athenians to address them.
Like to me the obvious starting point would be to list as many of the instances of this happening as possible and to better get a picture of what's going on. Which writers are we losing, what writings have they contributed with, and what interactions made them leave? But this sort of rigorous investigation seems kind of counter to the spirit of your complaint.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-12T09:37:13.948Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Nnnnot quite; that's not the analogy I intended to Athens.
Rather, what I'm saying is that the Socrati make the process of creating and sharing thoughts on LW much more costly than it otherwise would be, which drives authors away, which makes LW worse.
I don't want to betray confidences or put words in other people's mouths, but I can say that I've teetered on the verge of abandoning LW over the past couple of months, entirely due to large volumes of frustratingly useless and soul-sucking commentary in the vein of Socrates, one notable example being our interactions on the Lizardman post.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-12T09:57:10.243Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Nnnnot quite; that's not the analogy I intended to Athens.
Rather, what I'm saying is that the Socrati make the process of creating and sharing thoughts on LW much more costly than it otherwise would be, which drives authors away, which makes LW worse.
I'm not sure what is the essential difference you are highlighting between your description of the analogy and my description.
I don't want to betray confidences or put words in other people's mouths,
Maybe you can ping the people involved and encourage them to leave a description of their experiences here if they want?
but I can say that teetered on the verge of abandoning LW over the past couple of months, entirely due to large volumes of frustratingly useless and soul-sucking commentary in the vein of Socrates, one notable example being our interactions on the Lizardman post.
I still think I had a reasonable point with my comments on the lizardman post, and Zack's response to your post seems to be another example along the lines of my post.
It seems to me that the basic issue with your post is that you were calling for assumptions of good faith. But good faith is not always present, and so this leads to objections from the people who have faced severe bad faith.
If you don't want objections to calls for good faith assumptions, you really gotta do something to make them not hit the people who face bad faith so hard. For instance, I would not be surprised if Zack would have appreciated your post if you had written "One exception is trans issues, where rationalist leaders typically act in bad faith. See Zack's counters. Make sure to shame rationalist leaders for that until they start acting in good faith.".
Of course, then there's the possibility that your call for good faith hits other people than Zack, e.g. AFAIK there's been some bad faith towards Michael Vassar. But if you help propagate information about bad faith in general, then in general people who face bad faith won't have reasons to attack your writings.
In the long run, this would presumably incentivize good faith and so make calls for good faith assumptions more accurate.
Replies from: Vladimir_Nesov↑ comment by Vladimir_Nesov · 2023-04-12T14:32:36.464Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
If you don't want objections to calls for good faith assumptions, you really gotta do something to make them not hit the people who face bad faith so hard.
That's optimizing appearances in response to a bug report, instead of fixing the issue, making future bug detection harder. A subtly wrong claim that now harms people less is no less wrong for it.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-12T15:01:08.918Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
What does "fixing the issue" mean in your model? Could you give an example of a change that would genuinely fix the issue?
I more think of my proposal as propogating the bug report to the places where it can get fixed than as optimizing for appearances.
Replies from: Vladimir_Nesov↑ comment by Vladimir_Nesov · 2023-04-12T15:34:47.830Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Not making that claim as a claim of actuality. It could instead be pursued to the same effect as a hypothetical claim, held within a frame of good faith. Then the question of the frame being useful becomes separate from the question of the claim being true, and we can examine both without conflating them, on their own merits.
A frame in this context is a simulacrum/mask/attitude, epistemically suspect by its nature, but capable of useful activity as well as of inspiring/refining valid epistemic gears/features/ideas that are applicable outside of it. When you are training for an ITT, or practicing Scott Alexander's flavor of charity, you are training a frame, learning awareness of the joints the target's worldview is carved at. Being large and containing multitudes [LW · GW] is about flitting between the frames instead of consistently being something in particular.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-12T15:46:33.837Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
That's an alternate approach one could take to handling the claim, though I don't see how it's less optimizing for appearances or more fixing the issue.
Replies from: Vladimir_Nesov↑ comment by Vladimir_Nesov · 2023-04-12T16:06:26.761Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Saying "2+2=5 is a hypothetical claim" instead of "2+2=5 actually" is not a wrong claim optimizing for appearances, the appearances are now decisively stripped. It fixes the issue of making an unjustified claim, doesn't fix the issue of laboring under a possibly false assumption, living in a counterfactual.
But what operates there is now a mask, lightly and cautiously held (like a venomous snake), not the whole of yourself, and not the core of epistemic lawfulness. A mask without the flaw might fail in maintaining the intended group dynamic. It's unclear if the same effect can as feasibly occur without leaps of faith.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-04-12T16:58:27.126Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Saying "if xy=xz then you can also assume y=z. Unless x=0 for some reason, hey x pls fix yourself" also does not seem like a wrong claim optimizing for appearances.
comment by Stephen Bennett (GWS) · 2023-04-12T22:18:21.797Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Would you actually prefer that all the jesters left (except the last one)?
I believe you when you say that interacting with the jesters is annoying in the moment. I trust that you do indeed anticipate having to drudge through many misconceptions of your writing when your mouse hovers over "publish". If you'll indulge an extended metaphor: it seems as though you're expressing displeasure at engaging in sorties to keep the farmland from burning even though it's the fortress you actually care about. People would question the legitimacy of the fortress if the surrounding farmland were left to burn, after all, so you feel forced to fight on unfavorable terrain for lands you barely care about. Would you find posting more satisfying if no enemies showed up at all?
Suppose that the jesters' comments, along with the discussion spawned from them, were deleted from existence, replaced by nothing. You never read them, any jester-ish thoughts are set aside after reading the post (although the person keeps their niggling thought that something is wrong with the post), and they cannot influence the culture of lesswrong as a whole. What does the comments section of your posts actually look like?
You leave unsaid that a meaty and genuine discussion would remain, but I expect that's approximately what you implicitly envision. I'm not so sure that's what would actually happen. Many of the fruitful discussions here are borne out of initially minor disagreements (Indeed, caring about burdensome details [? · GW] is a longstanding lesswrong tradition!). If you picked all the weeds, would a vibrant garden or a barren wasteland remain?
You are one of the most popular writers on lesswrong, so perhaps it is difficult for you to imagine, but if I wrote something substantial and effortful I would be more worried that it would be simply ignored; far more than I would worry about criticism that does not get to the heart of what I wrote.
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-12T22:33:09.928Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
You leave unsaid that a meaty and genuine discussion would remain, but I expect that's approximately what you implicitly envision. I'm not so sure that's what would actually happen. Many of the fruitful discussions here are borne out of initially minor disagreements (Indeed, caring about burdensome details [? · GW] is a longstanding lesswrong tradition!). If you picked all the weeds, would a vibrant garden or a barren wasteland remain?
You are one of the most popular writers on lesswrong, so perhaps it is difficult for you to imagine, but if I wrote something substantial and effortful I would be more worried that it would be simply ignored; far more than I would worry about criticism that does not get to the heart of what I wrote.
You're pointing out that part of what makes criticism so frustrating for Duncan is that, as a popular writer, he gets so many nitpicks that it becomes overwhelming. A less-popular writer might welcome any attention at all, even brief and critical, as long as it wasn't overtly hostile. Fear of posting and receiving no response might inhibit new writers finding their voice as much as the fear of overwhelming nitpickiness might inhibit more established writers.
It's interesting to consider the dynamic this would create if it's a pattern. Newer writers eventually find the confidence to post anyway. They get a bit of attention, probably fairly negative, because they're new and figuring out how to express themselves. But they appreciate it and hopefully keep writing. If they get too successful, though, they get overwhelmed by the nitpicks, and eventually leave. This could also happen if they find they have less of a sustained capacity for dealing with 1-2 comments that are consistently negative and nitpicky if there's little else that's positive or more engaged.
This would tend to generate an evaporative cooling dynamic for writers, of the kind Duncan describes.
I increasingly think that established writers who are bothered by negative comments should use the tools at their disposal to insulate themselves - returning the burden onto the nitpicker, downvotes, or user-specific bans from commenting on their posts. That seems to mostly solve the problem of overwhelm that Duncan describes, provided he's right that the problem is a gang of Socrati rather than a problem among the entire user base, without impacting the experience of anybody else, including the Socrati. After all, if the choice is between not posting or banning Socrati from commenting, the Socrati face the same set of options either way.
Replies from: gilch↑ comment by gilch · 2023-04-13T04:03:30.295Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
If the fame is the problem, why not post under a pseudonym?
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-13T04:12:38.788Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
It's not fame that's the problem - its the attention your post gets, whether you're writing pseudonymously or not.
comment by Vladimir_Nesov · 2023-04-11T14:11:46.811Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This is a reasonable argument about defending the garden of Athenian democracy. Still, every Socrates also deserves a garden of their own [LW · GW]. The problem arises when there are not enough gardens for everyone to go around, or when either Socrates or Athenian democracy start unilaterally demanding other gardens to follow their norms.
The desolate phase of LW suggests that a Socrates's garden scares away the builders and becomes desolate, a bad use for limited resouces. Though a failing project can be worth fighting for [LW · GW]. I don't see how this can be reliably generalized to the present, but I think it's a good enough point to avoid turning the whole of LW into purely a Socrates's garden. The current policy of allowing authors to ban users from their posts is a step in the direction of addressing this issue.
Still, some sort of archipelago setup seems better than the other extreme of turning LW into purely Athenian democracy's garden. Socrates should have a home around here. The pragmatic question is the nature of boundaries that protect these frames from each other. There are some stirrings with the core tag filter system [LW · GW] intended to protect rationality readership from AI content. If it matures enough to enable coexistence of disjoint bubbles, there might be something there. Technical solutions to social problems.
comment by Ben Pace (Benito) · 2023-04-11T15:38:48.599Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I strong upvoted this quite interesting post, but I want to mention that I do not mean my upvote to endorse this particular historical story of Socrates. This is because I have not read any Socrates nor read about his history, and I do not personally have confident beliefs about whether the Socrates in this post is the same as the historic one. (The list of historic details about Athens did me help understand the environment though.)
Edit: Upvote retracted, I realize this is a post criticizing Said that he cannot comment on.
Replies from: Duncan_Sabien↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-15T01:59:07.465Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
It is not.
It is, in fact, a generalized and timeless stance that I believe in, independent of Said, regardless of the fact that recent interactions with Said were among the more recent pushes for me to move it from somewhere-in-the-middle-of-my-pile-of-70-essays-to-write up to the top.
(A commenter on FB pointed out that I had formed the seed of this essay two years ago, probably around the time of Vaniver's original comment, which was not about Said.)
Other commenters immediately recognizing Said in the content is not, I think, something that should result in your removing an upvote. And I also don't think you would generally endorse a position of something like "don't try to extract timeless or generalized lessons from specific experiences." Said being an instance of a dynamic doesn't mean describing the dynamic (without specific reference to him!) is bad.
I don't know who's enacting the psy-op; maybe it's just society-at-large, but I claim "force this to be interpreted as an attack on a specific individual such that it now feels morally wrong to upvote it" is a psy-op.
comment by dr_s · 2023-04-11T12:33:01.239Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Eh, it is unfortunately a difficult problem either way. Every system will hate critics because every system will think it's obviously right, and its evils are obviously justified, and even if some members of it are a bit more privileged than others, well, it's because they are obviously deserving and obviously contributing much more to society than any others. But you're also not wrong that complete iconoclast behaviour isn't precisely constructive on its own - we see this a lot with how many people interpret "critical independent thinking" as "listen whatever they tell you on TV and believe the exact opposite". Hence vaccines don't work, 9/11 was an inside job, we never went on the Moon, and the Earth is flat. Screw big geology, teach the controversy, drink the lava!
Not sure there's a real solution. I tend to think that compared to ancient Athens, modern societies seem more robust (if only because of sheer numbers!) and can tolerate more internal dissent, and so should. While all of this stupidity going around makes lots of things harder than they should be, it's not quite a lethal dose yet (for society, at least. The stupidity does kill people. Various flavours of that sort of stupidity have probably killed a lot of people during the COVID pandemic; many of them not guilty of being that stupid themselves). I hate the "paradox of tolerance" meme (which is kinda akin to what you're bringing up here) because it's way too little specific in the way it's used. I guess a stronger form of it might be that for a democracy to function, you can't make disempowering significant parts of the population the subject of democratic decision (or a majority can vote a minority out, and so you just get an oligarchy). THAT is well defined enough to be consistent. But defence against memes that uselessly erode trust while leaving the door open to fruitful criticism that society needs to progress? Not sure how could you possibly do that. Your only real choice is to err on one side.
Replies from: Viliam, AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by Viliam · 2023-04-11T15:45:45.255Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I remember the opposite extreme from my socialist youth. The keywords were "constructive criticism". The idea was that you are not allowed to complain against any negative aspect of the existing solution, unless you can design a 100% functional alternative from the scratch (which needs to be approved by the people currently in power, who by the way are allowed to provide non-constructive criticism against your solution).
Shortly, you were not allowed to criticize anything, but it was said in a way that made it your fault for being an incompetent critic. See, the regime is open to honest criticism! We only punish the trolls...
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Now of course there are two different things. Can you list the negatives of the existing solution? Can you design a better solution? Both are legitimate questions, but we should not treat them as synonyms.
It can be that the current system has disadvantages, but no one can design a Pareto improvement, and all things considered maybe we should keep it. Still, the disadvantages are worth noting [LW · GW].
It can also be that the current system has disadvantages, a clear improvement is possible, but the person who is hurt by the current disadvantages is not qualified to design the improvement... but they can provide feedback about how the current system is hurting them, a data point that other people might not notice.
So I guess we should clearly separate the "providing feedback" phase from the "designing an alternative" phase. On one hand, lack of designing ability should not be used as an excuse to dismiss feedback. On the other hand, negative feedback should not be taken as a proof that a better option is (trivially) possible.
Replies from: dr_s↑ comment by dr_s · 2023-04-11T18:30:29.321Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I remember the opposite extreme from my socialist youth. The keywords were "constructive criticism". The idea was that you are not allowed to complain against any negative aspect of the existing solution, unless you can design a 100% functional alternative from the scratch (which needs to be approved by the people currently in power, who by the way are allowed to provide non-constructive criticism against your solution).
Which is especially ironic from socialists because if there's a poster boy for "correct in pointing out the issues with the status quo, pretty shit pie-in-the-sky proposed solution", I'd say it's Karl Marx.
But yeah, ideally you'd need to balance the two things. At the very least if all you can do is provide feedback, do so in a precise enough manner that people can work out a solution even if you can't (for example, define by what metric you would consider the problem solved rather than leaving yourself open a path to be perpetually aggrieved by moving the goalposts).
Replies from: Viliam↑ comment by Viliam · 2023-04-12T09:37:47.276Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
If I complain at a restaurant that the soup is too salty, and the cook makes a new one, and now I complain that this one is too spicy (let's assume the previous one was not), am I moving the goalpost?
I don't know how to define the rules for what is proper criticism. Sometimes the utility function is too complex to express clearly. (And sometimes the person just sucks at expressing themselves clearly.)
On the other hand, if a situation is inherently a tradeoff between X and Y, and the person says "too much X" and later "too much Y", it makes sense to tell them "hey, we all know that this is a tradeoff between X and Y, so either tell us what proportion of X to Y you want, or shut up". (Then again, the person might challenge the idea that the tradeoff is inevitable. But better if they do it explicitly, rather than just complaining about X one day, and about Y the other day.)
On the meta level, it's the same problem again -- I can't give you the proper rules for criticism, but I can say when I feel that people are going too far in certain direction. So I am unconstructively criticizing the very idea of criticism, heh.
↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-11T12:58:46.500Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I claim there are ratios of cheap-criticism-to-creativity that are much better than others. The extremes of the spectrum are both very problematic, if that’s all there is. But 50% probably isn’t the sweet spot either. It might be something like 1:10. Shifting the ratio toward that sweet spot is a solution, and I think that the essence of Duncan’s post is claiming which direction we ought to move in and why.
One of my challenges with Duncan’s post is that, personally, I’d much prefer somebody writing 3300 words explaining why they disagree with me in their own post than writing 15 words worth of PONDS [1] comments in response to one of mine. I don’t mind being disagreed with - just the burden-of-proof-shifting, nitpicky, low-grade negativity vibe that PONDS comments create. It’s specifically the short Socratic comments that bug me. But overall Duncan is aptly describing an important reason why I’ve started writing less on LessWrong over the last couple of years.
I’d also say that it’s an easy habit to fall into. I’ve done it myself (to Duncan, among others!), and I don’t like that about my own behavior. So I appreciate a renorming effort on this topic.
[1] https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/k5TTsuHovbeTWgszD/for-better-commenting-avoid-ponds [LW · GW]
Replies from: dr_s↑ comment by dr_s · 2023-04-11T13:51:43.011Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I agree there's good ratios; while sometimes the answer defies common sense, for example, very often common sense is common for a reason. But even if you have a rough idea of what the ratio is, how do you maintain it precisely? "Poisoning annoying people with hemlock" is probably not a fantastic approach, however tempting it may be.
I think in a way there's something of a precarious, somewhat unstable equilibrium in which a culture lives that allows it to balance these two forces in a healthy way, but then the culture can roll down either side of the hill (sometimes split in the middle and do both, which is what it feels like is happening now) and the magic breaks. I'm really not sure how you would even begin keeping it in the proper place, except within smaller subcultures where you can meaningfully gatekeep. You can try to foster a respect and understanding of the healthy middle point, but it's hard to figure how could you strike the perfect balance of incentives that leads to "10% of society turns into Socrates, the rest are conformists".
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-11T14:30:55.598Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I agree it’s a moving target, but you don’t have to keep it precisely static in one place. Think of it more like a thermostat: we keep taking the temperature, then turn on heating or cooling depending on the difference between the current and desired temperature.
Replies from: dr_s↑ comment by dr_s · 2023-04-11T14:38:12.433Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I get it, but honestly I think the most important practical take away about this is for how one should manage their own subculture/forum/whatever. Society-wide interpretations of this are really more likely to lead to rather dark places than do any good IMO. Opening it with an analogy about how maybe the guys who executed a philosopher for "corrupting the youth" and being essentially a heretic had a point may not be the best way to discuss it either: even if Socrates was potentially a danger, those are traditionally the exact same kind of excuses demagogues, populists and authoritarians use to justify their power, and deciding who was "right" here is not a simple exercise; perhaps an impossible one, after so much time.
I mean, it's ancient Athens. Even supposing Socrates was threatening to destroy that society, if any of us was transported back in time, we'd probably try to destroy it too! What with all the slavery and the women treated as property? Obviously Socrates wasn't doing it from either a feminist or anti-slavery point of view, but we're not precisely in a position to talk. Not even "the order was trying to defend itself" is a good reason on its own. The order always tries to defend itself, but sometimes the order is bad.
Replies from: AllAmericanBreakfast↑ comment by DirectedEvolution (AllAmericanBreakfast) · 2023-04-11T15:04:08.259Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I read Duncan’s post as being mainly about LW, using the society of Athens as an analogy. “Poisoning Socrates” to me would be more like reprimanding or firing an employee at a startup who’s demoralizing the team, not literally forcing somebody to commit suicide for criticizing someone else. In most places I think it’s recognized that there’s a balance between critique and creativity, and Duncan’s saying that specifically on LW, we seem to have stumbled into a bad equilibrium with way more cheap criticism than is productive to truth-seeking.
comment by Dagon · 2023-04-11T14:01:27.898Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Your first two intro paragraphs are most often applied to parents, and are nearly universal experiences. It's called "growing up" to realize that your idols and teachers are multidimensional and fallible, and to then have to wonder if ANYTHING you know is actually true.
Having this experience repeatedly is a form of "Gell-Mann Amnesia", https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/65213-briefly-stated-the-gell-mann-amnesia-effect-is-as-follows-you.
Unfortunately, there IS no perfect teacher or thinker. You can't reach a useful model / attain enlightenment by picking the right people to believe. You must look for cross-correlations in experience and evidence, and develop your own hybrid model of things, and update it as you gather new evidence. You ALSO should maintain some humility and understanding that your understanding is imperfect as well, and find a way to live with uncertainty.
As to your direct point, which seems to be another take on your lizardman theory, the difficulty is that it's impossible to separate the two horses of Socrates's soul-chariot. Every socrates has good and bad ideas, and good and bad discussion norms, and while it MAY be that there is an ideal ratio of socrateses to athenians, there's no way to identify WHICH would-be socrateses to support or dissuade (or execute, given sufficient hemlock).
comment by Noosphere89 (sharmake-farah) · 2023-04-11T14:54:22.914Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Imagine that you are an ancient Athenian, responsible for some important institution, and that you have a strong belief that the overall survival of your society is contingent on a reliable, common-knowledge buy-in of Athenian institutions generally, i.e. that your society cannot function unless its members believe that it does function.
This would not be a ridiculous belief! We have seen, in the modern era, how quickly things go south when faith in a bank (or in the financial system as a whole) evaporates. We know what happens when people stop believing that the police or the courts are on their side. Regimes (or entire nations) fall when their constituents stop propping up the myth of those regimes. Much of civilization is shared participation in self-fulfilling prophecies like "this little scrap of green paper holds value."
While this is largely right, I do want to mention that all the self-reference ultimately does have to rest on something that isn't self-reference.
Or in a nutshell, you can't sustain a society solely on beliefs that are purely self-reference, and this is due to the current laws of physics, which forbid creating something out of nothing, in almost all cases, which means some base level, non-self referential concepts must be the bedrock of society.
And this is where a lot of ideologies fail here, as much of society being based on self referential ideas is not equivalent to all society being based on self referential ideas and to a certain extent, I think a lot of Communist failures look like ignoring the difference between much and all of society being based on self referential ideas.
comment by NancyLebovitz · 2023-04-15T09:21:44.523Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This reminds me of something odd about Socrates (from memory)-- when he decides to accept execution rather than exile, all of the sudden he's talking about adherence to values-- he owes so much to Athens that he won't live somewhere else-- rather than all that questioning. How does this fit into his story?
I can make some guesses, but they're no more than that.
1. His health was failing, and he decided to go out with a bang rather than enduring a decline.
2. No place else wanted him, either.
3. He came to realize the damage he was doing, and thought the punishment was appropriate.
comment by CronoDAS · 2023-04-12T00:14:23.584Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Socrates was totally a troll, just like Christopher Hitchens and Andy Kaufman. :P
The modern answer to Socrates is, well, The Cluster Structure Of Thingspace [LW · GW] and related topics...
Replies from: TAGcomment by Steven Byrnes (steve2152) · 2023-04-11T13:12:46.376Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I re-read my last few dozen comments, and decided that none of them was hostile and unconstructive. Phew. (That was a worthwhile exercise, thanks for the prod.) (I hope I’m judging myself fairly!) (One or two of them were OK but could have been better.)
On my own lesswrong posts, I feel like it’s pretty rare that I get a comment that I’m not happy to have gotten, or at least neutral. But that obviously has as much to do with me as with the comment text. I do certainly get comments that seem to convey a negative & hostile attitude, but usually they’re at least somewhat constructive, and I (hopefully) respond graciously, and it ends up being a productive and positive exchange at the end. And it also obviously depends on the post topic & content—e.g. I’m often writing technical or uncontroversial posts that tend not to draw hostile comments.
comment by SomeoneYouOnceKnew · 2023-04-16T05:36:32.833Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
While I find the Socrates analogy vivid and effective, I propose considering critics on posts under the same bucket as lawyers. Where Socrates had a certain set of so-called principles-- choosing to die for arbitrary reasons, I find that most people are not half as dogmatic as Socrates, and so the analogy/metaphor seems to slip short.
While my post is sitting at negative two, and no comments or feedback... Modeling commenters as if they were lawyers might be better [LW · GW]? When the rules lawyers have to follow shows up, lawyers (usually) do change their behavior, though they naturally poke and prod as far as they can within the bounds of the social game that is the court system.
But also, everyone who is sane hates lawyers.
comment by Chris van Merwijk (chrisvm) · 2023-04-13T11:10:57.292Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
One of the more interesting dynamics of the past eight-or-so years has been watching a bunch of the people who [taught me my values] and [served as my early role models] and [were presented to me as paragons of cultural virtue] going off the deep end.
I'm curious who these people are.
comment by rotatingpaguro · 2023-04-11T15:50:27.615Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The preceding decade had contained a military defeat, a puppet government installed by the conquerors, a coup, a counter-coup, and a counter-counter coup; things in Athens were actually unstable, and it's not difficult to be sympathetic to the view that this was the wrong time to be picking nits.
This makes me suspicious about the claim that Socrates was an existential societal treat from the point of view of the denizens.
Overall, I'm here because LW is the way it is. I think I manage to be both constructive and critical. I expect old people to get bored and move on, like I did myself for any social space so long. I don't expect exploring very specific theories of LW-vibe-trends will give insight in the end.
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comment by TheLemmaLlama (crapshoot) · 2023-06-11T04:49:15.593Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
When I comment on things:
- I try to put in the effort to make a guess as to what the thing is saying so people can confirm/deny my interpretation instead of explain it to me from scratch, and
- I think I'm being constructive and helping the builder bake their idea properly.
But maybe sometimes I come across as crying 'food poisoning'? (I can see myself feeling this way if, for instance, I put out an idea I thought was fully baked but a commenter points out it's not as well-baked as I thought it was, and that might be the case for others as well, but I might also actually come across as accusatory and I'd like to try to avoid doing that :P)
comment by DaystarEld · 2023-04-11T11:56:16.001Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Strong agree. The interesting coordination/incentive questions that come to mind are things like:
- Would it help to make criticism have diminishing returns on social status?
- Would it help if contribution/building boosts criticism visibility?
- How does a society/garden reach the most productive equilibrium of Socrates? The ideal world where each Socrates is doing something meaningfully different from each other is hard to arrive at while each individually feels like they are Fighting the Good Fight.
comment by Caerulea-Lawrence (humm1lity) · 2023-04-14T17:07:18.657Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Hello Duncan_Sabien and Co,
I'm far away from writing as succinctly and well as you have here, and my ideas, in written form at least, are half-baked at best.
I joined the forum almost a year ago, in the hopes of either contributing to existing knowledge as best I could, challenge assumptions, create links and bonds between hills of knowledge, and hopefully also find people I could do this with consistently and more integrated.
However, I did not last long. After getting down-voted and receiving negative feedback, defensiveness kicked in. I came with the hopes of interaction, support, critical but open questions and people looking at what I was doing and wondering what it might become, or even asking me to cooperate with them in baking something. And so, I deactivated my account and left.
I would characterize myself as sensitive, but the reason I left wasn't solely because I got down-voted or negative feedback. It was because that seemed like the norm, a norm I experienced as fiercely anti-rational and against what I thought was the Spirit of Lesswrong, to err less and less, and actually help and support each other along the way. Possibly I didn't stay in the gutters long enough either, for a passing Samaritan to welcome me, challenge me in a more gentle way and show some interest in why I'm here, which would probably also have kept me around.
Reading this post by you, and also this one from amelia however, made me decide to re-activate my account again.
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/cwRCsCXei2J2CmTxG/lw-account-restricted-ok-for-me-but-not-sure-about-lesswrong [LW · GW]
It gave me affirmation in my struggles, too. Which I am grateful for.
My plan regarding Socrates, is neither to bind, kill nor isolate him, but to help others like myself build stronger structures. If one person shies away from writing because of all the negative feedback, let us co-write, and share the burden.
If that is still too little, what about splitting it three-way, maybe even with different responsibilities? And maybe we have a good idea, but need the support and care of someone else to put it more succinctly in words. I want to do things like that, to contribute in stabilizing Athens. Maybe it helps, maybe not, but I do want to do something.
Even though it is still my inner motivation bringing me back, I'm not sure if I had, had I not got this kind of recognition. So, again, thank you for sharing and writing this, and I will do my little piece of trying to improve things too.
Kindly,
Caerulea-Lawrence
comment by tremmor19 · 2023-04-12T18:10:56.327Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I was discussing this with someone the other day-- is free speech, plus high standards of rationality, enough to make a good discussion? Or is it necessary to in some ways control the content as well-- active curation and cooperation, controlling for a culture of thoughtful discussion?
I had been coming from a very negative definition of free speech-- as in an absence of control, censorship-- the ability to share thoughts even if they went against the grain, (so long as they were not actually lying or misleading, etc.)-- placing the value on the discussion being open.
The other person is very smart but comes from a pretty different background, and had not put a strong value on being able to say whatever you want, if that speech did not contribute to the conversation. Rather, they had assumed a positive value of free speech-- that everyone wanting to participate could actively feel included and able to communicate their thoughts. They felt that communities favoring discussion would want to find interesting and diverse perspectives, and have norms that curated primarily good-faith participation. I'm not sure it's an exact response, but seemed on-topic to this post
comment by Daniel Murfet (dmurfet) · 2023-04-13T03:54:27.091Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Nietzsche also had mixed views on Socrates, for similar reasons. He talks about this in many of his books, including "The Birth of Tragedy" and "Gay Science".
comment by Guillaume Charrier (guillaume-charrier) · 2023-04-13T02:38:26.093Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The whole Socrates process, the attitude of its main protagonist throughout etc. should make us see one thing particularly clearly, which is banal but bears repeating: there is an extremely wide difference between being smart (or maybe: bright) and wise. Something that the proceedings on this site can also help remind us, at times.
comment by Agnes Bartholomew · 2023-04-12T02:16:09.414Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Given the context of community members engaging in literal violence, I advocate against using the word "killing" the ways it's used in this post and for reserving it for literal violence.
comment by Guillaume Charrier (guillaume-charrier) · 2023-04-13T02:28:34.379Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I personally think that the fact that you are allowed to downvote without providing a summary explanation as to why is also a huge issue for the quality of debate on this site, and frankly: deeply antithetic to its proffessed ethics. Either you don't know exactly why you are downvoting, or your doing it for reasons that you would rather not expand on, or you're doing but are to lazy to explain why: either case - you're doing it wrong.
So for instance: if anybody wants to downvote this (I sort of have a feeling that this could well be the case - somehow), please go ahead and do; AND take the minimal pain (not to mention courtesy) of leaving a leaving a brief note as to the reason why.
Replies from: philh, sharps030, drethelin, pktechgirl, Richard_Kennaway, aphyer↑ comment by philh · 2023-04-13T07:52:52.982Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I reject "too lazy" as a framing here. People have a finite amount of time and energy and if they choose to spend it on something other than explaining their downvotes, that's not obviously unvirtuous.
(And explaining one's downvotes is certainly not a minimal cost, especially not if one wants to do it in a way that seems likely to be helpful to anyone. E.g. my downvote reason is sometimes: "this seems confused; this user has often seemed confused in the past, and attempts to deconfuse them have been unsuccessful; I have better things to do than to pin down exactly how they're confused in this instance". Would it satisfy you if I just say that?)
Separately, I expect that the ability to downvote cheaply improves quality of discussion on net, though I acknowledge it has costs.
Replies from: philh↑ comment by philh · 2023-04-13T23:31:02.357Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I find it mildly amusing that this comment has probably received more downvotes (gross, not net) than all but a handful of my LW comments, but so far no disagreeing comments.
Like, are these coming from people who broadly agree with me that silent downvoting is an acceptable thing to do, but nonetheless think it was a bad comment? I'd be fascinated to hear why!
(Other guesses that I have include: "it's funny to silently downvote this specific comment" (I agree it's not 0% funny); "you should see how it feels" (eh, maybe so; though this is not a cost I was previously blind to, also it's less painful here than it has been on other comments); "silent downvoting should not be an option but since it is I'm not going to unilaterally disarm"; "you spoke in favor of something I dislike so I'm going to downvote"; "that specific reason is a bad reason to downvote silently".)
Replies from: guillaume-charrier↑ comment by Guillaume Charrier (guillaume-charrier) · 2023-04-14T02:52:44.441Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
He he... what do they call it again? Ah: cosmic justice. However, on net, you're still doing oretty well. So.
↑ comment by hazel (sharps030) · 2023-04-13T10:13:16.690Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Part of the value of reddit-style votes as a community moderation feature is that using them is easy. Beware Trivial Inconveniences [LW · GW] and all that. I think that having to explain every downvote would lead to me contributing to community moderation efforts less, would lead to dogpiling on people who already have far more refutation than they deserve, would lead to zero-effort 'just so I can downvote this' drive-by comments, and generally would make it far easier for absolute nonsense to go unchallenged.
If I came across obvious bot-spam in the middle of the comments, neither downvoted nor deleted and I couldn't downvote without writing a comment... I expect that 80% of the time I'd just close the tab (and that remaining 20% is only because I have a social media addiction problem).
↑ comment by drethelin · 2023-04-19T13:51:10.441Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I've said this many times but downvotes are a valuable signal that wastes way less time of everyone involved.
Explanations of downvotes don't just take the time of the person writing them, they also take the time of everyone else who has to read them, and multiply the impact of trolls and prolific bullshitters.
If you are getting a lot of downvotes, then it's almost always for a good reason and rarely that mysterious, and if you pay attention you will soon figure out what people don't like about your content, for example that it's whiny.
↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-04-14T02:23:45.271Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
A large point of voting is to direct attention. One of many reasons I don't think negative votes need to be explained is that writing a comment, even a negative comment, calls attention to what I'm commenting on, which is usually the opposite of my goal in downvoting.
Replies from: guillaume-charrier↑ comment by Guillaume Charrier (guillaume-charrier) · 2023-04-14T02:49:41.905Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Humm I see... not sure if it totally serves the purpose though. For instance, when I see a comment with a large number of downvotes, I'm much more likely to read it than a comment with a relatively now number of upvotes. So: within certain bounds, I guess.
↑ comment by Richard_Kennaway · 2023-04-14T16:34:10.250Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
It is the poster’s job to learn,
It is not my job to teach.
Replies from: guillaume-charrier↑ comment by Guillaume Charrier (guillaume-charrier) · 2023-04-14T16:45:49.807Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I see. But how can the poster learn if he doesn't know where it has gone wrong? To give one concrete example: in a comment recently, I simply stated that some people hold that AI could be a solution to the Fermi paradox (past a certain level of collective smartness an AI is created that destroys its creators). I got a few downvotes on that - and frankly I am puzzled as to why and I would really be curious to understand the reasonings between the downvotes. Did the downvoters hold that the Fermi paradox is not really a thing? Did they think that it is a thing but that AI can't be a solution to it for some obvious reason? Was it something else - I simply don't know; and so I can't learn.
Replies from: Raemon, gilch, drethelin, Richard_Kennaway↑ comment by Raemon · 2023-04-14T16:57:42.670Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Guillaume I think you're imagining a world where we end up with all downvotes coming with nice explanations. But the actual world I think we'll get is fewer downvotes, which means more bad content on the site, which makes the site reading and writing experience worse. (See Lies, Damn Lies, and Fabricated Options [LW · GW], as well as Well-Kept Gardens Die By Pacifism [LW · GW])
I think it's good to have more explanations for downvotes all else being equal, but people are busy and it's not actually tractable as an overall norm.
Replies from: humm1lity↑ comment by Caerulea-Lawrence (humm1lity) · 2023-04-15T17:04:50.925Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Hello Raemon and Guillaume Charrier,
Similarly to what is mentioned in the Duncan_Sabien text above, that bad commenting culture ruins old-timers and newcomers alike, down-voting also doesn't seem to work as intended.
"What happens instead, in practice, is evaporative cooling, as the most sensitive or least-bought-in of [the authors/builders who made your subculture worth participating in in the first place] give up and go elsewhere, marginally increasing the ratio of critics to makers, which makes things marginally less rewarding, which sends the next bunch of builders packing, which worsens the problem further."
And to use your examples with the garden, if the fool is given the tool and power to down-vote and comment, doesn't that endanger bad content/bad culture just as much as not hindering the 'fool' from writing on the front page?
In the post above, the point I see is that building and giving feedback is mutually dependent. In other words, it is much better for both of them if their relationship is acknowledged. Writing good posts is hard, and takes effort and dedication. Giving relevant and good feedback is also hard, and it takes effort and dedication. Since they are dependent of each other, it would be fair if both of them had to abide by the same levels of standards, and to also get similar levels of acclaim and prestige.
Going down the same level of thinking, if someone should have something like a blanket power of actively hiding new posts/comments in the way of "down-voting", as a kind of sub-moderator power, that would make sense to me if they themselves are reliable, trustworthy, skillful and discerning. I wouldn't mind if being down-voted/hidden showed my 'skill bar' regarding if my post/comment didn't meet certain standards. And, unless there were enough people with this skill set around, I would be understanding if I didn't get an explanation. But, I would assume that the person down-voting/hiding my post/comment themselves abided by the same rules and could explain their reasoning if prompted.
But is every down/up voter sufficiently skilled, discerning and trustworthy? Is there any bar they have to cross to wield this power?
Under this post alone, there are a lot of votes, as well as different comments. Let's contrast two of them, the first being the introductory comment to this discussion, by Guillaume Charrier. It has gotten 7 down-votes. And this one (below) by cousin_it [LW · GW], which has gotten 18 up-votes. I'll look at them using the Front page comment guidelines.
1. Aim to explain, not persuade.
2. Try to offer concrete models and predictions.
3. If you disagree, try getting curious about what your partner is thinking.
4. Don't be afraid to say 'oops' and change your mind
cousin_it [LW · GW],
"I don't see any group of people on LW running around criticizing every new idea. Most criticism on LW is civil, and most of it is helpful at least in part. And the small proportion that isn't helpful at all, is still useful to me as a test: can I stop myself from overreacting to it?"
Charrier:
1. Tries mostly to persuade, but also explains.
2. Offers predictability in behavior, and a certain code of conduct.
3. Doesn't disagree with Poster, but doesn't acknowledge him/her directly.
4. Interacts with commentors, and seems open to change his/her mind if given a valid explanation.
cousin_it:
1. Both.
2. Uses a model to fully refute the post.
3. Disagrees, dismisses the poster's points entirely, and doesn't acknowledge him/her.
4. Did not interact or comment further, despite getting a couple of comments. No mention of any openness to 'oops' or changing his/her mind.
I'm not going to read too much into it, but which of them are following the guidelines more? And not only the guidelines, but I assume the intentions of them? And still, cousin_it has 18 up-votes, and Charrier has 7 down-votes. How is that possible?
Since Posts and Comments are mutually dependent, both should be held accountable, managed and rewarded. To keep the garden well-kept, we not only need censure - we need discernment. If we have discernment, it is prudent to go much further in censure.
I see Charrier's comment, Duncan_Sabien's post and my own comment as pointing at a Major problem. And this comment is hopefully one contribution towards solving it.
If we can't trust the enforcers, what are the guidelines even worth? I would like stricter enforcing, so that good is promoted and validated, and better is even more supported, whereas needs-work gets feedback, and dubious and bad is simply hidden (You can always do what cousin_it says and work on reading the hidden stuff just to challenge yourself, but it should be optional).
Sincerely,
Caerulea-Lawrence
↑ comment by Duncan Sabien (Deactivated) (Duncan_Sabien) · 2023-04-15T17:14:04.564Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Strong upvote, strong agree. In particular:
But is every down/up voter sufficiently skilled, discerning and trustworthy? Is there any bar they have to cross to wield this power?
LW has tried to solve this with weighted voting power, and that has made a difference; I think vote totals here are meaningfully better than on Reddit, for instance.
But there are just so many people with vote strength 1 or 2 or 3, and it's very easy for a popular (but really bad by the standards of rationality) comment to drown out an actually good one.
↑ comment by gilch · 2023-04-14T17:37:46.323Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I'm not one of the downvoters, but to hazard a guess, if something like a paperclip maximizer were to have killed off a nearby alien civilization, where are all the paperclips?
Replies from: guillaume-charrier↑ comment by Guillaume Charrier (guillaume-charrier) · 2023-04-14T17:49:00.205Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Exactly - and then we can have an interesting conversation etc. (e.g. are all ASIs necessarily paperclip maximizers?), which the silent downvote does not allow for.
↑ comment by Richard_Kennaway · 2023-04-14T17:37:15.795Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
But how can the poster learn if he doesn't know where it has gone wrong?
That is the poster's problem.
When I think that a poster is wrong or clueless about something, and that I have good reasons for thinking so that i can articulate, then I may write something. But often, especially when I click on a post standing at just out of morbid curiosity, I find something deep into not-even-wrong territory and happily add my silent strong downvote.
↑ comment by aphyer · 2023-04-14T18:08:01.191Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Exactly! I have tried to convey to this community various of my rationally-arrived-at beliefs, but have been shut down without a fair hearing whenever I begin explaining how all computers are secretly run by squirrels on treadmills inside them. This is an extremely important fact to this community's purported goals of AI alignment and safety - how are you supposed to train an AI without acorns? Yet rather than engage with me and explain why they disagree with my Strategic Dog Reserve concept for safety against malign AI, they simply silently downvote my posts, either through being too lazy to engage with them, or through being in the pocket of Big Squirrel! This needs to change if this site is to live up to its professed ethics and cultivate high-quality debate.
Replies from: guillaume-charrier↑ comment by Guillaume Charrier (guillaume-charrier) · 2023-04-14T19:16:29.462Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I laughed. However you must admit that your comical exaggeration does not necessarily carry a lot of ad rem value.