Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 1: Introduction, outline, author's notes
post by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T21:06:49.396Z · LW · GW · 108 commentsContents
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Introduction
Sam Altman's sister, Annie Altman, has claimed that Sam sexually abused her when she was a child for approximately 9 years, beginning when she was 3 years old and he was 12 years old, and continuing until she was approximately 12 years old and he was approximately 21 years old.
Annie has stated that she has suffered various severe forms of abuse from Sam Altman throughout her life, including sexual, physical, emotional, verbal, financial, technological (shadowbanning, hacking), pharmacological (forced Zoloft), and psychological abuse. She has also stated that she has experienced abuse from her other brother Jack Altman, though she has noted that most of the abuse she's experienced has come from Sam.
This is the 1st in a series of 7 posts I've written that attempt to provide a comprehensive, objective, and unbiased account of the situation, and the information that's currently available.
On January 6, 2025, Annie Altman filed a lawsuit against Sam Altman in the United States District Court for the Eastern District of Missouri, Eastern Division.
The lawsuit is ongoing. A jury trial is set to begin Monday, March 31, 2025. Key events that have occurred in the lawsuit thus far (I'll provide more detail in the 6 subsequent posts that follow this post):
- January 6, 2025: Annie's legal counsel files a complaint against Sam Altman in the United States District Court for the Eastern District of Missouri. The complaint demands a jury trial.
- January 7, 2025: Sam posts a statement from him, his brothers, and his mother in response on X (formerly Twitter.)
- March 7, 2025: Sam's legal counsel files:
- A motion to dismiss Annie's "Common-Law Claims" and to dismiss or strike Annie's "Prayer for Punitive Damages."
- A memorandum of law in support of the above motion.
- "Defendant Samuel Altman's Answer and Affirmative Defenses to Plaintiff's Complaint; Counterclaims in Reply"
- March 14, 2025: Annie's legal counsel files "Plantiff's Unopposed Motion to Extend Pleading and Briefing Deadlines"
- "Plantiff's Counsel is also currently set to begin a jury trial on March 31, 2025"
- March 17, 2025: "Re: 19 Unopposed MOTION for Extension of Time...ORDERED GRANTED. Signed by District Judge Sarah E. Pitlyk on 03/17/2025."
- March 31, 2025: Annie's legal counsel will begin a jury trial.
- Disclaimer: I am not any sort of legal professional, so it's possible that I am misunderstanding or misinterpreting some of the legal proceedings. More details & links relevant to the lawsuit will be provided in the 6 subsequent posts, such that you can check for yourself.
I have made these posts because I think it's important to be aware that such serious claims exist about Sam, given Sam's strong influence, as CEO of OpenAI, on the development and alignment of increasingly powerful AI.
Content warning: Childhood sexual abuse, graphic (sexual) language, suicidal ideation. Annie's claims include graphic depictions of 9 years of severe childhood sexual abuse, and further abuse after that. This post is not light reading.
I have restructured this post
- Prior to 3-31-2025, there was just one singular very-long post.
- You can what it looked like in this capture (from 02-10-2025) on the Internet Archive.
- On 3-31-2025, I split that original very-long post into a series of shorter posts.
Why I split the old (very long) post into multiple (shorter) new posts:
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Before I split it up on 3-31-2025, the original very-long post post was:
- 144510 words
- A "578 minute read" (according to whatever algorithm LessWrong uses to estimate the reading time of a post.)
The original post wasn't nearly as long of a read as it might seem from the numbers above. A lot of the length of the came from the [references section] and the [section on common symptoms in those who've experienced child sexual abuse], and most of the post's content wasn't technical/complex.
Still, the literal number of words (144510) in the original post was a lot.
As the post grew longer, I experienced more and more issues while editing the post:
- Sometimes, I would go to the post and click the "edit" button, and the editor would just load...an empty post. I'd then have to exit out of the editor, go to the post again, click "edit" again, and hope that the editor would load a non-blank post. There was one day where I had to do this this literally dozens of times in a row before the editor finally loaded a non-blank post.
- When the post did load properly in the editor, I experienced a lot of lags when I was editing the post.
- Hundreds of times, I'd be typing, and then my cursor would suddenly stop blinking, and text I was typing would stop appearing on screen. Then, one of a few things would happen:
- The text I'd been typing (and even text I'd typed before the lag) would be deleted
- My cursor would suddenly appear at the top of the post, and the text I'd been typing would rapidly appear, as if being speed-typed.
- My browser would crash entirely, and all of the edits I'd made since I first opened the editor and began editing were lost.
- Hundreds of times, I'd be typing, and then my cursor would suddenly stop blinking, and text I was typing would stop appearing on screen. Then, one of a few things would happen:
There are multiple variables that may have caused the lags (or even others I haven't thought of):
- the length of the post
- the number of edits I've made to the post (I've made a lot of edits!)
- the nature of the content in the post itself (e.g. I use a lot of collapsible sections)
- the browser I'm using
- the operating system I'm using
- the computer/hardware I'm using
- etc.
I experimented with different combinations of some these variables (though some of these variables were easier for me to change than others.) I'm still not sure exactly what caused the lags, but I noticed, in the course of experimenting with editing posts of different lengths in the LessWrong editor, that I experienced far fewer lags when editing shorter posts.
Thus, on 3-31-2025, I decided to split the post into multiple shorter posts.
Outline of the series of posts
Note
The 7 posts are meant to be read in order. That is, you should read Part 1 first, then read Part 2, then Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7.
Outline
- Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 1: Introduction, outline, author's notes [LW · GW]
- Previous posts (which you should read first)
- I have restructured this post
- Outline of the new series of shorter posts
- Note
- Outline -- you are here.
- Author's Notes
- Next post
- Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 2: Annie's lawsuit; the response from Sam, his brothers, and his mother; Timeline [LW · GW]
- Previous posts (which you should read first)
- Annie's lawsuit, and the response from Sam, his brothers, and his mother
- Timeline
- Timeline (before Author's Notes)
- Author's Notes
- Timeline (after Author's Notes)
- Next post
- Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 3: Timeline, continued [LW · GW]
- Previous posts (which you should read first)
- Timeline, continued
- Next post
- Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 4: Timeline, continued continued [LW · GW]
- Previous posts (which you should read first)
- Timeline, continued continued
- Next post
- Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 5: Literature on child sexual abuse and trauma [LW · GW]
- Previous posts (which you should read first)
- Author's note
- Literature on child sexual abuse and trauma
- Next post
- Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 6: Sam's response, my perspective [LW · GW]
- Previous posts (which you should read first)
- Have Sam or his other family members responded to these claims?
- My Perspective
- Opening Comments
- How to interpret these claims?
- Things I find Questionable/Unexplained
- Anticipating and Responding to Potential Objections
- Responding to Objections/Comments I've Seen From Others
- Concluding Remarks
- I made an account on X (Twitter) (to reach out to Annie and Sam)
- Disclaimer
- Next post
- Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 7: List of Annie's online accounts, references [LW · GW]
- Previous posts (which you should read first)
- List of Annie's various online accounts
- References, and key excerpts from them
- Wristwatch-Related References
Author's Notes
This post provides my personal understanding of Annie's claims, and the situation. It's definitely possible that I've gotten things wrong, misinterpreted things, or been biased in how I've covered this situation, despite my best efforts not to.
I highly recommend that you go read through the references and source material yourself, and form your own understanding (as is always good epistemic practice!) (See the "References, and key excerpts from them [LW · GW]" and "List of Annie's various online accounts [LW · GW]" sections of this post.)
If you think I've made an error, or have relevant information I haven't covered, or just have a comment in general, feel free to leave a comment on this post, or post on X (formerly Twitter) and tag my X account, or reply to a post of mine on X, or direct-message me on X, or direct-message me on LessWrong. I will try to update when I encounter new information, or errors that I've made. I'll also try to address counterarguments that I see from others. If you think there's a counterargument I haven't seen or addressed, once again, feel free to contact me (via the methods listed above.)
I highly recommend that you go read through the references and source material yourself, and form your own understanding (as is always good epistemic practice!) (See the "References, and key excerpts from them [LW · GW]" and "List of Annie's various online accounts [LW · GW]" sections of this post.)
If you think I've made an error, or have relevant information I haven't covered, or just have a comment in general, feel free to leave a comment on this post, or post on X (formerly Twitter) and tag my X account, or reply to a post of mine on X, or direct-message me on X, or direct-message me on LessWrong. I will try to update when I encounter new information, or errors that I've made. I'll also try to address counterarguments that I see from others. If you think there's a counterargument I haven't seen or addressed, once again, feel free to contact me (via the methods listed above.)
Unlike other journalists & reporters who've covered Annie's allegations, I've never personally met or interviewed Sam, Annie, or any of their family in-person. Everything in this post is just information that I found on the Internet.
I first published this post on October 7, 2023. Since then, I have made many edits to this post, both to add new information that has become available since October 7, 2023, and to try to make this post clearer, more accurate, and easier to read. You can see previous versions of this post here on the Internet Archive.
In an attempt to make this post clearer and easier to read, I've used "collapsible" sections, like this one.
You can click on the little ▶ triangle icon at the top-left of each collapsible section to un-collapse it, and reveal the hidden content in its dropdown section. You can then click the ▼ icon again to re-collapse the section, and hide its content.
Some of the dropdown sections are empty, so I'll indicate when a dropdown section has content by writing "⬇️ See dropdown section ⬇️".
Don't skip the information in the nonempty dropdown sections.
You can click on the little ▶ triangle icon at the top-left of each collapsible section to un-collapse it, and reveal the hidden content in its dropdown section. You can then click the ▼ icon again to re-collapse the section, and hide its content.
Some of the dropdown sections are empty, so I'll indicate when a dropdown section has content by writing "⬇️ See dropdown section ⬇️".
Don't skip the information in the nonempty dropdown sections.
Throughout this post, I use in-text citations, which correspond to various references provided in the References, and key excerpts from them [LW · GW] section of this post.
⬇️ See dropdown section ⬇️
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- I've included them so that you can more easily see how I've constructed this timeline from the source material that I reference throughout this post (e.g. news articles, posts on social media, etc.)
- They look like this (for example):
- [AA19c]
- [EW23a]
- And their meanings are like this:
- [AA19c] -- "Annie Altman, 2019, c"
- [EW23a] -- "Elizabeth Weil, 2023, a"
- Specifically:
- The first two upper-case letters stand for the first and last name of the author of the reference.
- Example: "AA" for "Annie Altman".
- The two numbers that follow represent the year in which the reference was published.
- Example: "19" for "2019".
- The final lower-case letter doesn't have a specific meaning. It's just for distinguishing between different references published in the same year that would otherwise look the same.
- Example: "[AA19c]" vs "[AA19b]".
- The first two upper-case letters stand for the first and last name of the author of the reference.
- You can use Command-F/Control-F, or scroll down manually, to see the corresponding reference for each in-text citation.
I've purposefully aired on the side of potentially adding a bit "too much" detail in this timeline, as I'd rather do that than accidentally leave out information in a way that makes it hard to understand other events in the timeline.
There are various events in the timeline that, when you first read them, may seem "unnecessary" or "not relevant." But, generally, I include things in the timeline for a reason. Often, in this timeline, earlier events sort of "set up" events that follow years later. You often need to understand various events that occur earlier on in the timeline before you can understand various events that come later.
There are various events in the timeline that, when you first read them, may seem "unnecessary" or "not relevant." But, generally, I include things in the timeline for a reason. Often, in this timeline, earlier events sort of "set up" events that follow years later. You often need to understand various events that occur earlier on in the timeline before you can understand various events that come later.
Throughout this post, I've bolded various segments that I feel are particularly important or relevant.
Next post
As noted at the beginning of this post, this post is the 1st post in a series of 7 posts that are meant to be read in order.
Now that you've read this post, you should read the 2nd post ("Part 2") next:
Sam Altman's sister claims Sam sexually abused her -- Part 2: Annie's lawsuit; the response from Sam, his brothers, and his mother; Timeline [LW · GW]
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comment by Joseph Miller (Josephm) · 2023-10-07T21:38:01.228Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Can anyone comment on the likelihood of her forgetting the abuse she experienced as a 4 year old and then remembering it at ~26 years old? Given the other circumstances this seems quite likely to be a false memory, but I am not familiar with the research on this topic.
Replies from: Kaj_Sotala, jacob_cannell, Lukas_Gloor, pktechgirl, solomon-alon↑ comment by Kaj_Sotala · 2023-10-08T14:41:22.272Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Bessel van der Kolk claimed the following in The Body Keeps the Score:
There have in fact been hundreds of scientific publications spanning well over a century documenting how the memory of trauma can be repressed, only to resurface years or decades later. Memory loss has been reported in people who have experienced natural disasters, accidents, war trauma, kidnapping, torture, concentration camps, and physical and sexual abuse. Total memory loss is most common in childhood sexual abuse, with incidence ranging from 19 percent to 38 percent. This issue is not particularly controversial: As early as 1980 the DSM-III recognized the existence of memory loss for traumatic events in the diagnostic criteria for dissociative amnesia: “an inability to recall important personal information, usually of a traumatic or stressful nature, that is too extensive to be explained by normal forgetfulness.” Memory loss has been part of the criteria for PTSD since that diagnosis was first introduced.
One of the most interesting studies of repressed memory was conducted by Dr. Linda Meyer Williams, which began when she was a graduate student in sociology at the University of Pennsylvania in the early 1970s. Williams interviewed 206 girls between the ages of ten and twelve who had been admitted to a hospital emergency room following sexual abuse. Their laboratory tests, as well as the interviews with the children and their parents, were kept in the hospital’s medical records. Seventeen years later Williams was able to track down 136 of the children, now adults, with whom she conducted extensive follow-up interviews. More than a third of the women (38 percent) did not recall the abuse that was documented in their medical records, while only fifteen women (12 percent) said that they had never been abused as children. More than two-thirds (68 percent) reported other incidents of childhood sexual abuse. Women who were younger at the time of the incident and those who were molested by someone they knew were more likely to have forgotten their abuse.
This study also examined the reliability of recovered memories. One in ten women (16 percent of those who recalled the abuse) reported that they had forgotten it at some time in the past but later remembered that it had happened. In comparison with the women who had always remembered their molestation, those with a prior period of forgetting were younger at the time of their abuse and were less likely to have received support from their mothers. Williams also determined that the recovered memories were approximately as accurate as those that had never been lost: All the women’s memories were accurate for the central facts of the incident, but none of their stories precisely matched every detail documented in their charts. [...]
Given the wealth of evidence that trauma can be forgotten and resurface years later, why did nearly one hundred reputable memory scientists from several different countries throw the weight of their reputations behind the appeal to overturn Father Shanley’s conviction, claiming that “repressed memories” were based on “junk science”? Because memory loss and delayed recall of traumatic experiences had never been documented in the laboratory, some cognitive scientists adamantly denied that these phenomena existed or that retrieved traumatic memories could be accurate. However, what doctors encounter in emergency rooms, on psychiatric wards, and on the battlefield is necessarily quite different from what scientists observe in their safe and well-organized laboratories.
Consider what is known as the “lost in the mall” experiment, for example. Academic researchers have shown that it is relatively easy to implant memories of events that never took place, such as having been lost in a shopping mall as a child. About 25 percent of subjects in these studies later “recall” that they were frightened and even fill in missing details. But such recollections involve none of the visceral terror that a lost child would actually experience.
Another line of research documented the unreliability of eyewitness testimony. Subjects might be shown a video of a car driving down a street and asked afterward if they saw a stop sign or a traffic light; children might be asked to recall what a male visitor to their classroom had been wearing. Other eyewitness experiments demonstrated that the questions witnesses were asked could alter what they claimed to remember. These studies were valuable in bringing many police and courtroom practices into question, but they have little relevance to traumatic memory.
The fundamental problem is this: Events that take place in the laboratory cannot be considered equivalent to the conditions under which traumatic memories are created. The terror and helplessness associated with PTSD simply can’t be induced de novo in such a setting. We can study the effects of existing traumas in the lab, as in our script-driven imaging studies of flashbacks, but the original imprint of trauma cannot be laid down there. Dr. Roger Pitman conducted a study at Harvard in which he showed college students a film called Faces of Death, which contained newsreel footage of violent deaths and executions. This movie, now widely banned, is as extreme as any institutional review board would allow, but it did not cause Pitman’s normal volunteers to develop symptoms of PTSD. If you want to study traumatic memory, you have to study the memories of people who have actually been traumatized.
At some point I tried to read some papers on the topic to see what the state of the debate is; here's what I wrote about it in another post [LW · GW]:
This post discusses suppressing traumatic memories, drawing on the theories of clinical practitioners, who have disagreements with clinical researchers about whether memory suppression is a thing (Patihis, Ho, Tingen, Lilienfeld, & Loftus, 2014).
Much of the criticism about repressed memories is aimed at a specific concept from Freudian theory, and/or on the question of how reliable therapeutically recovered memories are. Several of the critics (e.g. (Rofé, 2008)) acknowledge that people may suppress or intentionally forget painful memories, but argue that this is distinct from the Freudian concept of repression. However, memory suppression in the sense discussed in this post is not related to the Freudian concept, and also includes intentional attempts to forget or avoid thinking about something, as the examples will hopefully demonstrate.
In fact, the memories being hard to forget is exactly the problem, which is something that many critics of the standard Freudian paradigm are keen to point out - traumatic memories are often particularly powerful and long-lasting.
I do make the assumption that conscious attempts to forget something may eventually become sufficiently automated so as to become impossible for the person themselves to notice; but this seems like a straightforward inference from the observation that skills and habits in general can become automated enough so as to happen without the person realizing what they are doing. A recent experiment (unreplicated, but I have a reasonably high prior [LW · GW] for cognitive psychology experiments replicating) also showed that once people are trained to intentionally forget words that are associated with a particular cue, the cue will reduce recall of words even when it is paired with them in a form that is too short to consciously register (Salvador et al. 2018).
I make no strong claims about the reliability of memories recovered in therapy. It has been clearly demonstrated that it is possible for therapists to accidentally or intentionally implant false memories, but there have also been cases of people recovering memories which have then been confirmed from other sources. Probably some recovered memories are genuine (though possibly distorted) and some are not.
↑ comment by jacob_cannell · 2023-10-08T00:02:27.737Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Remembering and imagination share the same pathways and are difficult to distinguish at the neuro circuit level. The idea of recovered memories was already discredited decades ago after the peak of the satanic ritual abuse hysteria/panic of the 80's. At its peak some parents were jailed based on testimonies of children, children that had been coerced (both deliberately and indirectly) into recanting fantastical, increasingly outlandish tales of satanic baby eating rituals. The FBI even eventually investigated and found 0 evidence, but the turning point was when some lawyers and psychiatrists started winning lawsuits against the psychologists and social workers at the center of the recovered memory movement.
Memories change every time they are rehearsed/reimagined; the magnitude of such change varies and can be significant, and the thin separation between imaginings (imagined memories, memories/stories of others, etc) and 'factual' memories doesn't really erode so much as not really exist in the first place.
Nonetheless, some people's detailed memories from childhood are probably largely accurate, but some detailed childhood memories are complete confabulations based on internalization of external evidence, and some are later confabulations based on attempts to remember or recall and extensive dwelling on the past, and some are complete fiction. No way with current tech to distinguish between, even for the rememberer.
↑ comment by Lukas_Gloor · 2023-10-08T11:56:04.672Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I know someone who recovered memories of repeated abuse including from the age of four later in their teenage years. The parents could corroborate a lot of circumstances around those memories, which suggests that they're likely broadly accurate. For instance, things like "they told their mother about the abuse when they were four, and the mother remembered that this conversation happened." Or "the parents spoke to the abuser and he basically admitted it." There was also suicidal ideation at around age six (similarity to Annie's story). In addition, the person remembers things like, when playing with children's toy figures (human-like animals), they would not play with these toy figures like ordinary children and instead think about plots that involve bleeding between legs and sexual assault. (This is much more detailed than Annie’s story, but remembering panic attacks as the first memory and having them as a child at least seems like evidence that she was strongly affected by something that had happened.)
Note that the person in question recovered these memories alone years before having any therapy.
It's probably easier to remember abuse (or for this to manifest itself in child behavior in detailed ways, like with the toy figures) when it's repeated. I think there’s a bunch of interpersonal variation also with respect to how people react to trauma. According to selfdecode (a service like 23andme), the person has alleles that make them unusually resilient to trauma, and yet they still struggled with cPTSD symptoms and the memories weren't always accessible.
↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-10-08T03:41:56.546Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The chances she remembers it accurately? very small.
But the chances a four year old who was abused accurately remembers the abuse? also very small, because they're so young and because trauma messes with memory formation.
So barring psychosis it seems pretty likely to me that something happened, but that she isn't an accurate witness to specifics.
↑ comment by solomon alon (solomon-alon) · 2023-10-08T00:07:12.966Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
From my understanding it’s incredibly unlikely. There are roughly two possibilities.
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This a false memory implanted by her therapist.
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She always had the memory but only realized what it was later or only decided to act on it later.
Note often time children don’t process sexual assault as an incredibly traumatic until years later. either because a therapist brings a memory to the forefront or something happens to bring the memory to the forefront or even just learning about what sex is can cuase the memoru to be traumatic.
Replies from: Lukas_Gloor↑ comment by Lukas_Gloor · 2023-10-08T12:00:48.722Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Note often time children don’t process sexual assault as an incredibly traumatic until years later.
The opposite is common, though. I know someone who had this happened and they remembered that sexual assault felt distinctly very bad even before knowing what sex was. (And see my other comment on resurfacing memories.)
Replies from: gareth-davidson↑ comment by Gareth Davidson (gareth-davidson) · 2023-11-21T11:37:06.207Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
To share an alternate anecdote, a friend of mine was accused by a family member of abuse as a child, which turned out to be a false memory created during a severe and prolonged period of mental illness. Ten years after she apologised and says she doesn't believe it happened, he still finds it difficult to forgive her and has mental health issues caused by the stigma (not that there was any really, she made a lot of other extremely unlikely clams)
Not this this influences my position from the default stance of "dunno", but I thought I'd share for balance.
comment by trevor (TrevorWiesinger) · 2023-10-07T19:55:37.190Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Does anyone know what the base rate is for estranged family members making accusations against celebrity relatives? That's a pretty important factor here e.g. it's possible that journalists at reputable outlets are willing to write misleading stories about AI safety university groups [EA · GW] because they have true statistics that they can cite (or use clever linguistic tricks and other tools of the trade to straight-up lie about those statistics in plausibly deniable ways, which sadly also still happens even at the most reputable outlets), but can't write honest stories about accusations from estranged family members because of journalistic ethics.
Or maybe editors at news outlets and other varieties of corporate executives all have estranged family members so there's a norm against it, which sometimes holds and sometimes doesn't. All of it centers around what the base rate is, a single number, which I don't know. But it's impossible to investigate this topic in a truthseeking way and simultaneously not attempt to find the number that all the other calculations indisputably revolve around. The base rate of false rape accusations for normal people is incredibly low, likely because the victim loses social status in an extreme way (some right-wingers claim that accusers gain social status and this claim has been thoroughly researched and discredited) and the base rate of non-reporting is very high, and both of those numbers are absolutely critical for even beginning to understand the problem. The same goes here.
Replies from: Viliam, James_Miller, pl5015↑ comment by Viliam · 2023-10-09T00:19:40.471Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
it's possible that journalists at reputable outlets are willing to write misleading stories about AI safety university groups because they have true statistics that they can cite
My guess would be that student groups accused of being "apocalyptic" are much less likely to sue you for libel than billionaires accused of child sex abuse. That seems more important than base rates.
↑ comment by James_Miller · 2023-10-07T20:30:00.042Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Most journalists trying to investigate this story would attempt to interview Annie Altman. The base rate (converted to whatever heuristic the journalist used) would be influenced by whether she agreed to the interview and if she did how she came across. The reference class wouldn't just be "estranged family members making accusations against celebrity relatives".
Replies from: ChristianKl↑ comment by ChristianKl · 2023-10-13T00:17:48.111Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
She also makes claims that can be factually checked. When it comes to the money from her dad's there are going to be legal documents that describe what happened in that process.
↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T22:25:41.228Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Good point. I don't currently know that rate, but agree that it would be helpful in analyzing this matter.
comment by Adam Zerner (adamzerner) · 2023-10-08T05:48:15.409Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I'm confused about and skeptical of the justifiability of all the downvotes this post received.
- If the allegations are true, well, I'm not sure [LW(p) · GW(p)] how important exactly it is, but it seems at least like it passes the bar of "worth knowing about" pretty easily.
- If something passes that bar pretty easily, I guess the next question is how plausible it is. If it's incredibly implausible, then downvoting seems reasonable. I only skimmed through the post and some of the comments, but it doesn't seem like the allegations are obviously implausible.
- Once something passes through filters (1) and (2), some other reasons I could think of for why it might be worth downvoting are if the post does a poor job of arguing, is very difficult to understand, or is very hostile and contentious. None of these things seem to be the case here though.
↑ comment by Lukas_Gloor · 2023-10-08T12:26:08.686Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Strongly agree!
I have mixed feelings about the convincingness of the accusations. Some aspects seem quite convincing to me, others very much not.
In most contexts, I'm still going to advocate for treating Sam Altman as though it's 100% that he's innocent, because that's what I think is the right policy in light of uncorroborated accusations. However, in the context of "should I look into this more or at least keep an eye on the possibility of dark triad psychology?," I definitely think this passes the bar of "yes, this is relevant to know."
I thought it was very strange to interpret this post as "gossip," as one commenter did.
comment by Ben Pace (Benito) · 2023-10-07T17:56:36.788Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Yikes, I'm finding this quite emotionally difficult to read, and I didn't expect any of this.
Amongst many disturbing things, Annie reports:
Shadowbanning across all platforms except onlyfans and pornhub. Also had 6 months of hacking into almost all my accounts and wifi when I first started the podcast"
I don't currently see how this could work out. Shadowbanning on Twitter and Reddit and Facebook (and more) is something the mods on each of those platforms controls, I am unclear how a young Sam Altman could've accomplished this.
Hypotheses:
- Sam and his allies engaged in a systematic campaign to report a lot of her content to mods on each of these platforms and somehow knew how to specifically cause shadowbanning on all of these platforms.
- This was done when Sam was a significant figure in YC / Silicon Valley and he reached out directly to senior people in those companies to make a shadowbanning request.
- She was shadowbanned on these platforms for sex work / other unusual content and inaccurately attributes it to Sam.
- She is mistaken about what happened, or something close by happened once (e.g. he reported her to a subreddit mod who took mod action against her) and she is exaggerating this.
- The claim is fabricated for other reasons (not very in touch with reality, attention, etc).
I'd certainly be interested to know what evidence led her to believe she had been widely shadowbanned.
Replies from: pl5015, pl5015, Gunnar_Zarncke↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T23:31:16.949Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Update: While I don't consider this evidence of a widespread shadowbanning effort, some commenters on Hacker News claim that a post regarding Annie's claims that Sam sexually assaulted her at age 4 has been being repeatedly removed.
- https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37785072
- https://twitter.com/JOSourcing/status/1710390512455401888
I have updated this post to include this information as well (c.f. item 3.a. in "What Annie has stated on her X account.")
Replies from: jkaufman↑ comment by jefftk (jkaufman) · 2023-11-17T22:51:02.493Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
some commenters on Hacker News claim that a post regarding Annie's claims that Sam sexually assaulted her at age 4 has been being repeatedly removed.
It's possible that Sam or HN/YC have been abusing their mod powers, but this is also consistent with manual flagging by legitimate users. There's an active contingent of HN users who think this kind of post is a "gossipy distraction", and so it's very common for posts like this to be hidden via flagging even when they're not about someone involved with HN/YC.
(While HN does have a shadowbanning system, where your posts are not shown by default and only users who've manually set showdead=true can see them, it looks like that term is being misapplied here.)
↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T18:01:48.183Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I also find Annie's claims emotionally difficult to read. Annie's claims are very serious. Though, as I have acknowledged, their validity has yet to be convincingly established.
I also would be interested to know what evidence led her to believe she had been widely shadowbanned. In general, I would be interested to hear more from Annie, Sam, or those close to this.
↑ comment by Gunnar_Zarncke · 2025-03-31T13:44:20.996Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The good thing is that at least those actions on larger platforms leave evidence that can be established by the court.
comment by Roko · 2023-10-08T00:30:11.023Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The simplest hypothesis that explains all this evidence is that Annie Altman is suffering from psychosis, and this would be obvious if we weren't all caught up in the metoo world order.
E.g. the belief that all her devices, and her wifi were hacked, and that she has been shadowbanned from all internet platforms seems like the kind of thing that someone suffering from psychosis would believe. It's not a rational belief. It's called a persecutory delusion.
The idea that her mental health problems were caused by a sexual assault early in her life is topsy turvy; actually, she's mentally ill which has caused her to have difficulty distinguishing fact from fiction and make the accusation, and irresponsible D-tier amateur journos are taking advantage of the situation.
This post is basically a perfect exemplar of how a psychotic person behaves. E.g.
Annie has moved more than 20 times in the past year.
The base rate for psychosis is about 1-3% and she's at the most common age for it too.
This 1-3% is much higher than the probability that the abuse happened, and the total internet shadowbanning happened, that multiple family members are conspiring against her, and the part where she was illegally written out of the will happened, etc. OF course if there was hard evidence it would be different, but given what we have I think the psychosis hypothesis is favored.
Zoloft also seems to have some relation with psychosis, with a number of people saying it causes it, exacerbate it, etc. This is somewhat weaker evidence but it is interesting that it came up.
I rest my case, may Bayes judge me.
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/understanding-psychosis
Replies from: Seth Herd, lombertini, Ape in the coat, pl5015, DonyChristie, 272314, adrusi↑ comment by Seth Herd · 2023-10-12T00:33:08.959Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
You're assuming the two alternatives are that everything she's said is true and accurate, or else nothing is. It does not require psychosis to make wrong interpretations or to have mild paranoia. It merely requires not being a dedicated rationalist, and/or having a hard life. I'm pretty sure that being abused would help cause paranoia, helping her to get some stuff wrong.
Unfortunately, it's going to be impossible to disentangle this without more specific evidence. Psychology is complicated. Both real recovered memories and fabricated memories seem to be common.
You didn't bother estimating the base rate of sexual abuse by siblings. While that's very hard to figure out, it's very likely in the same neighborhood as your 1-3% psychosis. And it's even harder to study or estimate. So this isn't going to help much in resolving the issue.
Replies from: Roko↑ comment by Roko · 2023-10-12T02:54:35.403Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
it's very likely in the same neighborhood as your 1-3% psychosis
I disagree, that seems extraordinarily high to me.
Replies from: scipio↑ comment by ROM (scipio ) · 2023-10-12T05:31:28.539Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I'm disappointed you didn't engage with Seth's claim that you're assuming all the claims made are either collectively true or collectively false.
Is it true that someone with psychosis (assuming your judgement is correct) making an allegation of sexual abuse is more likely to be lying/mistaken than not?
I.e someone with psychosis making a claim like the above is less likely than someone without psychosis to be accurately interpreting reality, but is their claim more likely to be false than not? Your argument leans heavily on her having psychosis. Do people with psychosis make more false allegations of sexual assault that true allegations?
Breiding et al., 2014 estimates that around 19.3% of women in the US have been sexually assaulted. Assuming the rate is similar for people with psychosis, more than 1 in 5 women with psychosis would need to make false allegations for the base assumption to be "person has psychosis therefore their sexual assault claim is more likely false than true". On reflection this part wasn't a good point.
↑ comment by wolflow · 2023-11-18T02:46:46.559Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I have done a check of about half an hour on all kinds of material published by herself and in conclusion I believe with a high degree of certainty that she says a lot of largely untrue things. Whether that's due to utter brain malfunction or lying I cannot say.
Replies from: sixart↑ comment by sixart · 2023-11-19T13:20:21.984Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The wholesale dismissal of her reality claims is a mistake. Comorbidities of abuse as well as having to perform the family deceit of not acknowledging it definitionaly decenter the abused as a reference point on reality. Even if her claims are proximally or partially true their complete invalidation is foolish.
↑ comment by titotal (lombertini) · 2023-10-09T16:13:03.565Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Bayes can judge you now: your analysis is half-arsed, which is not a good look when discussing a matter as serious as this.
All you’ve done is provide one misleading statistic. The base rate of experiencing psychosis may be 1-3%, but the base rate of psychotic disorders is much lower, at 0.25% or so.
But the most important factor is one that is very hard to estimate, which is what percentage of people with psychosis manifest that psychosis as false memories of being groped by a sibling. If the psychosis had involved seeing space aliens, we would be having a different discussion.
We would then have to compare this with the rate of teenagers groping their toddler siblings. This is also very difficult. A few studies claim that somewhere around 20% of women are sexually abused as children, but I don’t have a breakdown of that by source of abuse and age, etc. Obviously the figure for our particular subset of assault cases will be significantly lower, but I don’t know by how much.
I thinks it’s highly likely that the number of women groped as a toddler by a sibling is much higher than the number of women who falsely claim to be groped as a toddler by a sibling as a result of psychosis or other mental illness, although again there is high uncertainty. This certainly makes intuitive sense: absent any other information, the most likely explanation for someone being accused of a specific crime is that they committed the crime.
All the further evidence seems at least consistent with either scenario
The sudden onset of the memory could be due to onset of psychosis… or it could be a repressed memory, which can also trigger at any time.
Suppose the claim about shadowbanning is false. That could be due to psychosis, or it could be a combination of misunderstanding technology and being fearful of an abusive sibling in the tech sector. I don’t think it’s strong evidence of psychosis in particular.
Is moving 20 times evidence of psychosis? The claimed reason is that she’s broke and had to rely on sex work for money. This seems orthogonal to psychosis.
Is using Zoloft evidence for being psychotic? Only weakly, since she was taking Zoloft for non-psychotic reasons since her teen years.
The claim about her dads money being withheld is only evidence for psychosis if it is false. This would be easy for sam altman to prove, and he hasn’t yet.
I don’t think there’s enough information to be truly certain of either side, but there is more than enough information to be concerned, and to want further investigation and evidence.
Replies from: Roko↑ comment by Roko · 2023-10-10T14:21:26.758Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
studies claim that somewhere around 20% of women are sexually abused as children
This is almost certainly not true.
misleading
why? I don't think it's misleading. Here's another source.
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2298236
Is moving 20 times evidence of psychosis? The claimed reason is that she’s broke and had to rely on sex work for money. This seems orthogonal to psychosis.
it sounds like you don't know how evidence works.
The claim about her dads money being withheld is only evidence for psychosis if it is false
ok you definitely don't know how evidence works.
Replies from: None↑ comment by [deleted] · 2023-11-20T01:19:34.661Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This is almost certainly not true.
I think Duncan Sabien's Law of Prevalence is a good frame for explaining this: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/KpMNqA5BiCRozCwM3/social-dark-matter#III__The_Law_of_Prevalence [LW · GW]
Based on your style of communication, I think it's unlikely many people would feel comfortable telling you about these experiences, ergo the true number may be multiples higher than expected.
↑ comment by Ape in the coat · 2023-11-10T07:16:51.555Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
It's true that a hundred years ago, women making such allegations were dismissid as being psychotic. This doesn't mean that these dissmissed women were indeed psychotic and/or wrong in their allegitions. Pre-me-too perception of the world is at least not necessarily more accurate.
If anything, happening of Me-Too movement is an evidence in favor of base rates of sexual assault being highter. You can't use it existence to lower the probability estimate of this particular allegation being true, without contradicting conservation of expected evidence.
Similarly, with mental health issues. They can be downstream of sexual abuse or they can lead to falsly believing that you were abused. Priviledging one hypothesis over the other requires some kind of evidence. What are the rates of abused person developping mental health issues, similar to what can be observed of Annie Altman? What are the rates of people with similar to Annie Altman issues having delusions about sexual assault?
The base rate for psychosis is about 1-3% and she's at the most common age for it too.
This 1-3% is much higher than the probability that the abuse happened, and the total internet shadowbanning happened, that multiple family members are conspiring against her, and the part where she was illegally written out of the will happened, etc.
You are comparing wrong numbers. As I've already said what we need to compare is the rate of this kind of mental health symptoms among people who were not sexually abused in their childhood and then developped delusions about sexual assualt with the probability of people being sexually abused in their childhood and then developping this kind of simptoms. This will give us a prior to distinguish between two hypothesis.
All the other complications like shadowbanning, family members conspiring, being written out of the will, etc. are not relevant to the main issue. A scenario where a girl was sexually abused as by her brothers, which resulted in her devolopping mental health issues, which lead her to inaccurately believe that she is shadowbanned in the internet isn't absolving for the brothers. Of course if the other allegations are also true/partially true it makes the situation even more severe. But they have to be examined on their own and not dissmissed all together.
↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-08T22:31:41.515Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think you make multiple valid points which are similar to the points I've made in my post, but I do think our stances differ in a few ways.
I think that you are certainly correct that psychosis, or a similar type of mental illness / disorder, is a plausible explanatory hypothesis for Annie making the claims that she has.
However, though I do recognize that the simplicity of a hypothesis is a boon to its plausibility, I do not share your belief that we have been unknowingly subsumed by the "MeToo world order", which has damaged our rationalism and obstructed our ability to recognize this as being obviously the simplest hypothesis. (Though perhaps this is a overly dramatic / inaccurate representation of your assertion.)
While I do agree that this post may encapsulate behavior representative of a person suffering from psychosis, or a similar mental illness, I see the hypothesis space as primarily dual, where mental illness / misrepresentation-of-reality-type hypotheses form one primary subspace, but there exists another primary subspace wherein the behavior detailed in this post is indeed representative of a person who has gone through the things which Annie has claimed she has.
I do appreciate your inclusion of quantitative rates; I think your analysis benefits from it.
Replies from: Roko↑ comment by Roko · 2023-10-12T21:54:17.097Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I do not share your belief that we have been unknowingly subsumed by the "MeToo world order"
Why not?
A priori when a person makes a bunch of unlikely accusations in public, it would have been reasonable to first consider this as evidence of them not being truthful and sane. Since people are often not sane and/or liars, this is an important epistemic subroutine to have otherwise you are vulnerable to manipulation.
I don't really want to make this into a huge battle; you almost certainly don't have anything to change my mind (because I'm right) and I almost certainly won't change your mind (because your position is good for signaling/popular). I've mostly given up on these kind of battles because the supply of mindkilled virtue signaling is essentially limitless - but if you are going to disagree and take the epistemic high ground on LW I think you should have to justify yourself or retract the point.
↑ comment by Pee Doom (DonyChristie) · 2023-10-08T01:30:33.192Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The wifi hacking also immediately struck me as reminiscent of paranoid psychosis. Though a significant amount of psychosis-like things are apparently downstream of childhood trauma, including sexual abuse, but I forget the numbers on this.
Replies from: Roko, green_leaf↑ comment by green_leaf · 2023-10-08T11:48:58.865Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The wifi hacking also immediately struck me as reminiscent of paranoid psychosis.
How hard is it to hack somebody's wifi?
Also, a traumatized person attributing a seemingly hacked wifi to their serious abuser doesn't need to mean any mental illness.
Replies from: Roko, xiann↑ comment by Roko · 2023-10-08T12:13:31.066Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
doesn't need to mean any mental illness
We are being Bayesian. It's a hypothesis that explains the visible evidence very well. It also has a relatively high prior probability (a few percent).
Replies from: green_leaf↑ comment by green_leaf · 2023-10-12T19:45:06.254Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Can you show what priors you used, how you calculated the posteriors, what numbers you got and where the input numbers came from? I highly doubt that hypothesis has a higher posterior probability.
↑ comment by 272314 · 2023-10-08T07:56:56.582Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I agree, although I'm not sure it's entirely due to the "metoo world order."
It's probably partly that, but it's also partly that it's considered impolite to point out when someone is mentally ill. In part this is because unfortunately doing so can strengthen a paranoid person's feeling of persecution.
When a friend of mine suffered a psychotic break, she had many technology related delusions, and she reached out to me for advice because I work in technology. I wasn't sure how to handle it so I consulted a professional. Under their advice, I gave her general advice on how to protect herself from breaches (strong passwords, HTTPS everywhere extension, etc.) and didn't otherwise try to disillusion her. My role as a friend was to stay her friend, not try to break her delusions. Paranoid people already have enough enemies, imaginary though they may be.
Of course, once delusions have been put into print, it's now a public forum. (One might question the ethics of publishing such an article). But politeness norms often extend into public forums.
↑ comment by adrusi · 2023-11-18T01:24:02.292Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This hypothesis seems like it should be at or near the top of the list. It explains a lot of Sam's alleged behavior. If she's exhibiting signs of psychosis then he might be trying to get her to get care, which would explain the strings-attached access to resources. Possibly she is either altering the story or misunderstanding about her inheritance being conditional on Zoloft, it might have been an antipsychotic instead.
On the other hand, while psychosis can manifest in subtle ways, I'm skeptical that someone whose psychosis is severe enough that they'd be unable to maintain stable employment or housing would be able to host a podcast where their psychosis isn't clearly visible. (I haven't listened to it yet, but I would expect it to be obvious enough that others would have pointed it out)
A variation on this hypothesis that I find more likely is that Annie is psychologically unwell in exactly the ways she says she is, and out of some mixture of concern for her wellbeing and fear that her instability could hurt his own reputation or business interests, Sam has used some amount of coercion to get her to seek psychiatric care. She then justifiably got upset about her rich and powerful family members using their financial power to coerce her into taking drugs she knows she doesn't want to take. You don't have to be psychotic to develop some paranoia in a situation like that.
comment by ladyv · 2023-10-08T14:46:42.550Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Scratching my head over whether logic/rational arguments/opining on probabilities by random internet people is the best path toward finding out what's capital-T true here. This doesn't seem to be a case where you can pull up the evidence, look at base rates, and calculate whether Annie is telling the truth or not based on probabilities.
It sounds like Annie has struggled with mental health issues from quite an early age -- as young as 5 or 6, which also manifested later as physical health issues, and what's disturbing to me is the repeated lack of support from her family members throughout.
It saddens me that she has tried to speak to her mother and brothers about what happened and has been repeatedly ignored or invalidated. And that despite her being the primary beneficiary of her father's 401K, her family chose to withhold the money she would have used to take time off work to restore her health. When she requested that Sam help promote her podcast he denied her request because it didn't make sense for his business. Sam and their mom denied her request for financial support so she wouldn't have to turn to sex work to make ends meet.
It actually sounds like her family has repeatedly made choices to prevent Annie from healing past wounds and building a stable foundation for herself.
I find these decisions by Sam to deny his own sister financial, emotional, and spiritual support don't reflect well on his character and don't bode well for his ability to steer the development of a compassionate AGI that will do what's best for humanity.
Replies from: pl5015↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-10T19:41:02.616Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Sorry for the delayed response - yes, I think this kind of gets at the heart of the matter. I think, though I did a pretty good job with being rational in this post, and trying to make rational, unbiased claims from/using the information that exists, I could have been a bit more refined and clear-cut.
I honestly feel a bit bad, because this is an important issue, and I hope I didn't screw things up by (unintentionally) presenting things in a irrational or biased way. I'll try to be very rational and unbiased in this comment.
I think my statement that I was "trying to figure out the truth" in an earlier comment was misguided and imprecise. You were keen to notice this. In a situation like this, there are large amounts of uncertainty, and there is currently no proof of misconduct (that I've seen.)
I think what this post does is {provide a (relatively) accurate description of the state of affairs regarding Annie's claims.} I do feel pretty good about the way in which I presented the information relevant to this matter in this post. Though I don't want to necessarily "take shots" at Elizabeth Weil, whose nymag article provided basically the only significant written third-party acknowledgment of Annie's claims, I will say that I prefer the (hopefully, more) objective, straight-from-the-source, uncertainty-acknowledging approach I've taken here.
The key thing here is that, currently, the primary information we have is:
- Claims that Annie has made on social media, as well as a few pictures of her from when she was sick that she took, and a few screenshots of her social media that potentially indicate, but do not provably or definitively, indicate that she experienced shadowbanning, let alone that the low engagement/shadowbanning occured because of Sam. It is important to avoid the conjunction fallacy [? · GW]:
Let A = the event that Annie Altman, or (digital) media relating to her did indeed experience shadowbanning, low engagement, etc.
Let B = the event that Sam Altman caused A to occur.
Then
P(A ∧ B) ≤ P(A).
To me, it seems very hard to prove that one has been shadowbanned. To me, this would require proof of an arrangement between a "shadowbanning-requester" (e.g. Sam Altman) and the "shadowbanners" (e.g. developers or mods at Instagram, X, etc.), or direct evidence of actions taken and/or code written by mods, devs, etc. that shadowbanned Annie's content. In this matter, that has not been provided.
- A 2018 podcast episode that Annie did with Sam, Jack, and Max. Yes, while it is potentially suspicious that Sam cut Annie off around 24:50 ish, it doesn't prove anything.
- A Twitter post from 2018 where Sam Altman shared a link to Annie's Youtube channel.
- A variety of other social media posts from Annie that, while they are not inconsistent with the story she is telling / claims she is making about Sam, do not provide proof for the claims she has made about Sam.
- For example, Annie seems to have posted multiple social media posts showing her in Hawai'i at the times that she claims she was. So this does corroborate the part of the larger claim-story in which Annie claims she was in Hawai'i at time X. However, these only support that individual part of her story; they provide no evidence for anything else.
So, I think the main thing that this post has going for it is that it aggregates what is out there in a relatively objective/unbiased way. That is, it aggregates (many of) the claims Annie has made, and related media that exists on the Internet.
comment by Siebe · 2023-11-18T11:38:53.031Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Just coming to this now, after Altman's firing (which seems unrelated?)
At age 5, she began waking up in the middle of the night, needing to take a bath to calm her anxiety. By 6, she thought about suicide, though she didn’t know the word."
To me, this adds a lot of validity to the whole story and I haven't seen these points made:
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Becoming suicidal at such an early age isn't normal, and very likely has a strong environmental cause (like being abused, or losing a loved one)
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The bathing to relieve anxiety is typical sexual trauma behavior (e.g. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3577979/)
Of course, we don't know for sure that she told the truth that this started at that age, but we can definitely not dismiss it.
On the recovered memories: I listen to a lot of podcasts where people talk about their own trauma and healing (with respected therapists). It's very common in those that people start realizing in adulthood that something was wrong in their childhood, and increasingly figure out why they've always felt so 'off'.
On the shadowbanning & hacking: This part feels more tenuous to me, especially the shadowbanning. But I don't think this disqualifies the rest of the story. She's had a really hard life and surely would have trust issues, and her brother is a powerful man.
comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-07T18:50:40.634Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Also a practical question about how to interpret this is how reliable flashbacks that occur many years later the event without memory of the event in the time inbetween are. My guess would be that the answer is "we don't really know".
Like as far as I understand, dissociation is A Thing, but the people who talk about it still don't have a solid understanding of how it can or cannot work, and are often mistaken about the science of it and of trauma? (In particular overestimating the validity of some of the science.)
And conversely, some recovered memories are fake, but the people who talk about this tend to deny the possibility of dissociation and don't really have any scalable way of determining the validity or invalidity of such memories, so they just round it off to always being fake without having solid support for that?
Replies from: pl5015↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T19:11:01.728Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I share your concern, not only about the reliability of Annie's flashbacks, but also about the validity of the claims she's made as a whole. As I note in my response to "Objection 4", Annie has provided no direct evidence to corroborate her claims, to the best of my knowledge.
I also acknowledge that the links I provided (e.g. from saprea.org) do not meet rigorous standards that would enable me to label them as "scientific" or "empiric" evidence to corroborate Annie's account. I provide them merely as a way of noting that the symptoms that Annie's reported seem plausible.
As I mentioned, the intent of this post is to promote discussion about the claims that Annie has made, and to spread awareness of the fact that Sam has not yet responded to Annie's (very serious claims.) This post does not claim that Annie's claims are provably or indisputably valid. In fact, I think the opposite is true: her claims are not yet corroborated by direct evidence, and they certainly are disputable. I currently hold Sam Altman to be innocent, until proven guilty.
In spite of this, I still thought that this post was worth making, as a means of bringing attention to Annie's claims, which I think have a nonzero probability of being true in whole or in part.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-07T19:20:52.122Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I share your concern, not only about the reliability of Annie's flashbacks, but also about the validity of the claims she's made as a whole. As I note in my response to "Objection 4", Annie has provided no direct evidence to corroborate her claims, to the best of my knowledge.
This seems like a thing that, even if true, would not lead to any direct evidence? Like presumably the only evidence of the sexual abuse that persists this long is gonna be her memories, Sam Altman's memories, and maybe other family members memories.
(Or I suppose maybe they could run a PPG test on Sam Altman to better measure his sexuality? But AFAIK such tests are somewhat noisy and basically never performed.)
Replies from: pl5015↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T19:45:06.353Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Yes, I think you raise valid points. Given that Annie's (purported) sexual abuse occurred so long ago, I agree that it is unlikely that, at this point, direct evidence of Sam's (purported) sexual abuse of her would be able to gathered.
Deviating a bit from your reply to the more general question of "What direct evidence could be provided (e.g. by Annie) to corroborate the claims Annie is making?" -- I do think that a potentially useful piece of evidence that could be provided to corroborate (some of) Annie's claims would be proof that:
- Annie's father left her money in his will.
- Annie did not receive this money, as specified in the will.
↑ comment by Viliam · 2023-10-09T00:34:27.920Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I suspect that only the people involved will ever know the truth about the sexual abuse accusation. The claim about money, although in my opinion less serious, seems much easier to investigate. (And then, we can make a probabilistic update about the other claim.)
Other accusations in the article, such as Sam not willing to link a podcast, don't seem important to me.
↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-07T20:17:57.089Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Those claims would be nice to know the answer to, though I don't know that proving those claims would prove the sexual abuse allegations, nor that disproving those claims would disprove the sexual abuse allegations. Obviously one could argue that these claims are evidence about the relative trustworthiness of Annie vs Sam, but I am not sure trustworthiness across different claims is sufficiently well-correlated in these sorts of situations that it's a valid inference to make.
comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-07T18:09:27.232Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I'm trying to square Sam Altman sexually abusing her with Sam Altman being gay. The best theory I can come up with to square them is that maybe he is bisexual and pretends to be gay to hide the sexual abuse. Alternatively maybe being sufficiently high in the disgust/taboo factor of sexual interests cancels out being gay when the context involves sexually assaulting a minor family member. I suppose the latter story would have less complexity penalty since it also explains the incest attraction and assault and not just the gynephilia.
Replies from: Muireall, DanielFilan, pl5015, house-beaver↑ comment by Muireall · 2023-10-07T22:13:24.871Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
My understanding is that perpetrator sexuality has little to do with the gender of chosen victims in child sexual abuse. If Annie was four years old and Sam thirteen at the time, I don't think attraction to women played much of a role either way.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-08T06:50:12.881Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Ehh, idk.
Obviously pedophiles are much more likely to sexually assault children than teliophiles are, and from what I've heard pedophiles are more likely to have no particular preference (or only weak preferences) for whether their victims are male or female. But pedophilic child molesters tend to have strong preferences for children, which is in tension with Sam Altman being attracted to adult men.
Alternatively I've heard that some teliophiles molest children out of opportunism, but that seems somewhat counterintuitive to me (in order to see children as a sexual opportunity, wouldn't they need to be attracted to them?). It's less counterintuitive if we're talking about teens (sexual attractiveness to teliophiles tends to gradually increase due to age, rather than suddenly spiking up at the age of consent), but that doesn't square with Annie being four years old. I'm pretty sure this type of child molester tends to have a correspondence between their preference for adults's sex and their preference for children's sex, but I also think their preference for children's sex is weaker than their preference for adult's sex.
These explanations are all making reference to the perpetrator's sexuality, though of course in much more complex and nuanced ways than gay/straight/bi.
↑ comment by DanielFilan · 2023-10-08T23:23:55.534Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
[epistemic status: i know nothing]
Isn't it not so uncommon for people's sexualities to change over time? I'd think puberty especially would be a time when things would shift.
↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T18:10:44.054Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I do acknowledge that this may not provide an entirely satisfactory explanation of why a 13-year-old Sam (purportedly) chose to sexually abuse a 4-year-old Annie Altman. Nevertheless, I do not think that {a 13-year-old Sam Altman sexually abusing a 4-year-old Annie Altman} is mutually exclusive with {Sam Altman coming out as gay as a teenager, and being openly gay since then.}
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-07T18:17:22.471Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I saw this interpretation but it seems psychologically unrealistic to me. Why would a person who is questioning their sexuality would sexually assault a minor family member? People generally aren't attracted to their family members or to children, so it wouldn't be very diagnostic, and it is a strong norm violation that seems unnecessary for exploring one's sexuality.
Replies from: pl5015↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T18:25:13.735Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I think the points you make are somewhat valid. I don't entirely agree with the reasoning from which they originate.
While I agree that:
-- Yes, it is not necessary for a person exploring their sexuality to do so by sexually assaulting a younger family member
-- Yes, providing "13-year-old Sam Altman was exploring his sexuality" as the explanatory motive of 13-year-old Sam's sexual assault of 4-year-old Annie is not entirely satisfactory},
I do not agree that:
-- 13-year-old Sam Altman choosing to explore his sexuality by sexuality assaulting his 4-year-old sister is a psychologically infeasible (I do acknowledge that this is not exactly the claim you are making.)
I also think that Annie may not have been fully literal in her provision of "13-year-old Sam Altman was exploring his sexuality" as the explanatory motive for him sexually assaulting her.
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-07T20:14:55.759Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Maybe it would be more appropriate for me to say "less psychologically realistic than all the other alternatives that are on the table so far".
↑ comment by House Beaver (house-beaver) · 2023-10-10T21:46:13.073Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Many gay men frequently date girls during their adolescence. A survey shows that gay male teenagers are several times more likely to conceive girls than straight male teenagers. Many male homosexuals frequently "explore" or "challenge themselves" during the early stages of sexual awakening, and then fully embrace themselves at a later stage. Annie may be a sacrificed experimental object (if the allegations are true). Some of Anne's tweets do not seem to appear in this article. I have seen Anne (Twitter) claim that her brother once touched her pussy and anus. The so-called sexual harassment (if the allegations are true) may not necessarily be driven by sexual desire. The gay boy who touched his sister's genitals may only be confirming (in reality rather than in pornographic magazines) whether he would be sexually aroused by a woman. We don't know if he had sexual contact with girls of his age during adolescence. We don't know why he chose a four year old girl (if the accusation is true), perhaps we adults cannot understand the emotional world of an adolescent.
Replies from: npostavs, tailcalled↑ comment by npostavs · 2023-10-11T23:09:30.837Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
A survey shows that gay male teenagers are several times more likely to conceive girls than straight male teenagers.
Does "conceive" mean "have sex with" here? Because according to what I think of as the standard definition of that word, you would be saying that gay male teenagers are more likely to produce female offspring (which sounds pretty silly). Did the survey use that word?
Replies from: tailcalled↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-12T12:12:19.200Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
House Beaver is talking about surveys which find a correlation between saying one is gay and saying one has impregnated someone/become pregnant. So like House Beaver's idea is if those who say they are gay teen boys in surveys also have a greater tendency to say they've impregnated someone, then House Beaver thinks this is probably because gay teen boys are more likely to impregnated teen girls than straight teen boys are. Whereas I'd be inclined to say it's because some teens find it funny to say they are 7 foot tall blind gang members who are addicted to heroin.
↑ comment by tailcalled · 2023-10-11T20:13:38.473Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Many gay men frequently date girls during their adolescence.
I'm aware of phenomena like beards and repression. But these seem driven by social norms, whereas molesting your sister seems counteracted by social norms.
A survey shows that gay male teenagers are several times more likely to conceive girls than straight male teenagers.
Out of the two possibilities of "the survey is wrong" and "gay male teenagers are several times more likely to conceive girls than straight male teenagers", which do you honestly think is more likely?
comment by Shmi (shminux) · 2023-10-08T03:25:21.134Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
When has this become a "gossip about the outgroup" site?
Replies from: DPiepgrass, frontier64↑ comment by DPiepgrass · 2023-11-20T22:16:44.285Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Neither Sam nor Annie count as "the outgroup". I'm sure some LWers disagree with Sam about how to manage the development of AGI, but if Sam visited LW I expect it would be a respectful two-way discussion, not a flame war like you'd expect with an "outgroup". (caveat: I don't know how attitudes about Sam will change as a result of the recent drama at OpenAI.)
↑ comment by frontier64 · 2023-10-12T02:23:00.706Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
My theory is that after FTX money dried up, admins have decided to take advantage of LessWrong's popularity in AI safety circles and run a discreet blackmail operation. It started with the post about the disgruntled ex-employees of the weird world-touring office company. That was the test and first warning shot: "Donate to us or we'll make sure there's popular LW posts that ruin your reputation." There were a few AI celebrities who got the message and donated to Lightcone. Those with less cunning however failed to donate in a timely fashion. Thus we're now seeing a string of posts lampooning their characters and attempting to cancel them.
I think there is a nonzero probability that this theory is true, in whole or in part, and thus believe my claims ought to receive greater attention and further investigation.
Replies from: habryka4↑ comment by habryka (habryka4) · 2023-10-12T03:03:37.146Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
(Just to be clear, this is false. Lightcone staff had no involvement whatsoever in making this post.)
Replies from: shminux↑ comment by Shmi (shminux) · 2023-10-12T04:32:47.676Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Yeah, that looks like a bizarre claim. I do not think there is any reason whatsoever to doubt yours or Ben's integrity.
comment by Adam Zerner (adamzerner) · 2023-10-08T02:54:32.626Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
If hypothetically we knew that the allegations were true, what actions would make sense for the AI Safety community to take? And how helpful would they be in reducing the chance of existential risks?
comment by Raemon · 2023-10-11T17:42:28.240Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Quick mod note: Some new users have showed up commenting on this post. I've been erring on the side of approving them even when they wouldn't meet our usual quality guidelines because this seems like a topic where silencing information could be worse than usual.
comment by ChristianKl · 2023-10-12T13:55:03.290Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
When it comes to remembering a childhood event that supposedly happened in 1998 in 2020, even if a process produced the memory that doesn't mean that it really happened. There are plenty of cases of "Satanistic ritual abuse" where there are memories but where we generally think those memories are not matching to real events.
Annie wanted to talk on air about the psychological phenomenon of projection: what we put on other people. The brothers steered the conversation into the idea of feedback — specifically, how to give feedback at work. After she posted the show online, Annie hoped her siblings, particularly Sam, would share it. He’d contributed to their brothers’ careers. Jack’s company, Lattice, had been through YC. “I was like, ‘You could just tweet the link. That would help. You don’t want to share your sister’s podcast that you came on?’” He did not. “Jack and Sam said it didn’t align with their businesses.”" I find this account to be plausible, yet do not think it entirely dispels the objection.
The fact that Sam and the other brothers showed up for the podcast suggests that they wanted to support her at that moment in time.
It seems that something happened that made him not willing to link to the podcast. It might be a random interpersonal conflict. Maybe Annie was very pushy about Sam linking and Sam didn't like that she was pushy so he didn't do it.
Annie carries out her plan as intended. However, Sam, as well as Annie's mother and some of her other relatives, exploit a loophole that allows them to withhold the money that Annie's Dad left to her in his will.
At some point, Annie is connected with one of Sam Altman's lawyers. Annie is told that she will only receive money if she starts taking Zoloft again (c.f. this source and this source), which she had stopped taking at age 22 (c.f. this source and this source.)
We don't know what loophole was used. This would be consistent with the loophole being a provision in her will that her father wanted her to take Zoloft to receive the money.
I am confused as to why there has been basically 0 coverage of her claims in the media? [...] So -- since it seems like no writer or journalist on the planet, besides me, for some reason, has ever properly answered this question
It's worth noting that this is the case. Given how long the claims have been made, it seems like the kind of thing that would have likely come to the attention of the New York Times and it's likely that they investigated the story.
The fact that they didn't publish a story most likely suggests that Sam either pressured them or the journalist investigating it found that there's not really a good story here after looking into the details.
Given the current stance of the NY Times on reporting in that area it seems unlikely that they would have let themselves be pressured not to publish if they think it would have been a good story.
It's unfortunate that the NY Times doesn't have a policy of publishing "We did an investigation into a story and don't think it has legs"-pieces. It's similar to publication bias in science where nonresults unfortunately aren't well published.
comment by lemonhope (lcmgcd) · 2023-11-22T11:07:02.008Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Re: plausibility of shadowban claims: You can pay clickfarms to mark someone as spam.
comment by unparadoxed · 2023-10-08T05:23:45.643Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Out of curiosity, is the motivation of this post to try to collate/figure out the truth/rationality of what actually happened? Or rather just a convenient place that is less susceptible to (alleged) censorship compared to other sites?
Replies from: pl5015↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-08T05:33:36.658Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
My motivation is pure. I am trying to (rationally) figure out the truth. Though, I'd be epistemologically naive if I expected you to believe me just because I told you "I'm a good person, trust me!".
Also -- I could care less about what people opine (without backing logical/rational arguments.) I could have chosen to do a big long rant with a bunch of clickbait-y quips and half-truthisms on X to try to jack up engagement and suck ad revenue out of X like a leach, but luckily I'm not an asshole (in my humble opinion, lol), so I came here instead. (Not to imply that you said that; I just say this more in an attempt to convey my motives and character.) I came to this site in particular because:
- I thought its users would probably understand the significance of a claim that Sam Altman has been quietly hiding the fact that he sexually assaulted his 4-year-old sister.
- I thought that its users would be good at calling me out on any logical/irrational bullshit that I (unintentionally) propagated. I want to be right, not to feel right. Say what you will about LessWrong, but its users do love to be quite exacting in their arguments about whether or not they think a person is making rational arguments. Indeed, I've modified this post, and my replies, many times in response to comments I've received in a way that I think has been to the benefit of the clarity of this post and its conveyance of my position. I'm glad that my karma score has jumped all over the place as I've updated my post - it means that LessWrong users are actually thinking critically about the degree to which I am being rational.
It seems to me, at this point, one of two things is true:
- Annie Altman is lying left, right,. and center, or is deluded, disconnected from reality, or just misinformed/misunderstanding things to the point that she believes she is telling the truth when she is not.
- She is not lying (at least, to some degree.)
Yes, I know we can wonder about base rates and what mental illness we think she may likely have or not have. And such discussions are valid. But I am more interested in (more) concrete research, at the moment, which I'm still working on.
This post is not yet done.
Btw., you don't have to agree with my (developing) interpretations here. The thing I think is most relevant about this post is the collection of information I've assembled, which has nothing to do with my interpretation of it.
Replies from: pktechgirl, Viliam, unparadoxed↑ comment by Elizabeth (pktechgirl) · 2023-10-08T05:54:14.073Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I have been pleasantly surprised by the job you've done with this post, but I really don't like your frame here.
We can debate whether Sam Altman's alleged offenses are relevant to this forum, but I don't think there's any case to be made that his sister's mental health or honesty is relevant to anyone here. In which case the question isn't "is Annie lying?", it's "what did Sam Altman do? is it a pattern" and perhaps "is there any additional context we should know?"[1].
- ^
In particular, children who commit sexual assault are often playing out their past abuse by adults. I believe this is less true the older the child is, and can't immediately find numbers for 13 year olds.
↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-08T06:08:42.807Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
The points you make are valid. You also make a good point about the importance of additional context.
I think I may have miscommunicated myself to some extent, based on the fact that I largely agree with your reply here.
The most clear, and most general framing of my motives is this:
- My overarching, most fundamental desire is for humanity to have a positive AI future.
- Because of this, I want to do my best to determine the validity of a claim(s) such as Annie's that asserts that the CEO of the world's (leading) artificial intelligence company / research org / lab / whatever you want to call it may actually be a person of highly questionable morals. The whole reason we got OpenAI in the first place is, apparently, because Elon freaked out when Larry Page called him a 'specist' back in 2013. (I will not bother commenting on whether or not I think this was ultimately a good thing. ) I very much want the person leading the development of and (attempts at) alignment of superintelligence to be a good person.
- The reason I have made this post here is because of (2), not because I thought that this forum was the right place to worry about the mental health of Annie Altman. While obviously I am concerned for Annie Altman herself independent of my superintelligence / Sam Altman / OpenAI concerns, the reason why I am posting "about Annie" here on LessWrong is because of the potential ramifications of what she is saying about Sam Altman. This isn't an "Annie Altman post"; it's a "Sam Altman post" where Annie Altman is the conduit.
Hopefully this framing of mine is more reasonable. And thank you for the compliment - I am trying my best to conduct myself rationally :)
↑ comment by Viliam · 2023-10-09T00:41:17.853Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I am trying to (rationally) figure out the truth.
I am curious how specifically you intend to figure out the truth of "something happened in private when I was 4 years old" claim. What kind of research could bring more light to this topic?
Replies from: Lukas_Gloor↑ comment by Lukas_Gloor · 2023-10-09T01:19:29.101Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
One benefit of boosting the visibility of accusations like this is that it makes it easier for others to come forward as well, should there be a pattern with other abuse victims. Or even just other people possibly having had highly concerning experiences of a non-sexual but still interpersonally exploitative nature.
If this doesn't happen, it's probabilistic evidence against the worst tail scenarios of character traits, which would be helpful if we could significantly discount that.
It's frustrating that we may never know, but one way to think about this is "we'd at least want to find out the truth in the worlds where it's easy to find out."
↑ comment by unparadoxed · 2023-10-08T05:51:16.188Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Okay, thanks for the context. I appreciate the effort you've taken to collate information.
FWIW the information you have presented makes it seem like you are building a case against Sam Altman moreso than Annie herself is. And looking at the information without consideration for the identities of the alleged perpetrator and victim, I would conclude that the allegations are more likely non-credible than not. (I can elaborate further on why I think so).
Replies from: pl5015↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-08T06:14:48.838Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Thanks!
Actually, right now, I believe that, based upon the information I currently have, it is improper for me to conclude that Sam Altman abused Annie Altman, and that the proper stance is I do not know if Annie Altman's claims are correct or not; therefore, it is only rational to hold Sam Altman innocent.
However -- I'm in the process of gathering more information. Once I've conducted research to a degree I consider satisfactory, I'd be happy to hear your reasoning if, at that point, our conclusions disagree. For now, I'll suggest that you wait until I finish up my research, though feel free to ignore this suggestion if you want :)
Replies from: Viliamcomment by WillPetillo · 2023-11-10T01:04:11.074Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I'd like to add some nuance to the "innocent until proven guilty" assumption in the concluding remarks.
Standard of evidence is a major question in legal matters and heavily context-dependent. "Innocent until proven guilty" is a popular understanding of the standard for criminal guilt and it makes sense for that to be "beyond a reasonable doubt" because the question at hand is whether a state founded on principles of liberty should take away the freedom of one of its citizens. Other legal disputes, such as in civil liability, have different standards of evidence, including "more likely than not" and "clear and convincing."
What standard we should apply here is an open question, which ultimately depends on what decisions we are trying to make. In this case, those questions seem to be: "can we trust Sam Altman's moral character to make high-stakes decisions?" and perhaps "(how much) should we signal-boost Annie's claims?". On the one hand, the "beyond a reasonable doubt" standard of criminal guilt seems far too high. On the other hand, instant condemnation without any consideration (as in, not even looking at the claims in any detail) seems too low.
Note that this question of standards is entirely separate from considerations of priors, base rates, and the like. All of those things matter, but they are questions of whether the standards are met. Without a clear understanding of what those standards even are, it's easy to get lost. I don't have a strong answer to this myself, but I encourage readers and anyone following up on this to consider:
1. What, if anything, am I actually trying to decide here?
2. How certain do I need to be in order to make those decisions?
comment by Jackson Silver (life-is-meaningless) · 2024-02-10T18:16:04.174Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I've been thinking about these allegations often in the context of Altman's firing circus a few months ago. I've known multiple people who suffered early childhood abuse/sexual trauma - and even dated one for a few tumultuous years a decade ago. I had a perfectly normal, happy childhood myself, and eventually came to learn that this disconnect between who they were most times vs times of high-stress was tremendously unintuitive (and initially intriguing) for me. It also seemed to facilitate an certain meticulousness in duplicity/compartmentalization of presenting the required image and confidently saying whatever needed to be said, which often yielded great success in many situations.
Elon Musk, as another example, has been quite public about his difficult childhood - and how it might have helped him professionally, and there is ample corroboration for this. There are also definite allusions to some psycho-sexual aspects.
I cannot help but see patterns of Extreme Disconnection [LW · GW] with Sam and consequently with OpenAI. There seems to be a clear division between people who are on his side, and people who aren't. He was quite literally fired for not being candid with the OpenAI's board, and his initial reaction was completely contradictory to the tone and messaging of "benefit for all mankind". The (mostly) seamless transition from a relentlessly vocalized emphasis on the "open" benevolent non-profit with an all-powerful board to whatever OpenAI is now, the selective silence of the board and especially Ilya Sutskever, presumably in the face of legal and financial muscle-flexing, Geoffrey Irving's tweet - all seem to speak to this idea of a world in which many well meaning, intelligent people who have never been in actual conflict with him, and have massive aligned incentives, would readily believe him to be a certain kind of "good" person X who would never extrapolate to be a kind of "bad" person Y, not accounting for the unconscious-level disconnection that undergirds this.
I guess I'm wondering if I'm being unreasonably concerned about this in regard to the "future of humanity", or just projecting my own biases and experiences.
comment by tglpr · 2024-03-18T10:56:20.416Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
One fact you're missing in your otherwise rather thorough collection of internet expression by Annie Altman:
You state several times that Sam Altman offered to by Annie Altman a house. However, she wrote in her Medium article that it was clear she would have no direct ownership of that house. In other words, Sam was buying a house for himself, and letting his sister live in it, on the condition of her silence and complicity:
"We spoke on the phone three times, and through these conversations I began to suspect the offer was another attempt at control. It seemed I would never have direct ownership of the house. Also, given the nature of my PTSD flashbacks, the house felt like an unsafe place to actually heal my mind and body."
Annie also stated in a Twitter post that there would be strings attached to this house, and she did not feel that living under a bargain of hushed control would be conducive to her healing from the silencing, gaslighting and PTSD she is trying to recover from, due to Sam Altman. It seems instead like an extension of the exact forms of control and hurt that she's trying to recover from.
https://allhumansarehuman.medium.com/how-we-do-anything-is-how-we-do-everything-d2e5ca024a38
comment by Yaakov A Sternberg (yaakov-a-sternberg) · 2023-11-18T04:09:06.656Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
1. There isn't a shred of evidence for her accusations.
2. He was just 13 years old (undeveloped PFC).
Saying "Annie has not yet provided what I would consider direct / indisputable proof that her claims are true" is a gross understatement. Not only isn't there "direct / indisputable proof", there isn't a shred of evidence to support her accusation, and in fact there are aspects of the claim that seem rather dubious (such SA getting her shadowbanned "across all platforms except onlyfans and pornhub", which aside from being difficult to pull off, seems inconsistent with him promoting her podcast).
This is likely why the accusations have not garnered attention. Given how huge a story this would be, it seems unlikely that there haven't been reporters that have tried to corroborate her story (and apparently were unable to do so).
↑ comment by jjaksic · 2023-11-19T02:35:52.375Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
What direct evidence can someone provide to prove that they were abused as a child? (Note that most 4-year-olds know nothing about sex or sexual abuse, leave alone how to respond to it; nor would they be able to record it.)
In Annie's case there's a good amount of circumstantial evidence, e.g. suicidal thoughts, anxiety and depression at a very young age, which are PTSD symptoms typical for victims of childhood sexual abuse. Beyond this, I can't imagine what other evidence she could possibly provide, even if it happened 100%.
My son was abused by a preschool teacher when he was 3 (not sexually, but verbally and physically). Once he told us that the teacher hit him and described how. We called his classmate's parents, and his classmate described what happened in the exact same way; then he shut his ears (as if trying to block the memory of my son crying) and said that he's afraid to talk about it. Both kids were terrified of going back to school, and my son had major PTSD and anxerty for over a year. We immediately reported abuse to all levels of the school administration, the county school licensing board, and the police. The teacher denied it and the school didn't have cameras. The final conclusion of the process was that "there's no evidence", which to the school was as good as "it didn't happen". The teacher continues to teach there to this day. 2 years later our son still remembers that teacher as being generally awful, but he seems to have suppressed the memory of this specific incident, because it was too painful.
If it's impossible to prove child abuse even when two parents (who know it happened, are supportive and know what they're doing) start the process immediately and go through all available channels, what chance does a 4-year-old have whose caregivers are either unaware or not supportive? What chance does a person have if they remember or realize what had happened after 20 years?
If you personally were abused as a child, how would you prove it?
Similarly with shadowbanning. It's not something that you can prove unless you somehow have access to social media service backends, or to correspondence between conspirators. Yes, it's very difficult to pull off for almost anyone, but Sam Altman definitely would had the clout required to pull it off. I do think it's odd that almost nobody so far has picked up this story, not even tabloids, if her posts have indeed been out there for this many years.
Your post reads like "she's full of sh*t". For sure you cannot confidently claim that. At most what you can say is that claims of this nature are often difficult to prove.
comment by siclabomines · 2023-10-08T23:13:05.112Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Thus, I must currently hold Sam Altman guilty
*innocent
Replies from: pl5015↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-08T23:27:50.159Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
My mistake. Fixed it. Thanks for pointing that out!
comment by xiann · 2023-11-10T05:23:09.957Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I know this post will seem very insensitive, so I understand if it gets downvoted (though I would also say that's the very reason sympathy-exploitation tactics work), but I would like to posit a 3rd fork to the "How to Interpret This" section: That Annie suffers from a combination of narcissistic personality disorder and false memory creation in service of the envy that disorder spawns. If someone attempted to fabricate a story that was both maximally sympathy-inducing and reputation-threatening for the target, I don't think you could do much better than the story laid out here within the confines of the factual public events of Annie & Sam's life.
If Annie's story turns out to be true and is proven to be, the outcome is that the general public would perceive Sam as:
A) Greedy to the extent of moral perversity in making a diamond out of his father against his consent.
B) A rapist for what he did to Annie.
C) An implied pedophile, even if Sam was himself a minor.
In addition, the public would also perceive Sam's brother as at least B & C as well, and Annie would likely win some sort of legal settlement from the abuse. All of objectives met for both someone suffering genuine abuse as well as someone who did not but did suffer from narcissism and felt wronged by more successful siblings.
Besides this, the amount of disorders Annie has is itself a red flag to me; not only is having a litany of less physiologically-visible disorders rather statistically-unlikely in the general population but also a more common trait in people who exploit social charity/sympathy for gain, such as those running low-level welfare benefit scams or who falsely pose as homeless for charity, many of whom suffer from what has become known as "vulnerable" narcissism as opposed to the classic grandiose variety. I wish it were the case that every ADHD sufferer with nerve pinching & chronic anxiety/depression was really someone who is trying their best to become whole, but anyone with experience in the system (such as civil servants) knows that's not the case.
The other red flags to me are the Zoloft prescription (weak) as well as claims of shadowbanning (stronger), more that someone might have abnormal (and possibly exploitative) psychology or be more prone to false memory creation than to actually being exploitative directly. I find it difficult to believe even a Valley insider like Sam could get Annie simultaneously shadowbanned on that many platforms simultaneously, while somehow not touching her sex work accounts which are more grey area and skittish legally.
That being said, all of this are rather weak evidence on its own. I figured I'd offer my perspective as someone more working-class than most LWers, who's met their share of narcissistic/crab-in-a-bucket people who've falsely gone after their own more successful (though not nearly as much as Sam) siblings.
Replies from: jjaksic↑ comment by jjaksic · 2023-11-19T03:20:26.734Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
the amount of disorders Annie has is itself a red flag to me
Are a person's mental disorders (especially ones that started in early childhood) the person's own fault, or are they possibly a consequence of trauma or abuse? If you abuse someone as a child, they are very likely to develop some mental disorders (the greater the abuse, the more severe and long-lasting they're likely to be). Is it then fair to say, "This person's claims of abuse have no merit, just look at their mental disorders" (as in, a "crazy person's" claims should not be believed)?
comment by tglpr · 2024-03-18T11:00:57.449Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Shadow banning of people in sex work is quite common. Doesn't necessarily mean it's targeted against her. If she put up any sexually explicit content of any kind or mentions "sex work" on platforms like Instagram, it results pretty quickly in her posts no longer showing up on a general feed, and her being only searchable when her name is explicitly written by a direct connection/follower.
"Shadow banning" is a common thing on the internet that people in the sex industry have complained about for years as an unfair form of censorship:
https://www.modalitygroup.co/post/how-shadow-banning-is-impacting-the-sex-tech-industry
https://hackinghustling.org/posting-into-the-void-content-moderation/
comment by SebastianG (JohnBuridan) · 2023-10-08T03:02:51.673Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
When I saw the topic, my first thought is that the epistemics of discussions of this sort (he said - she said stories about sins and perceptions) are inherently bad and cause more harm to those who engage with them than good. But the post isn't terrible quality.
Nonetheless, I am pre-committing to downvoting any future post about the personal relationships of famous people, which I take to be the category of thing, I am objecting to.
Replies from: JohnBuridan, adamzerner↑ comment by SebastianG (JohnBuridan) · 2023-10-10T21:04:26.388Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I stand by this comment.
What could cause me to change my mind? Here are my cruxes.
If character assessment posts about particular people can be shown to cause a useful actions or ways of thinking for readers more often than they distract readers by unverifiable gossip.
If character assessment posts about particular people is used as a case study for reasoning about particular people to teach a broader lesson.
If character assessment posts about particular people allows community members to protect themselves from a real danger.
However, my beliefs are that these types of posts are juicy gossip that fuel idle speculation and status hierarchy games and serve no purpose except to make those who engage with content worse people who think more simplistically about human behavior and motivation. Even though this particular post is done fairly well for what it is, I think it is "bad form" and, perhaps, on the wrong site.
↑ comment by Adam Zerner (adamzerner) · 2023-10-10T22:07:48.529Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
It makes me happy to see such a cruxy comment like this. Thanks.
The cruxes seem reasonable. However, I feel like it's appropriate to upvote/downvote based on how confident you are on your position for each of them. Like, if it's really clear that a particular post will have the consequence of pushing people really far towards distracting gossip and away from useful actions, then downvote. If the opposite, maybe upvote. If it's unclear, probably do nothing.
If character assessment posts about particular people can be shown to cause a useful actions or ways of thinking for readers more often than they distract readers by unverifiable gossip.
Because this post is about the person who might be the most powerful person in the domain of AI, and thus is perhaps the most important person in the entire world, or even perhaps throughout history, I think it's actually a decently important topic. Because of magnitude, not probability. Like, even if there is a low probability that we figure out the truth, and of P(useful action | figure out truth)
, the magnitude of the positive impact could very well be large, and so it seems to me like a topic that is plausibly worth exploring. Enough that I upvoted it.
If character assessment posts about particular people is used as a case study for reasoning about particular people to teach a broader lesson.
I think I personally have a tendency to see people like Sam Altman and Elon Musk and get caught up in thinking they're so awesome, and then am a victim of the halo effect. I find concrete examples of "wait, they frequently do things that aren't very awesome" helpful. I suspect the same is true for many others.
↑ comment by Adam Zerner (adamzerner) · 2023-10-08T05:57:22.501Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
epistemics of discussions of this sort (he said - she said stories about sins and perceptions) are inherently bad
It makes things more difficult, but by wielding Bayescraft appropriately [LW · GW], discussion and updating can certainly still occur.
cause more harm to those who engage with them than good
I think [LW(p) · GW(p)] that is usually true. However, it is still true that some people should be having the conversation. I like what Raemon proposed [LW(p) · GW(p)] about some sort of "jury duty".
comment by Aleena Vigoda (aleena-vigoda) · 2024-06-19T23:27:45.159Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
This is my first post in Less Wrong — I discovered rationalism very recently (like, during Less Online recent) and am still learning the LW vocab/exploring concepts etc so please bear with me!
In fact, my comment is more of a question: I'd like to contribute a viewpoint coming from personal anecdote rather than factual evidence. Most of the discourse I'm reading is references to studies or statistical analysis. There are some impersonal anecdotes, eg people bringing up neighbours and friends-of-friends, so it does look like there's some leeway.
However the perspective I want to share is a very emotional, rather than factual analysis — a lot of the comments I'm reading bring up material references to things that I've personally felt: am I making this up? How do I know if this is a false memory or if I'm re-experiencing something that truly happened to me? Are these memories just a symptom of drug-induced psychosis? If some of my memories are false, does that invalidate all of them? etcetcetc — and I'm not sure if that kind of analysis is something that the community considers productive to discussion.
Would love your feedback :)
comment by 9ixiPeLGk · 2023-11-18T03:54:22.562Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
It's hard to know if any of the information is true, but starting with the lowest hanging fruit:
Why insist she needs to be on Zoloft to receive the money from her father's will?
It does seem like a type of economic abuse not give her financial stability or insist on certain terms for it.
Sexually abused or not, she is not well if she has to do survival sex work. Why not provide her with modest financial stability with no strings attached, it can't be worse than the situation she is in now.
It's hard to see where Sam Altman is coming from on this when he helped create technology that may necessitate universal basic income. It seems like a contradiction, and that it's more about controlling her.
If the father's will has factually been withheld, it makes me raise an eyebrow.
comment by Ejnar Håkonsen (ejnar-hakonsen) · 2023-11-18T02:16:09.806Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
3 factors I haven't seen highlighted:
1) While the base rate for sexual abuse, by a sibling, of a toddler is already extremely low (sexual abuse of children is somewhat rare. 'Abuse of toddlers' and 'abuse by siblings' are both much rarer subsets), the claim that both of her brothers were abusing a sibling toddler makes it drastically rarer. Even for identical twins, more mundane sexual preferences such as homosexuality only have ~33% correlation. Both her brothers having the outrageously rare sexual proclivity to abuse a toddler sister is close to astronomical odds. At that point we're instead considering odds of something in their home environment being profoundly broken.
2) The claims of sexual abuse seem to stem from Sam's childhood. In the hypothetical event that the claims are truthful and something was so broken in their home that these sorts of events unfolded from multiple children, that's a complex situation of neglect with even the abusive children being victims of neglect or abuse. In such a circumstance, it would be a critical distinction whether those behaviors continued into recent years or whether they grew up in neglectful/abusive circumstances and have since found a path out of those patterns.
3) There are ways her narrative could have been suppressed without it being evidence of abuse:
I've worked with victims of sexual abuse since 2016 and this narrative strikes me as not impossible but also not likely. It bears strong resemblance to someone with Borderline Personality Disorder that I once encountered before I became a therapist. For years I and many others supported her and her many narratives about all the abuses her family put her through her entire life. Only later did I encounter her sister who had strong trauma about any contact with her and told me how that woman had basically ruined all their lives. In the years, following, I was able to identify many independent sources that her narrative had been made up and that she had put many others besides her family through similar patterns of her being the psychological and reputational abuser (and clearly a victim in her own right - her sickness was severe, and it hardly makes sense to hold her responsible for what she did).
When libel is being spread and when a sick family member does harm to herself as well as her family, many will want to suppress that narrative to the extent they are able - even people with much less influence than Sam. If they either wield power and influence or they are able to provide a credible range of people testifying to the poor health of the person and the untruth of the person, it's plausible that moderators will attempt to assist. (Clearly a suppression could also be a bad-faith action to hide abuse. Just pointing out that I've seen legitimate victims of family members with poor mental health act in this way, and basically everyone involved in the situation acting in support of that as reasonable measures.)
Replies from: DPiepgrass↑ comment by DPiepgrass · 2023-11-20T22:31:02.089Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Annie didn't say specifically that Jack sexually abused her, though; her language indicated some unspecified lesser abuse that may or may not have been sexual.
comment by James_Miller · 2023-10-07T19:04:51.305Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
"I would like to note that this is my first post on LessWrong." I find this troubling given the nature of this post. It would have been better if this post was made by someone with a long history of posting to LessWrong, or someone writing under a real name that could be traced to a real identity. As someone very concerned with AI existential risk, I greatly worry that the movement might be discredited. I am not accusing the author of this post of engaging in improper actions.
Replies from: jimrandomh, pl5015↑ comment by jimrandomh · 2023-10-07T19:31:57.212Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
You should think less about PR [LW · GW] and more about truth.
Replies from: James_Miller↑ comment by James_Miller · 2023-10-07T20:21:10.424Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
By "discredited" I didn't mean receive bad but undeserved publicity. I meant operate in a way that would cause reasonable people to distrust you.
↑ comment by pythagoras5015 (pl5015) · 2023-10-07T19:22:15.595Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
I understand your concerns, and appreciate your note that you are not accusing me of engaging in improper actions.
Your points are valid. I do acknowledge that the circumstances under which I am making this post, as well as my various departures from objective writing -- that is, the instances in this post in which I depart from {solely providing information detailing what Annie has claimed -- naturally raise concerns about the motives driving my creation of this post.
I will say:
- Regarding the fact that this is my first LessWrong post -- I acknowledge that this is unfortunate considering the gravity of the issue which this post addresses.
- Regarding my anonymity -- I purposefully chose to make this post anonymously. This post discusses a very, very serious topic - the fact that Sam Altman's sister, Annie Altman, is claiming that he has severely (e.g. sexually) abused her. If Annie's claims turn out to be (provably) true, this would likely warrant an immediate dismissal of Sam Altman from his current position position as CEO of OpenAI, as well as from a variety of other impactful positions he currently holds. Given the gravity of this post and its potential ramifications, I chose to make this post anonymously.
- While the reliability of this post does suffer for the reasons you noted, I will say that I tried to largely focus this post around information originating either directly from Annie herself or from Elizabeth Weil (who had direct communication with Annie) in way that is independent of my (understandably suspicion-inducing) identity (er, lack thereof.) I wanted this post to be centered around Annie, and what she has claimed, rather than my information-limited interpretation of her and the claims she's made.
comment by DPiepgrass · 2023-11-20T22:38:15.309Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
While Annie didn't reply to the "confirm/deny" tweet, she did quote-tweet it―twice:
Wow, thank you. This feels like a study guide version of a big chunk of my therapy discussions. Yes can confirm accuracy. Need some time to process, and then can specify details of what happened with both my Dad and Grandma’s will and trust
Thank you more than words for your time and attention researching. All accurate in the current form, except there was no lawyer connected to the “I’ll give you rent and physical therapy money if you go back on Zoloft”
comment by denyeverywhere (daniel-radetsky) · 2023-11-10T08:30:53.529Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
My default is that people shouldn't be judged by random strangers on the internet over the claims of other random strangers on the internet. As random strangers to Sam, we should not want to be in judgment of him over the claims of some other random stranger. This isn't good or normal or healthy.
Moreover, it is unlikely that we will devote the required amount of time & effort to really know what we're talking about, which we should if we're going to attack him or signal boost attacks. And if we are going to devote the great amount of time necessary, couldn't we be doing something more useful or fun with our time? A lot of good video games have come out recently, for example.
It would be different if I knew Sam personally. I would ask him about it, see what he had to say, and draw a conclusion. It might be worth it to me to know the truth. But I don't. This has the same flavor to me as being really invested in any more conventional celebrity. Like apparently there was some kerfuffle with Johnny Depp and Amber Heard a while ago. My response to that was that I genuinely could not care less. In fact, I actively did not want this bullshit taking up space in my brain. I intentionally avoided learning anything about it. And I'm glad I did. Please don't tell me what it was about.
comment by Review Bot · 2024-07-01T08:34:40.921Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
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comment by GodlySynapse · 2023-11-18T23:37:32.783Z · LW(p) · GW(p)
Not even log(n) of Annie's least alarming allegation apparently have evidence. I'm reasonably surprised the Annie allegations were given a platform, especially with no substantial evidence in play.
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Intriguing that this unevidenced sequence was permitted on LessWrong.
I invite anyone to substantiate any of the thread, with concrete evidence.
If such evidence is found, then Altman deserves punishment. If not, then the original poster should be prosecuted accordingly.